Acacia Thay DëQueer - Fae/They/Xe/He/She
@acaciadequeer.bsky.social
🎬Artist, writer, researcher, filmmaker, intimacy professional, choreographer, & educator
🧚🏻♂️Genderfluid disabled polyamorous
🎓Educated @ Vassar College & Principal Intimacy Professionals
🤷🏻Chronically too much & not enough
📍WEBSITE
https://acacia.gay
🧚🏻♂️Genderfluid disabled polyamorous
🎓Educated @ Vassar College & Principal Intimacy Professionals
🤷🏻Chronically too much & not enough
📍WEBSITE
https://acacia.gay
July 20, 2025 at 3:32 PM
July 14, 2025 at 5:06 PM
I’m to the age where being called “young” is a complement. But still young enough that I call people older than me “adults.”
July 8, 2025 at 1:56 PM
I’m to the age where being called “young” is a complement. But still young enough that I call people older than me “adults.”
I’m not a poodle. I’m the ocean. You can’t train or tame me. You can only direct and redirect. And when my emotions spill out over whatever box you’ve put me in, you’d better be prepared.
June 23, 2025 at 9:04 PM
I’m not a poodle. I’m the ocean. You can’t train or tame me. You can only direct and redirect. And when my emotions spill out over whatever box you’ve put me in, you’d better be prepared.
I love teaching AP World History. Kids are usually learning seriously about the world and writing for the first time. I love showing them how to study history, gather evidence, and support their argument. 🥰🥰🥰
Book a lesson with me now:
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#APWorldHistory
Book a lesson with me now:
www.wyzant.com/refer/tutor/...
#APWorldHistory
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June 22, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I love teaching AP World History. Kids are usually learning seriously about the world and writing for the first time. I love showing them how to study history, gather evidence, and support their argument. 🥰🥰🥰
Book a lesson with me now:
www.wyzant.com/refer/tutor/...
#APWorldHistory
Book a lesson with me now:
www.wyzant.com/refer/tutor/...
#APWorldHistory
June 20, 2025 at 8:41 PM
I help actors feel safe and supported in intimate scenes.
It’s called intimacy coordination—and it’s some of the most meaningful work I do.
I wrote about it here, through the lens of a compelling indie film I loved working on:
www.principalintimacy.com/blog/perfect...
#IntimacyCoordinator
It’s called intimacy coordination—and it’s some of the most meaningful work I do.
I wrote about it here, through the lens of a compelling indie film I loved working on:
www.principalintimacy.com/blog/perfect...
#IntimacyCoordinator
Principal Intimacy Professionals
Writer/Performer Amanda Jane Stern and Intimacy Coordinator Acacia DëQueer reflect on their collaboration on “Perfectly Good Moment”.
www.principalintimacy.com
June 16, 2025 at 3:43 PM
I help actors feel safe and supported in intimate scenes.
It’s called intimacy coordination—and it’s some of the most meaningful work I do.
I wrote about it here, through the lens of a compelling indie film I loved working on:
www.principalintimacy.com/blog/perfect...
#IntimacyCoordinator
It’s called intimacy coordination—and it’s some of the most meaningful work I do.
I wrote about it here, through the lens of a compelling indie film I loved working on:
www.principalintimacy.com/blog/perfect...
#IntimacyCoordinator
Decisions decisions. Which brand do you like better? Behr from Home Depot, Valspar from Lowe’s, or Dutch Boy from Menards?
#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
June 13, 2025 at 5:30 PM
Decisions decisions. Which brand do you like better? Behr from Home Depot, Valspar from Lowe’s, or Dutch Boy from Menards?
#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
Tudor explains my frustration, saying genre “can only be isolated on the basis of ‘principal characteristics’, which can only be discovered from the films themselves after they have been isolated” (Tudor).
#GenreStudies #FilmStudies #TVHistory
#GenreStudies #FilmStudies #TVHistory
a man in a suit and tie is making a funny face with his eyes closed and his hands folded .
ALT: a man in a suit and tie is making a funny face with his eyes closed and his hands folded .
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June 9, 2025 at 7:41 PM
Tudor explains my frustration, saying genre “can only be isolated on the basis of ‘principal characteristics’, which can only be discovered from the films themselves after they have been isolated” (Tudor).
#GenreStudies #FilmStudies #TVHistory
#GenreStudies #FilmStudies #TVHistory
June 4, 2025 at 3:37 PM
At 16, a boy told me he wouldn’t have sex with me even if it was the apocalypse - like I was a bad apple with a bitter taste. Now, at the age of 28, I know how to give people a taste they can’t get enough of. Some things take time. Personally, I plan on hitting my peak at the ripe old age of 60.
June 3, 2025 at 8:51 PM
At 16, a boy told me he wouldn’t have sex with me even if it was the apocalypse - like I was a bad apple with a bitter taste. Now, at the age of 28, I know how to give people a taste they can’t get enough of. Some things take time. Personally, I plan on hitting my peak at the ripe old age of 60.
Today I told my therapist I love her at the end of my session. She said it gave her “warm fuzzy feelings.” So obviously I am capable of developing healthy attachments with the people in my life.
#Therapy #AttachmentStyle #HealthyAttachment #TherapyJoke
#Therapy #AttachmentStyle #HealthyAttachment #TherapyJoke
May 27, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Today I told my therapist I love her at the end of my session. She said it gave her “warm fuzzy feelings.” So obviously I am capable of developing healthy attachments with the people in my life.
