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blondbear.bsky.social
Embracing daddyhood
@blondbear.bsky.social
A middle aged blond bear learning to embrace his dad side.

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I used to have these knee highs that were basically a thicker nylon pantyhose. So comfortable and my legs felt good. Now, I can’t get them. Currently wearing ankle socks due to leg edema.
February 5, 2026 at 9:49 PM
Diet Coke. I don’t drink alcohol; all of it tastes nasty to me. And yes, I can taste the alcohol even if you can’t in a drink.
February 5, 2026 at 6:37 AM
This is getting to a good Santa length.
February 5, 2026 at 6:35 AM
I’m part of a chosen family household now and while I’m technically single, it would take a lot for me to move in with someone else because they need me and right now they’re keeping me from hurting myself.
February 4, 2026 at 2:23 AM
My parents’ only name for me was Jeffrey, nothing else was considered.
February 4, 2026 at 12:26 AM
Day 6 of TMS.

I feel worse. Been told it may take another 9 treatments before I start to feel better.
February 3, 2026 at 5:38 AM
This was going out the door last night. Very boring night as I sat by myself as my housemates took off to talk to folks I didn’t know. Triggered bad memories from my marriage where he’d disappear to suck dick at a bar and I’d be stranded at the table guarding his pitcher (no unattended drinks).
February 2, 2026 at 5:09 AM
6’2”

I’m also 336 pounds so I’m a big boy.
February 2, 2026 at 4:42 AM
Okay. You caught me masturbating.
February 1, 2026 at 4:51 PM
You are Number Six…
February 1, 2026 at 5:53 AM
At union suit night. It’s so dark in here, pictures will be difficult.
February 1, 2026 at 5:31 AM
Thank you so much for saying so! I’m still on the fence.
February 1, 2026 at 3:09 AM
Debating about going to a union suit night at Pecs. I want to go and I don’t. Maddening.
February 1, 2026 at 1:37 AM
Show me a picture on your phone that has your energy, but isn't a selfie
January 31, 2026 at 10:57 PM
Thank you! Boy do I miss sucking cock.
January 31, 2026 at 6:43 PM
Guess I have to put clothes on if I’m going out.
January 31, 2026 at 6:38 PM
As a kid, probably my Commodore 64. As an adult, most of my art tools like a stamping platform that I use. If you mean sex toys I rarely use them. Maybe when I’m not so depressed.
January 31, 2026 at 3:51 AM
Out at dinner. Depression and despair are still kicking my ass.
January 31, 2026 at 3:40 AM
Books (suspense, mystery, and similar fiction), stationery, and polite requests for me to perform fellatio.
January 28, 2026 at 9:17 PM
Bought me a vibrating anal plug that’s curved so it’ll buzz the prostate. That was 7 years ago and I still have it and still use it.
January 28, 2026 at 8:27 PM
I miss kissing like that too. No better way to get my motor running.
January 28, 2026 at 5:20 PM
What does “defending your face card” mean? Been seeing the meme.
January 27, 2026 at 1:43 PM
We’re watching a movie set in the Philippines and everyone is speaking Spanish.

🤦‍♂️
January 27, 2026 at 3:32 AM
Dead: Angela Lansbury, Barbara Hale, Raymond Burr

Alive: Jamie Lee Curtis, Tess Gerritsen, Tom Mead
January 27, 2026 at 3:28 AM
I’m not sure. Not an easy question considering my current mental state. I do always go back to performing in some way. I’m a decent actor, singer and clown and hope I’ll get more opportunities to do this.
January 26, 2026 at 4:18 PM