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bobby of chili’s
@bobbyjmain.bsky.social
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🏠 providence, RI
💼 boston, MA
+sometimes LI, NY
widowed architect with ENTJ tendencies rediscovering life.
interests include nintendo, design, outdoorsy, DIY stuff and the assorted emojis listed below.
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reintroduction thread!!!:
name: bobby
pronouns: he/him
location: boston
interests: board / video games, food, theater, theme parks, DIY, iced coffee, whiskey, petting all the dogs, gay stuff
vocation: architect
i think we need adulting merit badges. because tonight i earned my ‘taught dad over voice call how to navigate his iphone control center to turn OFF silent mode that he somehow enabled ’ badge tonight.
a man in a blue shirt is sitting in front of a jukebox that says radar online.com
ALT: a man in a blue shirt is sitting in front of a jukebox that says radar online.com
media.tenor.com
January 7, 2026 at 3:27 AM
me: ‘ah, 2026. time to relax.’
last 4 days:
- packed away all the christmas into 3 totes + tree box
- deep cleaned the entire apt
- reorganized all closets and drawers
- 3d printed a new apple watch stand, record label stand, and started tinkering with a new idea that i’m excited to show off soon
January 5, 2026 at 1:28 AM
“and there were no nice men in montreal?” is an absolutely underappreciated line. #heatedrivalry
January 4, 2026 at 6:35 AM
oh my GOODDDDDD heated rivalry episode 5 😭😭😭😭😭
January 4, 2026 at 5:26 AM
@pcable.net this is what my phone greeted me with today, so I guess it’s your birthday. hope it’s a good one!
January 4, 2026 at 12:45 AM
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tired of learning new information
January 3, 2026 at 2:03 PM
to clarify: move the urn so he has a *better view* of the show, as this might be the most him-coded show ever.
i almost feel like i should move the urn to have a better view of the tv for heated rivalry.
January 3, 2026 at 2:07 AM
January 3, 2026 at 1:49 AM
new shelves are painted and hung! they almost look like they’ve been there the whole time.
January 2, 2026 at 7:23 PM
I wonder what dead mark would think about me becoming a plant gay.
January 2, 2026 at 5:53 AM
i almost feel like i should move the urn to have a better view of the tv for heated rivalry.
January 2, 2026 at 1:54 AM
super bummed about this - one of my favorite places.
January 1, 2026 at 10:34 PM
so I actually make it out to a bar for New Year’s for the first time in God knows how long, and a friend approaches me-drink in *each* hand-suggesting we do a group brunch tomorrow.
a man in a suit and tie is smiling with his mouth open
ALT: a man in a suit and tie is smiling with his mouth open
media.tenor.com
January 1, 2026 at 6:37 AM
very this today
Monday after Christmas, I am in-office…and Busy?!
December 29, 2025 at 9:59 PM
don’t fuck it up and buy the wrong potato salad now.
December 29, 2025 at 9:47 PM
oh no, i’m suburban day drunk
December 24, 2025 at 6:19 PM
CHER.
that is all.
December 21, 2025 at 5:16 AM
wishing all my friends a joyous eb no matsuri! hope annual gift man leaves you copies of earthbound, and not flesh eating virii.
starmen.net/matsuri
STARMEN.NET - Earthbound no Matsuri
starmen.net
December 20, 2025 at 7:12 AM
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Elon's little serfs are quite literally begging journalists to come back because every publicly available source of data shows people have fled the platform and young people won't use it.

They are literally begging regular people to come back. Don't do it! It is a website by and for actual Nazis!
December 15, 2025 at 1:27 AM
so it appears my dad lost track of weeks and was completely blindsided by the fact that i’m coming home today (and that my aunt and uncle are coming tomorrow and not next weekend).
a man sitting at a desk with the words " this just got awesome " on the screen
ALT: a man sitting at a desk with the words " this just got awesome " on the screen
media.tenor.com
December 12, 2025 at 12:07 PM
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White House Begins Christmas Season With Ceremonial Lighting Of Cross
December 10, 2025 at 10:00 PM
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"there's a new serif in town"
Marco Rubio ordered diplomats to return to using Times New Roman font in official communications, calling his predecessor's decision to adopt Calibri a “wasteful” diversity move
Rubio Stages Font Coup: Times New Roman Ousts Calibri
The secretary of state called it a "wasteful" diversity move, according to an internal department cable seen by Reuters.
www.huffpost.com
December 10, 2025 at 1:06 AM
you’d think after a year and a half, you still wouldn’t instinctively pull out your phone on a daily+ basis with something funny or stupid to text your dead husband. alas.
December 10, 2025 at 3:12 AM
oh.
oh no.
what have i done?
December 3, 2025 at 6:23 PM
age yourself with gaming
December 2, 2025 at 4:12 AM