Cait West
@caitwest.bsky.social
Former stay-at-home daughter and author of RIFT: A Memoir of Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy | caitwest.com | she/her
Bulldozing the People’s House is so overtly symbolic it wouldn’t make it through development edits for the satire no one would want to write.
October 24, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Bulldozing the People’s House is so overtly symbolic it wouldn’t make it through development edits for the satire no one would want to write.
Reposted by Cait West
"The teachings of Baucham and other promoters of Christian Patriarchy were extremely harmful in my life. Because of these teachings, I was a stay-at-home daughter until I was twenty-five years old."
~ @caitwest.bsky.social
~ @caitwest.bsky.social
How Voddie Baucham’s Teachings Cause Long-Term Damage: Collected Interviews
Girls and women trying to leave fundamentalism have many unique challenges and need support to integrate into society.
rlstollar.com
September 26, 2025 at 9:58 PM
"The teachings of Baucham and other promoters of Christian Patriarchy were extremely harmful in my life. Because of these teachings, I was a stay-at-home daughter until I was twenty-five years old."
~ @caitwest.bsky.social
~ @caitwest.bsky.social
Reposted by Cait West
Our @jonmathieu.bsky.social chats with fellow ex-vangelical
@caitwest.bsky.social about high-control religion, Amish country, and more.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4?...
@caitwest.bsky.social about high-control religion, Amish country, and more.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4?...
Why are evangelicals obsessed with Amish country?
YouTube video by The Christian Century
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May 28, 2025 at 8:15 PM
Our @jonmathieu.bsky.social chats with fellow ex-vangelical
@caitwest.bsky.social about high-control religion, Amish country, and more.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4?...
@caitwest.bsky.social about high-control religion, Amish country, and more.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4?...
Reposted by Cait West
Don’t miss @jonmathieu.bsky.social’s chat with @caitwest.bsky.social about evangelicalism, Amish country, and high-control religion.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4
Why are evangelicals obsessed with Amish country?
YouTube video by The Christian Century
youtu.be
May 14, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Don’t miss @jonmathieu.bsky.social’s chat with @caitwest.bsky.social about evangelicalism, Amish country, and high-control religion.
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4
youtu.be/s3BnFD8bKb4
Reposted by Cait West
“Many evangelicals don’t see a problem with the patriarchal culture of the Old Order Amish—in fact, patriarchy is precisely what draws them to fetishize these communities.”
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
Evangelical fantasies in Amish country
I grew up in the Quiverfull movement. In the tourism industry of Shipshewana, Indiana, I see a lot that looks...
www.christiancentury.org
May 13, 2025 at 1:17 AM
“Many evangelicals don’t see a problem with the patriarchal culture of the Old Order Amish—in fact, patriarchy is precisely what draws them to fetishize these communities.”
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
Already tired of debates around how “liberal” the new pope is. Like, women can’t participate in choosing the pope or lead congregations. NONE of these men are progressive, and the Catholic church is one of the largest patriarchal systems in the world.
May 9, 2025 at 1:02 PM
Already tired of debates around how “liberal” the new pope is. Like, women can’t participate in choosing the pope or lead congregations. NONE of these men are progressive, and the Catholic church is one of the largest patriarchal systems in the world.
Wearing green for #dayofthehomeschooledchild 💚
For more info, go to responsiblehomeschooling.org/day-of-the-h...
For more info, go to responsiblehomeschooling.org/day-of-the-h...
April 30, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Wearing green for #dayofthehomeschooledchild 💚
For more info, go to responsiblehomeschooling.org/day-of-the-h...
For more info, go to responsiblehomeschooling.org/day-of-the-h...
What do the Quiverfull movement, Christian nationalism, and Plain communities have in common? Apparently, musical theater.
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
Evangelical fantasies in Amish country
I grew up in the Quiverfull movement. In the tourism industry of Shipshewana, Indiana, I see a lot that looks...
www.christiancentury.org
April 24, 2025 at 3:52 PM
What do the Quiverfull movement, Christian nationalism, and Plain communities have in common? Apparently, musical theater.
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
Reposted by Cait West
“When I saw an advertisement for an upcoming play at the Blue Gate Theatre that pictured an Amish man standing on the front lawn of the White House, I knew I had to return and investigate.”
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
Evangelical fantasies in Amish country
I grew up in the Quiverfull movement. In the tourism industry of Shipshewana, Indiana, I see a lot that looks...
www.christiancentury.org
April 23, 2025 at 3:02 PM
“When I saw an advertisement for an upcoming play at the Blue Gate Theatre that pictured an Amish man standing on the front lawn of the White House, I knew I had to return and investigate.”
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
– @caitwest.bsky.social
www.christiancentury.org/features/eva...
One of my favorite subgenres to read is something I like to call “unhinged women.” Because they’re aspirational for me. For example, Piglet, Big Swiss, My Year of Rest and Relaxation… any I should add to my list?
April 4, 2025 at 8:42 PM
One of my favorite subgenres to read is something I like to call “unhinged women.” Because they’re aspirational for me. For example, Piglet, Big Swiss, My Year of Rest and Relaxation… any I should add to my list?
