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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 14h

this should count as #kinktober I just forgot to add it xD oops

Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 1d

This is a glimpse into my own mind headquarters~

My Fear is the boss of the HQ, and he knows how to handle My Anger~ always keeping him sated, satisfied...distracted even. Maybe this is why I don't easily get angry.

...Wait, is this why I think Fearplay is hot sometimes?? o_o
#DogmonsterDraws

Two cartoon representations of anger and fear in a sensual act: anger is restrained by belts and fear tugs on a collar and leash asking "who's my good boy" while anger stammers "I am..."

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

grow, gecko. grow! >:3

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

I'd love to seeee
older consoles such as these are so fun

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

Goshhh man I *love* my old consoles

I have several 3DSes and DSes that were super cheap during the early Switch years

I wonder if at some point, GBAs and stuff will lower in price again...

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

my mom is great, both my parents are

though they definitely have had to let go of some older teachings from when they were raised, and it took them some time to do so, I trust them now to understand my mindset

but yes, confrontation can be scary and not even get a peaceful resolution

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

Yeah!! >:3 twink TF into HUNK

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

Yes uw
Belly drumming is fun and it feels good too

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 16h

Tl;dr
I pity my distant uncle who visited recently, but he's not my responsibility. He pushed people away because of his strict, machismo attitude, and now as an old man, his kids have been staying away. My relatives tolerate him because he's family, but I think we should phase out that attitude.

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

I don't tolerate him though, that's why I didn't go spend time with him

maybe this attitude dies with our generation, the next generations I mean

maybe we're the ones who break the cycle and realize that kindness has to have a limit

and blood does not give someone the right to abuse your kindness

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

perhaps if he had shown any willingness to reflect on his ways, then that would be the start of some balance

but as it stands, what happens is simply a relative that no one really likes, everyone just tolerates, and we try to appease him because it's easier than confronting him

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

I can see that he is a lonely old man, and I don't wish misery upon him,
it's just that this is what circumstances he brought upon himself

and it's not mine or my mom's or anyone's responsibility to try and make him happy

even if we pity him, there's not much you can do for a man who won't listen

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

not just balance but also justice

my mom and I talk often during breakfast, and that's when she likes to shares stories about that goings on

I know my uncle alienated all his kids due to his machismo and strictness
and his refusal to treat his kids as mature people with their own thoughts

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

seeing this whole thing happening, it makes me think about how much leeway we decent people give to those who are really undeserving of our kindness

perhaps that is what kindness is? to know you're treating someone well even if they don't treat you well?

but I also think there should be a balance

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

this uncle is someone I did grow up seeing during holidays and stuff

I know that he's a religious man (unsurprisingly), and one who believes men / fathers should call the shots

he believes that family owes things to each other simply due to being related

naww man, you need to earn my respect

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

sometimes when I hear reddit stories, some asshole people just sound unbelievable,

but the more I learn about my distant relatives from my mom, the more I see how life really is just that strange, dramatic, or "movie-like" sometimes

even my aunt (uncle's wife) didn't stay with him during the visit

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

> he disappeared for 2 hours while his school reunion friends were all waiting to pick him up for lunch,

causing worry of course,

then they found him in the mall, stuck at the cashier, because he tried to buy a bunch of things without carrying any money to pay for it (our relatives paid for it)

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

some of the things this uncle did:

> refused to wear a belt so he kept de-pantsing himself in public places

> call people at 2AM to chat, including my teenage relatives who really didn't want to talk with him

> refuse to cooperate with the dentist during a checkup, and says he knew better

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

anyway, he was a bit of a thorn on the side for my mom,

as she is one of the only people who still has patience for his BS,

but even mom had enough at one point, and I'm glad she did pull away from taking care of this man

my mom is just a very loyal person who cares for others strongly

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

this distant grand-uncle recently visited us (my mom is his cousin), and though I respect him as a fellow human being,

I was also happy to not have to spend time with him

the first thing he did in my house was try to teach me the proper way to cook rice

sir, I've been cooking rice for decades

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

I believe that tooooo heheheh

I remember the magic if felt going from no internet, to that noisy dial-up modem, all the way to wifi

and I cherish the appreciation we 90s-2000s kids have for the evolution of technology

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

General content warning for family "drama", but I just feel like talking about this

for simplicity's sake, let's call this man my distant grand-uncle

he's 75 now, and it's hard to believe he would change his machismo ways, now that his many kids no longer want to speak with him

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

Big hugs for ya dude

Depression sucks and I hope you feel better sooner than later

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 17h

dude, the 2000s nostalgia has been hitting me *hard* lately

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Dael Dogmonster Dad 🔞 @daeltitan.bsky.social · 1d

This is a glimpse into my own mind headquarters~

My Fear is the boss of the HQ, and he knows how to handle My Anger~ always keeping him sated, satisfied...distracted even. Maybe this is why I don't easily get angry.

...Wait, is this why I think Fearplay is hot sometimes?? o_o
#DogmonsterDraws

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