Embracing daddyhood
@blondbear.bsky.social
Just me in New York City seeing Nakia live at Cutting Room. Not how I expected this trip to end.
November 22, 2025 at 3:36 AM
Just me in New York City seeing Nakia live at Cutting Room. Not how I expected this trip to end.
The wind is doing things to my beard.
November 16, 2025 at 7:19 PM
The wind is doing things to my beard.
This subway stop is almost kinky.
November 16, 2025 at 2:23 AM
This subway stop is almost kinky.
Walked 5 miles. Now I’m bushed.
November 15, 2025 at 10:24 PM
Walked 5 miles. Now I’m bushed.
At Kajiken soba on 6th Ave in Manhattan.
November 15, 2025 at 6:16 PM
At Kajiken soba on 6th Ave in Manhattan.
Gave my beard a bit of a blowout this morning.
November 15, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Gave my beard a bit of a blowout this morning.
Starting to get chat requests here that start with, “u have WhatsApp?”
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
November 13, 2025 at 6:27 PM
Starting to get chat requests here that start with, “u have WhatsApp?”
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
If you were here you could be having Japanese curry rice with me.
November 11, 2025 at 11:46 PM
If you were here you could be having Japanese curry rice with me.
Headed back to New Jersey for work. Really not a good time for me to travel but here we are.
November 11, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Headed back to New Jersey for work. Really not a good time for me to travel but here we are.
Fried, over easy with buttered sourdough.
November 11, 2025 at 3:49 AM
Fried, over easy with buttered sourdough.
I don’t have one. I don’t enjoy watching or playing any sport. Never got those genes.
November 10, 2025 at 7:03 PM
I don’t have one. I don’t enjoy watching or playing any sport. Never got those genes.
The state of things.
November 4, 2025 at 7:45 PM
The state of things.
Neckties. I loathe the damn things. I don’t find then appealing nor useful. Bow ties I like oddly enough. But a necktie? Just no. I own one only because I have to.
November 4, 2025 at 7:43 PM
Neckties. I loathe the damn things. I don’t find then appealing nor useful. Bow ties I like oddly enough. But a necktie? Just no. I own one only because I have to.
This is 11 years old. Loved that singlet.
November 2, 2025 at 10:00 PM
This is 11 years old. Loved that singlet.
I’m debating if I’m going to bleach my hair and beard.
November 2, 2025 at 5:59 AM
I’m debating if I’m going to bleach my hair and beard.
I had this black singlet with white piping for years until the Spandex gave out. Can’t get that one anymore. I miss it.
November 2, 2025 at 2:17 AM
I had this black singlet with white piping for years until the Spandex gave out. Can’t get that one anymore. I miss it.
Thus was a long time ago but I was very pleased with it.
October 31, 2025 at 7:40 PM
Thus was a long time ago but I was very pleased with it.
Deep question. Truth. Equity. Accountability. The ability to live authentically without fear. Also would like to be able to have mental health challenges discussed more openly. As someone who has tried to unalive myself, we could do much better.
October 31, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Deep question. Truth. Equity. Accountability. The ability to live authentically without fear. Also would like to be able to have mental health challenges discussed more openly. As someone who has tried to unalive myself, we could do much better.
To the lovely bikini clad buxom ladies with new accounts messaging me:
I am hella gay. Kinsey 6 gay. Your décolletage will not entice me to reply so just don’t message me.
I am hella gay. Kinsey 6 gay. Your décolletage will not entice me to reply so just don’t message me.
October 30, 2025 at 7:56 PM
To the lovely bikini clad buxom ladies with new accounts messaging me:
I am hella gay. Kinsey 6 gay. Your décolletage will not entice me to reply so just don’t message me.
I am hella gay. Kinsey 6 gay. Your décolletage will not entice me to reply so just don’t message me.
Hookup apps. I’ve had nothing but catfish, bots and grief. Deleted them all and I’m not going back.
October 29, 2025 at 8:26 PM
Hookup apps. I’ve had nothing but catfish, bots and grief. Deleted them all and I’m not going back.
Journaling. Letter writing. Basically writing anything by hand. It’s so mindful.
October 29, 2025 at 2:14 AM
Journaling. Letter writing. Basically writing anything by hand. It’s so mindful.
Currently at work after a week of PTO. Then it’s a full week of chorus related activities. Not got much else going on right now.
October 27, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Currently at work after a week of PTO. Then it’s a full week of chorus related activities. Not got much else going on right now.
Made a pan of caramel corn. This stuff is crack.
October 27, 2025 at 2:01 AM
Made a pan of caramel corn. This stuff is crack.
Hello from Mr. S in San Francisco.
October 23, 2025 at 12:24 AM
Hello from Mr. S in San Francisco.