Bex (not that kind of dr)
@bexilla.bsky.social
Non(currently) researching biology/genetics post-doc, cyclist, competitive shuffleboard player. trans dyke to watch out for she/her🏳️⚧️
Sentences overheard in my backyard that make me crumble into dust “i’ve had spotify since i was ten”
February 6, 2026 at 3:06 PM
Sentences overheard in my backyard that make me crumble into dust “i’ve had spotify since i was ten”
So now that the bar has announced it i can say it here: i’m no longer working as a bartender. we shut with almost no notice so i didn’t even know i had already worked my last shift. glad i’m not working late hours anymore but i really didn’t want it to end like this
January 5, 2026 at 10:54 AM
So now that the bar has announced it i can say it here: i’m no longer working as a bartender. we shut with almost no notice so i didn’t even know i had already worked my last shift. glad i’m not working late hours anymore but i really didn’t want it to end like this
Stepped over to the side of a partially blocked brooklyn sidewalk to let peter dinklage and his adorable dog pass going the other way
Right folks. Feeling rather down at the moment so bringing back an oldie
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
December 30, 2025 at 1:04 PM
Stepped over to the side of a partially blocked brooklyn sidewalk to let peter dinklage and his adorable dog pass going the other way
Probably says that something is deeply off with me that listening to ethel cain makes me sad i’m not raising my future children in the states
December 27, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Probably says that something is deeply off with me that listening to ethel cain makes me sad i’m not raising my future children in the states
Can any bartenders on here explain the rise of the “pornstar” martini and why everyone expects uou to have one? Flummoxed over here
December 23, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Can any bartenders on here explain the rise of the “pornstar” martini and why everyone expects uou to have one? Flummoxed over here
I think peak postes energy for me is after bar close. Unfortunately that is nadir human energy, alas
November 28, 2025 at 1:11 AM
I think peak postes energy for me is after bar close. Unfortunately that is nadir human energy, alas
Also transcendental youth is the best album to listen to in an empty bar you just closed on thanksgiving
November 28, 2025 at 1:06 AM
Also transcendental youth is the best album to listen to in an empty bar you just closed on thanksgiving
First thanksgiving out of the states since i was 19. Gotta say a day trip to delft and a bar shift is a pretty ok way to spend it.
Though the customer who complained about a perfect negroni having too much vermouth and being too bitter gets no thanks
Though the customer who complained about a perfect negroni having too much vermouth and being too bitter gets no thanks
November 28, 2025 at 12:54 AM
First thanksgiving out of the states since i was 19. Gotta say a day trip to delft and a bar shift is a pretty ok way to spend it.
Though the customer who complained about a perfect negroni having too much vermouth and being too bitter gets no thanks
Though the customer who complained about a perfect negroni having too much vermouth and being too bitter gets no thanks
Reposted by Bex (not that kind of dr)
Today is TDoR and
G.L.O.S.S. - Trans Day of Revenge (2016) [Full Album]
YouTube video by Max Alejandro
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November 20, 2025 at 5:33 AM
Today is TDoR and
I keep forgetting post shift posts are afternoon posts if you’re west of amsterdam
November 12, 2025 at 1:19 AM
I keep forgetting post shift posts are afternoon posts if you’re west of amsterdam
Oddly, one of my biggest regrets is that i really wish i had skipped mandatory chem lab in college to help record/engineer waxahatchee for live radio (would have failed the ciurse if u skipped as it turns out. Still i regret it)
November 12, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Oddly, one of my biggest regrets is that i really wish i had skipped mandatory chem lab in college to help record/engineer waxahatchee for live radio (would have failed the ciurse if u skipped as it turns out. Still i regret it)
I don’t think any of my followers are scientist but if you know anyone hiring for biology post docs/biotech in the netherlands lmk. Been here fir a while and still can’t find a full time science job (i’m bartending part time)
October 31, 2025 at 7:17 PM
I don’t think any of my followers are scientist but if you know anyone hiring for biology post docs/biotech in the netherlands lmk. Been here fir a while and still can’t find a full time science job (i’m bartending part time)
Getting back on my swords bullshit this week. Gonna build a pell and get back to structured practice. Meyer squares with no target just aren’t cutting it
October 21, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Getting back on my swords bullshit this week. Gonna build a pell and get back to structured practice. Meyer squares with no target just aren’t cutting it
Unsolicited lambic pic
October 12, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Unsolicited lambic pic
I know it’s small potatoes compared to what’s going on but it’s awful how half the job listings on a search for “post doc stem cells” or similar are jus AI training gigs
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
September 24, 2025 at 12:52 PM
I know it’s small potatoes compared to what’s going on but it’s awful how half the job listings on a search for “post doc stem cells” or similar are jus AI training gigs
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I get a lot of unrelated jobs/companies in my postdoc searches
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
September 16, 2025 at 1:47 PM
I get a lot of unrelated jobs/companies in my postdoc searches
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
I know it’s ingrained but after working at a bar fir a bit. EVERYBODY. Orders NA stuff. No guilt nevessary. We love serving it
August 1, 2025 at 5:39 PM
I know it’s ingrained but after working at a bar fir a bit. EVERYBODY. Orders NA stuff. No guilt nevessary. We love serving it
The birds in my backyard have it out for me. One just shit ON MY PHONE while i was out there. What did i do to deserve this
August 1, 2025 at 12:26 PM
The birds in my backyard have it out for me. One just shit ON MY PHONE while i was out there. What did i do to deserve this
Some nights working the bar is just work and some nights it’s wonderful
Tonight was the second type
Tonight was the second type
July 28, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Some nights working the bar is just work and some nights it’s wonderful
Tonight was the second type
Tonight was the second type
How wack is it to go to a fancy wedding with a day old tattoo on your arm?
July 24, 2025 at 4:03 PM
How wack is it to go to a fancy wedding with a day old tattoo on your arm?
Vocal confit
Vocal sous vide
vocal butter poach
July 24, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Vocal confit
New profile pic: bartendin’
July 20, 2025 at 11:31 AM
New profile pic: bartendin’
A lot had lead up to this (really really liking various small feminine experiments etc) but the final crack came when i heard the rewritten version of against me!’s pretty girls (replacing “irresponsibility” with “gender identity”)
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
TRANS WOMEN OF BLUESKY:
What was your egg cracking moment?
When did you know you were trans? What made you realize?
And did you know you were a woman right away, or did you pass through other identities first
What was your egg cracking moment?
When did you know you were trans? What made you realize?
And did you know you were a woman right away, or did you pass through other identities first
July 15, 2025 at 2:01 PM
A lot had lead up to this (really really liking various small feminine experiments etc) but the final crack came when i heard the rewritten version of against me!’s pretty girls (replacing “irresponsibility” with “gender identity”)
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
Great news from last night, the newest hire where i bartend is also trans femme! Love working at a queer bar
July 12, 2025 at 9:39 AM
Great news from last night, the newest hire where i bartend is also trans femme! Love working at a queer bar
Fun recent project: listening to all the records i took with me back to back in alphabetical order. Currently on B for Bowie
July 3, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Fun recent project: listening to all the records i took with me back to back in alphabetical order. Currently on B for Bowie