Andrew™
@anxovert.bsky.social
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56yo Australian genderqueer/feminine-of-centre ASD male. Married with three adult kids. He/him. Nintendo Switch friend code: SW-0942-4628-4596
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anxovert.bsky.social
To my ear, ‘panties’ are children’s clothes. ‘Knickers’ has an erotic feel and ‘underwear’ does for everyday use.

Different strokes, and all that.
anxovert.bsky.social
Reading affords me a glimpse into other lives, usually—thanks to a steady diet of romance novels—lives that are (ultimately) free of anxiety and self-doubt.
anxovert.bsky.social
THIS!
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Being a bibliophile is fun because I get to say things like “I’m reading” when I’m actually dissociating in silence.
anxovert.bsky.social
Thanks! You and me both.
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Not a fan of that feeling. Even if I have the next book, I find it hard going straight to it. When I finish a book I’m ready for something different, then by the time I get back to pick up from the cliffhanger I’ve forgotten too much.

And so I pretty much avoid series.
anxovert.bsky.social
Thanks, Nellie :)

I hate flying (and the expense of…) so I didn’t make this trip, but our daughter is moving to within driving distance in a few months, so I’ll get to see a lot of them then.

I’m loving having reading back. I feel like me again.
anxovert.bsky.social
Fifth day without TV.

This will change tomorrow when my wife has returned from ten days visiting our new granddaughter, but I’m going to make an effort to make TV the joint entertainment it used to be while maintaining my neely regained reading mojo.

It might work. 🤞
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After some thought I’m giving a shout out to Morrissey and Lloyd Cole.

And Neil Hannon of The Divine Comedy, though I’m aware of my massive fanboyism when assessing his work.
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I still rate and review on three review sites, and I share on bsky where I have 1,000+ followers and a healthy 0.5% engagement chance.

“It doesn’t matter if it’s only a sentence” goes hand-in-hand with “all reviews help”, and I’m still doing that.

I even post review/comments on literotica.com 😁
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That was my line for years, but I 'like' every review I read, and once Meta became untenable for me reviews became too much effort for yawps into the void.

I'll put ten minutes into a 300 character post for nobody, but I won't spend upwards of two hours on three paragraphs, as I did for years.
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I've stopped putting energy into reviews. I used to spend hours on them and I have hundreds on Amazon AU and so few likes that I decided they were going nowhere. I'm not in it for likes, but with no feedback they felt like a waste of time.

Now my "reviews" are whatever fits in a single bsky post.
anxovert.bsky.social
'When I Was Cruel' (2002) is the last EC album I truly loved, but I still listen to everything he puts out.

If I used the descriptor "the bomb" I'd say he was the bomb for the best part of three decades. No mean feat.
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I try to share what I read as a way around that, even if some of my reading is kinda niche and might out someone off.

I always enjoy your writing and every time I see a link to your medium stuff I'm tempted to re-subscribe, but their 'Friends Of Medium' tier is still killing it for me.
anxovert.bsky.social
The only place I see an algorithmic feed is on YouTube, and they get it wrong and blow out my feed with irrelevant tripe every 2-3 days.
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anxovert.bsky.social
'ver voice' should of course be 'her voice'

can't wait for Bluesky to add an 'edit post' function
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ This hit pretty hard. Cuckolding isn't my kink, but I enjoy Matthew Lee's books in the way I can enjoy a slasher film without wanting to be murdered.

I wish the story was from Vanessa's perspective, and not her husband's, but there's enough of ver voice here for me to enjoy.

📚👀 #rombks 💙📚🌶️
"Vanessa Comes Around" book cover by Matthew Lee.

The cover features a photograph of a woman sitting on a white bed, hunched forward with her knees drawn up and her face hidden in her hands and hair. She is wearing minimal clothing, and the lighting is soft.

The title is written in large white font over the image.