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Dean, Sensual massage and bodywork for men (M4M) in the St Louis and Southern Illinois area. Midwest USA. Pro-sexwork, pro-trans rights, He/Him
Any Christmas song where they turn up the tempo to a manic level. There's a version of Silver Bells that makes me cringe.
I don't need songs set to "frantic."
December 25, 2025 at 1:59 AM
So much since the 80's. It was great back then but even better these days. And still a big lgbt+ presence.
LOT more restaurants these days.
Of course the working boys you used to see at night on Grand not so much. Thank you internet, lol.
December 21, 2025 at 11:36 PM
When I lived in Florida we joked that you can tell New Yorker immigrants by their need to make homes Classy by covering every horizontal surface in marble snd every vertical surface in mirror and fake gold. I called it Boca Decor.
A previous generation would use flocked wallpaper and velvet drapes.
November 1, 2025 at 4:50 PM
A regular client pointed out that when the weather gets cold it's nice to have a warm body to snuggle up to. Or as a friend from Chicago used to say, "When it's cold outside nothing like a pair of hairy legs to wrap around you."
Of course I try to warm up the massage oil so that helps too.
October 25, 2025 at 4:06 PM
But that was extreme weather. This is just the last of summer giving way to the cooler temperatures of fall. I started getting calls from both new customers as well as long time regulars. I certainly appreciate it and have been trying to catch up on my sleep on the day and a half this week not busy
October 25, 2025 at 4:06 PM
I'd ask questions like, "Is your street clear?" and "Is there anywhere to park near you?" and even "Have your roads been plowed?" and get replies like, "I don't know." or "I'll have to check - I have not been outside since it snowed."
I started replying, "Sorry, I don't have a hellicopter."
October 25, 2025 at 4:06 PM
the other guys in town if they heard from this guy.
Years ago a guy called to ask for a massage for his son's birthday. How old? Sixteen. Nope. Click.
Maybe a scam, sting or weirdo. Run away.
September 23, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Inappropriate for underage people."
He sent a photo of a man, guessing 40's, standing next to a teen.
He understood. Could I just give the son a regular massage.
I suggested massage therapy studio in town. I don't know what is going on but will stay way clear of the situation. I am tempted to ask
September 23, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Wow, thank you Notorious R.O.D.! You are a lifesaver - a round candy with a hole in the middle.
September 11, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Since everyone and his beefy brother is traveling through St Louis I'll just take a few days to travel to nearby Springfield, IL. (Not to be confused with Springfield Missouri, or the Simpsons.) This coming Monday and Tuesday I'll be entertaining gentlemen callers, then returning home Wednesday.
September 11, 2025 at 11:43 PM
vintage gay images are interested. I'd donate those two if they had a use for them. In the interests of cultural heritage.
September 11, 2025 at 11:39 PM
explicit content on the site. Whoops. So I have a bunch of videos and movies - no idea how I ended up with most of them - and no place to peddle them. Two videos are a collection of 'vintage gay erotica' - which I might be able to sneak by as being non-explicit. Or I can see if the guys posting
September 11, 2025 at 11:39 PM
I think when RentBoys was shut down by the US government (in a panic, apparently) a lot of service providers - escorts -needed somewhere to advertise. I remember the sudden influx of new advertisers. Either that led to a relaxing of rules or mgt. has chilled out on partial nudity.
September 5, 2025 at 3:27 PM