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@dean4m.bsky.social
Dean, Sensual massage and bodywork for men (M4M) in the St Louis and Southern Illinois area. Midwest USA. Pro-sexwork, pro-trans rights, He/Him
I am a huge fan of a prolific writer and have forwarded links to his stories to a few of my clients.
@themilkingden.bsky.social
Incredibly erotic and well written, as well as inspiring. Got a lot of ideas from him.
@themilkingden.bsky.social
Incredibly erotic and well written, as well as inspiring. Got a lot of ideas from him.
February 8, 2026 at 8:31 PM
I am a huge fan of a prolific writer and have forwarded links to his stories to a few of my clients.
@themilkingden.bsky.social
Incredibly erotic and well written, as well as inspiring. Got a lot of ideas from him.
@themilkingden.bsky.social
Incredibly erotic and well written, as well as inspiring. Got a lot of ideas from him.
Our afternoon at the Club St Louis has been postponed until next Thursday. My client had overcommitted this past week and needed to reschedule, which is never a problem. I did notice though that I have another client meeting me there on Wednesday, then him on Thursday. One Wednesday the focus
February 8, 2026 at 2:38 AM
Our afternoon at the Club St Louis has been postponed until next Thursday. My client had overcommitted this past week and needed to reschedule, which is never a problem. I did notice though that I have another client meeting me there on Wednesday, then him on Thursday. One Wednesday the focus
The Body Electric School is having Celebrating The Body Electric at SIRenity Farms, near St. Louis, Missouri. March 27-29. I know the organizer and it looks to be a wonderful opportunity. Click on the site and see the info - too much to get into here.
Celebrating the Body Erotic at SIRenity Farms - Body Electric School
Join us at SIRenity Farms to celebrate the beauty of the body and explore the art of sensuality through the lens of the erotic.
bodyelectric.org
February 8, 2026 at 2:34 AM
The Body Electric School is having Celebrating The Body Electric at SIRenity Farms, near St. Louis, Missouri. March 27-29. I know the organizer and it looks to be a wonderful opportunity. Click on the site and see the info - too much to get into here.
Just spoke to my client about our upcoming visit to Samuel Shepard Drive on Thursday - home of the Club St Louis. I've had several conversations with guys lately about how they need guided tours of the place for newcomers. Someone to (ahem) escort them around, show them the facilities, offer advice
February 3, 2026 at 6:05 PM
Just spoke to my client about our upcoming visit to Samuel Shepard Drive on Thursday - home of the Club St Louis. I've had several conversations with guys lately about how they need guided tours of the place for newcomers. Someone to (ahem) escort them around, show them the facilities, offer advice
A client hires me every few months to meet him at the Club St Louis. Others have done that before, needing a place to meet, but he has me there to accompany him around the place. He gets a large room. He talks - and flirts - with everyone we meet and invites them to join us.
February 3, 2026 at 4:22 AM
A client hires me every few months to meet him at the Club St Louis. Others have done that before, needing a place to meet, but he has me there to accompany him around the place. He gets a large room. He talks - and flirts - with everyone we meet and invites them to join us.
This afternoon attending an erotic energy seminar for men being held in St Louis. A good friend recommended it. The man putting it on is a well respected body worker and tantric educator. Going to be interesting being naked with a group of men and not managing the scene myself.
February 1, 2026 at 3:26 PM
This afternoon attending an erotic energy seminar for men being held in St Louis. A good friend recommended it. The man putting it on is a well respected body worker and tantric educator. Going to be interesting being naked with a group of men and not managing the scene myself.
It's going to continue being freaking cold this week so if you are in the St Charles, St Louis, Wenzville area and need to warm up, come by and get on the table. I will make sure the room and the oil are warm enough for naked skin.
January 21, 2026 at 1:07 AM
It's going to continue being freaking cold this week so if you are in the St Charles, St Louis, Wenzville area and need to warm up, come by and get on the table. I will make sure the room and the oil are warm enough for naked skin.
Going to be working out of a hotel in St Charles Wednesday through Friday this week.
A few years ago I rented space in a friend's house to do incalls in St Louis. I have regulars from then who can't drive out to my house in Illinois, so occasionally take my show - and massage table - on the road.
A few years ago I rented space in a friend's house to do incalls in St Louis. I have regulars from then who can't drive out to my house in Illinois, so occasionally take my show - and massage table - on the road.
January 21, 2026 at 1:04 AM
Going to be working out of a hotel in St Charles Wednesday through Friday this week.
A few years ago I rented space in a friend's house to do incalls in St Louis. I have regulars from then who can't drive out to my house in Illinois, so occasionally take my show - and massage table - on the road.
