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ms. POTS

ms. POTS

@curlyhairbi.bsky.social

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the one with no name @onewith69.bsky.social · 3d

me when i'd rather burn my whole life down than listen to one more second of all this bitching and moaning but like in a totally cishet way

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

went to go listen & this is an insane album title all on its own, but pair it with funeral / coming back to life?? PLEASE

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

towards our graves, it’s the only constant destination. & it hurts more than anything to be the one still living, when someone’s life is lost. you don’t have to do it perfectly, just be yourself & lead with love, there is light at the end of the tunnel, and this is the beginning of the tunnel

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

do things gently & with a lot of self compassion. cry, rip up papers, throw pillows at the floor & start a fist fight with the couch. hide in your closet between your favorite shirts & cry because not knowing how to navigate something is so real. humanity is fragile & life is precious, we all walk

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

I am so sorry for your loss & your family’s loss. grief looks different for everyone. I got a grief affirmation deck & put one on my bathroom mirror every week. I’m not good at grief. I thought losing someone would make me more experienced at it. I’m still learning. give yourself grace,

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

enter the space with love, connection & no expectations. just let them know you’re there & then be there. talk about him, people always say they didn’t want to upset me, but I AM upset, talking about the person I loved, who I lost, is what I needed & tears are nothing to fear.

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

I second this. when my best friend lost her dad, years after I lost mine in the same way, I told my therapist that I *should* know what to say. & she said “that’s because you’re thinking that words can fix the feelings they’re having & that’s not how it works.

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

hi no pressure to share a medical diagnosis on the internet, but i’m curious if anyone in this space knows anything about vascular ehlers danlos syndrome & spontaneous cerebral spinal fluid leaks

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

lay horizontally is sometimes the only & best solution.

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 3d

I also hate icing so no judgement from me! I just started lidocaine infusions for my pain & I use my THC cream religiously & even then, I still have high high pain days 🥲

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 4d

omg you’re the 2nd person I’ve come across today who is also having the worst pain day! we should chat about pain hacks because I truly be trying everything these days!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 4d

okay I blame @underthepink7.com but since the podcast episode you made about NR motifs, I’m seeing it EVERYWHERE. something about the first track is giving ME! CANCELLED! I’M FINE!

new dodie album released Oct. 3, 2025c first track is titled I’M FINE!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 4d

oof I feel this! do you have a fun costume planned? sending you the energy equivalent of all my favorite pain hacks. hopefully you have self care planned later too!!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 4d

wow, high pain days are nearly unbearable 🥹 send cozy vibes

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 5d

oh I would do anything to read it

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 6d

OH this is a fantastic resource thank you!!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 6d

oooo I will check these out, thank you!!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 6d

omg a thrifty QUEEN!! you look amazing, I hope you got 1 million compliments!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

I haven’t had a comfort show/movie in months & at first I wasn’t worried but it’s getting concerning now please help

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

oh I bet!! did you make your outfit yourself?

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

so glad it’s not just me. people be like “lmao I’m sick but I just ran a bunch of errands & now I’m at work.” HUH?! GO BACK HOME & STAY THERE

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ur dream girls dream girl 💕 @urdreamgirlsdream.bsky.social · 7d

“we tell the world to leave us the fuck alone & they do… wow” is for gay ppl & gay ppl ONLY

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

this is everything you look incredible !!!

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

oh love, I am so so sorry. I remember everything about the moment I received that same news & my heart goes out to you. sending you every amount of love & gentle vibes I’ve got. ❤️

ms. POTS @curlyhairbi.bsky.social · 7d

something about me is that I get irrationally angry when people are careless with their health. nothing matters more than your health & all these able bodied people are playing fast & loose with theirs.