Congress is set to review the SAVE Act this week—to understand the patriarchal implications please read this piece by @sarahstankorb.bsky.social :
newrepublic.com/article/1914...
newrepublic.com/article/1914...
The Christian Nationalist Plot to Disenfranchise Women Voters
The SAVE Act, which purports to fend off the phantasmal threat of voter fraud, would throw millions of women off the voting rolls.
newrepublic.com
March 30, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Congress is set to review the SAVE Act this week—to understand the patriarchal implications please read this piece by @sarahstankorb.bsky.social :
newrepublic.com/article/1914...
newrepublic.com/article/1914...
✨ 2025 energy ✨
This little witchy nature girl is back and has no more fucks to give…
This little witchy nature girl is back and has no more fucks to give…
March 29, 2025 at 6:36 PM
✨ 2025 energy ✨
This little witchy nature girl is back and has no more fucks to give…
This little witchy nature girl is back and has no more fucks to give…
The imperialists are imperialing day after day after day after…
March 29, 2025 at 4:29 AM
The imperialists are imperialing day after day after day after…
Democracy,
“Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
(Dylan Thomas)
“Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
(Dylan Thomas)
March 22, 2025 at 12:50 PM
Democracy,
“Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
(Dylan Thomas)
“Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
(Dylan Thomas)
Spiritual abusers use the bible, god, spirituality, scriptures, religion etc. to oppress you and steal your agency, and then when you back away because you’re bleeding out, they tell you it’s your fault because you didn’t have enough faith. Spiritual abuse is cruel like that.
March 16, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Spiritual abusers use the bible, god, spirituality, scriptures, religion etc. to oppress you and steal your agency, and then when you back away because you’re bleeding out, they tell you it’s your fault because you didn’t have enough faith. Spiritual abuse is cruel like that.
When I was in the church, I was told that prodigals ran away from “the faith” or “god” because they wanted to sin or because they were lost. But people don’t usually run away from things that are good, healing, safe, and loving.
March 16, 2025 at 8:16 PM
When I was in the church, I was told that prodigals ran away from “the faith” or “god” because they wanted to sin or because they were lost. But people don’t usually run away from things that are good, healing, safe, and loving.
“If they wanted to, they would” but for churches and their capacity to handle abuse
March 10, 2025 at 12:11 AM
“If they wanted to, they would” but for churches and their capacity to handle abuse
“I believe in gender equality but only men are qualified for leadership” is 1000% still patriarchy.
March 5, 2025 at 3:08 AM
“I believe in gender equality but only men are qualified for leadership” is 1000% still patriarchy.
It’s not enough to call out individual abusers in your church—you also need to examine whether your theology is abusive. If your organization is barring certain people from leadership or membership because of their gender/sexual identity, I’d argue the system is inherently discriminatory & abusive.
March 5, 2025 at 1:18 AM
It’s not enough to call out individual abusers in your church—you also need to examine whether your theology is abusive. If your organization is barring certain people from leadership or membership because of their gender/sexual identity, I’d argue the system is inherently discriminatory & abusive.
“What would you say to all the women who have crawled their way out from under Christian patriarchy, only to watch Christian patriarchy gain control of local and federal government?”
caitwest.substack.com/p/weve-been-...
caitwest.substack.com/p/weve-been-...
We've Been Here Before
The past haunts us, but also guides us
caitwest.substack.com
March 5, 2025 at 12:55 AM
“What would you say to all the women who have crawled their way out from under Christian patriarchy, only to watch Christian patriarchy gain control of local and federal government?”
caitwest.substack.com/p/weve-been-...
caitwest.substack.com/p/weve-been-...
Hear me out: Love Is Blind, but there’s a one-way window so the women can see the men to watch out for narc eyes.
March 1, 2025 at 4:07 PM
Hear me out: Love Is Blind, but there’s a one-way window so the women can see the men to watch out for narc eyes.
West Michigan! Please join us tomorrow at these free events to talk about purity culture and religious trauma. With everything going on, this is more important than ever.
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February 19, 2025 at 4:34 PM
West Michigan! Please join us tomorrow at these free events to talk about purity culture and religious trauma. With everything going on, this is more important than ever.
@dawnburns.bsky.social @saramoslener.bsky.social @eerdmansbooks.bsky.social
Please RSVP at the link below:
@dawnburns.bsky.social @saramoslener.bsky.social @eerdmansbooks.bsky.social
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Happy White Lotus day to all who celebrate 🪷
February 17, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Happy White Lotus day to all who celebrate 🪷
Point me to the nearest void so I can scream into it
February 14, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Point me to the nearest void so I can scream into it
Hey Grand Rapids! Please join us for one of these events this Thursday at GVSU 💜 We’ll be creating a safe space to talk about purity culture and religious trauma and would love to meet you!
Free registration at www.gvsu.edu/interfaith/c...
Free registration at www.gvsu.edu/interfaith/c...
February 11, 2025 at 1:36 AM
Hey Grand Rapids! Please join us for one of these events this Thursday at GVSU 💜 We’ll be creating a safe space to talk about purity culture and religious trauma and would love to meet you!
Free registration at www.gvsu.edu/interfaith/c...
Free registration at www.gvsu.edu/interfaith/c...