A few years ago I rented space in a friend's house to do incalls in St Louis. I have regulars from then who can't drive out to my house in Illinois, so occasionally take my show - and massage table - on the road.
I usually don't see clients this close to Christmas but several do have free time to text. Some of my body work clients (more than massage) have very inventive imaginations and I find myself having two or more conversations at a time about the next visit, fantasies and requests.
December 23, 2025 at 7:56 PM
I usually don't see clients this close to Christmas but several do have free time to text. Some of my body work clients (more than massage) have very inventive imaginations and I find myself having two or more conversations at a time about the next visit, fantasies and requests.
Last week.went to dinner with friends on Grand Avenue in St Louis. Been ages since visiting the Tower Grove area, walking down the street seeing all the shops and restaurants- many new to me. It was fucking freezing but great to visit my old neighborhood from way way back.
South Grand has changed
South Grand has changed
December 21, 2025 at 11:36 PM
Last week.went to dinner with friends on Grand Avenue in St Louis. Been ages since visiting the Tower Grove area, walking down the street seeing all the shops and restaurants- many new to me. It was fucking freezing but great to visit my old neighborhood from way way back.
South Grand has changed
South Grand has changed
Listening to Watts The Safepod with Pup Amp and Sampson Nightly and in twenty minutes they mention three of my all time favorite shows: Bee and Puppycat, Steven Universe and callout to the incomparable Ice Bear.
As if I didn't already love these guys. And Ice Bear.
As if I didn't already love these guys. And Ice Bear.
December 21, 2025 at 10:07 PM
Listening to Watts The Safepod with Pup Amp and Sampson Nightly and in twenty minutes they mention three of my all time favorite shows: Bee and Puppycat, Steven Universe and callout to the incomparable Ice Bear.
As if I didn't already love these guys. And Ice Bear.
As if I didn't already love these guys. And Ice Bear.
@fvstrona.bsky.social
Really enjoyed your interview on Pornstar Confessions. Great advice.and stories; thank you
Really enjoyed your interview on Pornstar Confessions. Great advice.and stories; thank you
December 17, 2025 at 8:12 PM
@fvstrona.bsky.social
Really enjoyed your interview on Pornstar Confessions. Great advice.and stories; thank you
Really enjoyed your interview on Pornstar Confessions. Great advice.and stories; thank you
Great idea for a business next year. Jockstrap Tree Decorating Service.
Like a nude maid but taking care of those pesky lights and ornaments.
Like a nude maid but taking care of those pesky lights and ornaments.
December 13, 2025 at 12:51 AM
Great idea for a business next year. Jockstrap Tree Decorating Service.
Like a nude maid but taking care of those pesky lights and ornaments.
Like a nude maid but taking care of those pesky lights and ornaments.
So all those guys seeking incalls during the blizzard last week that caused huge traffic tie-ups, accidents and icy roads? Driveway is clear now. I'll warm up the oil.
December 9, 2025 at 2:23 AM
So all those guys seeking incalls during the blizzard last week that caused huge traffic tie-ups, accidents and icy roads? Driveway is clear now. I'll warm up the oil.
Over the years I've noticed that when the weather starts to change my phone starts going off with clients. Memorably back when the region was hit with eight inches of snow in two days and I couldn't even see my driveway much less the road and guys would contact me asking for an outcall.
October 25, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Over the years I've noticed that when the weather starts to change my phone starts going off with clients. Memorably back when the region was hit with eight inches of snow in two days and I couldn't even see my driveway much less the road and guys would contact me asking for an outcall.
Got a text from out of state number asking about massage services. I had to play 20 questions to get the info. Monday and/or Tuesday, two massages. Finally got that it's for two people.
A man and his son.
In the course of my reply asked his son's age.
17.
"I do erotic, sensual massage that is...
A man and his son.
In the course of my reply asked his son's age.
17.
"I do erotic, sensual massage that is...
September 23, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Got a text from out of state number asking about massage services. I had to play 20 questions to get the info. Monday and/or Tuesday, two massages. Finally got that it's for two people.
A man and his son.
In the course of my reply asked his son's age.
17.
"I do erotic, sensual massage that is...
A man and his son.
In the course of my reply asked his son's age.
17.
"I do erotic, sensual massage that is...
Sampsonnightly (Sampson on Wattsthesafeword) is the answer to the question, "What would I do first if I won the lottery."
September 11, 2025 at 11:49 PM
Sampsonnightly (Sampson on Wattsthesafeword) is the answer to the question, "What would I do first if I won the lottery."
Every day I clicky click on to RentMasseur to see who has visited my profile ad and see if there's any messages. Occasionally I do a check on who is working in St Louis this week.