#Therapy #AttachmentStyle #HealthyAttachment #TherapyJoke
#Therapy #AttachmentStyle #HealthyAttachment #TherapyJoke
Today I found my first shirt/binder combo that makes my chest look flat without obviously outing me. I’m so happy. I was beginning to worry that somehow my body was broken and I would never achieve any sort of masculine look in a cis way. YAY!!!!😊
#Transgender #Nonbinary #Genderfluid #Binder #AFAB
#Transgender #Nonbinary #Genderfluid #Binder #AFAB
May 26, 2025 at 7:01 PM
Today I found my first shirt/binder combo that makes my chest look flat without obviously outing me. I’m so happy. I was beginning to worry that somehow my body was broken and I would never achieve any sort of masculine look in a cis way. YAY!!!!😊
#Transgender #Nonbinary #Genderfluid #Binder #AFAB
#Transgender #Nonbinary #Genderfluid #Binder #AFAB
Instead of saying I want to “settle” someplace long term, I’m going to start saying “become part of the local ecosystem.” It decolonizes the idea of living someplace. It emphasizes my interest in community values. And it paints an accurate picture of the fae I want to be, living in nature.
May 22, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Instead of saying I want to “settle” someplace long term, I’m going to start saying “become part of the local ecosystem.” It decolonizes the idea of living someplace. It emphasizes my interest in community values. And it paints an accurate picture of the fae I want to be, living in nature.
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Friendly reminder to use inclusive language when talking about abortion, because trans, nonbinary, and gender-diverse people get abortions too. ☺️ #AbortionIsHealthCare #AbortionIsGenderAffirming
May 20, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Friendly reminder to use inclusive language when talking about abortion, because trans, nonbinary, and gender-diverse people get abortions too. ☺️ #AbortionIsHealthCare #AbortionIsGenderAffirming
Exciting news: I’ve been selected as a Judge Fellow for the Arlington International Film Festival!!!! 😄😍🥰
#FilmFestival #FilmCritic #FestivalJudge
#FilmFestival #FilmCritic #FestivalJudge
May 18, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Exciting news: I’ve been selected as a Judge Fellow for the Arlington International Film Festival!!!! 😄😍🥰
#FilmFestival #FilmCritic #FestivalJudge
#FilmFestival #FilmCritic #FestivalJudge
Reposted by Acacia Thay DëQueer - Fae/They/Xe/He/She
On this International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia, we not only stand with LGBTQIA+ communities — we work to amplify them. That means fighting for sets that mitigate risk, authentic representation, and space for queer artists to tell their own stories.
#IntimacyCoordinator
#IntimacyCoordinator
May 17, 2025 at 6:11 PM
On this International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia, we not only stand with LGBTQIA+ communities — we work to amplify them. That means fighting for sets that mitigate risk, authentic representation, and space for queer artists to tell their own stories.
#IntimacyCoordinator
#IntimacyCoordinator
Diarrhea💩 ——> Menstrual Pad🩸 ——> Gender Dysphoria🧔🏻♀️ ——> Anxiety Attack😖
#💩 #GenderDysphoria #Nonbinary #Transgender
#💩 #GenderDysphoria #Nonbinary #Transgender
May 17, 2025 at 12:41 AM
Diarrhea💩 ——> Menstrual Pad🩸 ——> Gender Dysphoria🧔🏻♀️ ——> Anxiety Attack😖
#💩 #GenderDysphoria #Nonbinary #Transgender
#💩 #GenderDysphoria #Nonbinary #Transgender
May 15, 2025 at 10:39 PM
May 15, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Our air mattress popped in the middle of the night. We took it as an opportunity to clean out and rearrange the van for our next phase. Feeling very happy with how we spun the situation into a good one. 😊
#VanLife #PositiveSpin
#VanLife #PositiveSpin
May 13, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Our air mattress popped in the middle of the night. We took it as an opportunity to clean out and rearrange the van for our next phase. Feeling very happy with how we spun the situation into a good one. 😊
#VanLife #PositiveSpin
#VanLife #PositiveSpin
I like the prewiring process. It was intimidating, but it’s actually going really well! We’re about a third of the way done. 😊⚡️🔌
#VanLife #PreWire #Electrical
#VanLife #PreWire #Electrical
May 10, 2025 at 5:03 PM
I like the prewiring process. It was intimidating, but it’s actually going really well! We’re about a third of the way done. 😊⚡️🔌
#VanLife #PreWire #Electrical
#VanLife #PreWire #Electrical
Fifteen minutes. Three hundred fifty six steps. Thirty five floors.
That’s a three hundred and seventy five percent increase from two weeks ago! 😱💪🏼
#Workout #Exercise #PlannetFitness
That’s a three hundred and seventy five percent increase from two weeks ago! 😱💪🏼
#Workout #Exercise #PlannetFitness
May 9, 2025 at 3:39 PM
Fifteen minutes. Three hundred fifty six steps. Thirty five floors.
That’s a three hundred and seventy five percent increase from two weeks ago! 😱💪🏼
#Workout #Exercise #PlannetFitness
That’s a three hundred and seventy five percent increase from two weeks ago! 😱💪🏼
#Workout #Exercise #PlannetFitness