Holy crap. There's guys all over. And a lot of hot Daddy types. No wonder business is slow. Damn.
Holy crap. There's guys all over. And a lot of hot Daddy types. No wonder business is slow. Damn.
September 11, 2025 at 11:43 PM
Every day I clicky click on to RentMasseur to see who has visited my profile ad and see if there's any messages. Occasionally I do a check on who is working in St Louis this week.
Holy crap. There's guys all over. And a lot of hot Daddy types. No wonder business is slow. Damn.
Holy crap. There's guys all over. And a lot of hot Daddy types. No wonder business is slow. Damn.
I borrowed a VHS player to check a bunch of tapes found in a box. I'll run each movie through all the way - which is not how these particular videos were usually viewed - to make sure the tapes are in good shape. I'm going to sell them on Ebay, like the magazines. Then discover Ebay doesn't allow
September 11, 2025 at 11:39 PM
I borrowed a VHS player to check a bunch of tapes found in a box. I'll run each movie through all the way - which is not how these particular videos were usually viewed - to make sure the tapes are in good shape. I'm going to sell them on Ebay, like the magazines. Then discover Ebay doesn't allow
I've been advertising on RentMasseur, the man on man massage site, for many years. I remember submitting a photo for my profile of me in a sleeveless shirt and gym shorts, but cropped at the waist. Rejected because it looked like underwear.
Flash forward a few years and ads feature jocks, thongs...
Flash forward a few years and ads feature jocks, thongs...
September 5, 2025 at 3:27 PM
I've been advertising on RentMasseur, the man on man massage site, for many years. I remember submitting a photo for my profile of me in a sleeveless shirt and gym shorts, but cropped at the waist. Rejected because it looked like underwear.
Flash forward a few years and ads feature jocks, thongs...
Flash forward a few years and ads feature jocks, thongs...
Few months ago sold a bunch of gay erotic books and magazines on the ebay. Found a big box of VHS tapes from another era so borrowed a player to make sure the movies are OK after years in storage.
Never actually watched an entire video in one sitting before. Got to make sure they are in top shape.
Never actually watched an entire video in one sitting before. Got to make sure they are in top shape.
September 4, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Few months ago sold a bunch of gay erotic books and magazines on the ebay. Found a big box of VHS tapes from another era so borrowed a player to make sure the movies are OK after years in storage.
Never actually watched an entire video in one sitting before. Got to make sure they are in top shape.
Never actually watched an entire video in one sitting before. Got to make sure they are in top shape.
When things are slow business-wise I check out the local listings on RentMasseur site. There's the familiar local faces but this morning quite a few new guys. Looking at the new profiles I see a lot of "Visiting St Louis" with the dates. At first I thought a crowd of bodyworkers were converging
August 28, 2025 at 6:25 PM
When things are slow business-wise I check out the local listings on RentMasseur site. There's the familiar local faces but this morning quite a few new guys. Looking at the new profiles I see a lot of "Visiting St Louis" with the dates. At first I thought a crowd of bodyworkers were converging
Shipped a copy of Colt Studio's Olympus magazine (from the 80's) to a buyer in Indianapolis. Sent from St Louis. Tracking shows it's currently being moved around in Washington state. The USPS lady seemed perplexed as well. Address is correct. It's just taking a little tour of the country.
June 27, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Shipped a copy of Colt Studio's Olympus magazine (from the 80's) to a buyer in Indianapolis. Sent from St Louis. Tracking shows it's currently being moved around in Washington state. The USPS lady seemed perplexed as well. Address is correct. It's just taking a little tour of the country.
Advocate Men March 1985 featuring the incredible Jon King
#vintagegayporn, #ebay.com/usr/midwest62275
#vintagegayporn, #ebay.com/usr/midwest62275
June 26, 2025 at 5:57 PM
Advocate Men March 1985 featuring the incredible Jon King
#vintagegayporn, #ebay.com/usr/midwest62275
#vintagegayporn, #ebay.com/usr/midwest62275
Got a message last night on RentMasseur from a guy in St Louis. Asking if I was running any specials for Monday morning. When I replied "Specials?" he wrote "10% off."
I've run into this when I lived in Florida. There's people all over that state who think nothing of asking a stranger for discounts.
I've run into this when I lived in Florida. There's people all over that state who think nothing of asking a stranger for discounts.
June 22, 2025 at 2:13 PM
Got a message last night on RentMasseur from a guy in St Louis. Asking if I was running any specials for Monday morning. When I replied "Specials?" he wrote "10% off."
I've run into this when I lived in Florida. There's people all over that state who think nothing of asking a stranger for discounts.
I've run into this when I lived in Florida. There's people all over that state who think nothing of asking a stranger for discounts.