(evidently) Emily
@developher.net
she/her
the most beautiful and least expected effect of transitioning is when affirmation replaces shame
“a collection of sweethearts with a dash of nightmare” - chi
“if you’re in line to kiss emily, stay in line” - juni
photos: @photos.developher.net
the most beautiful and least expected effect of transitioning is when affirmation replaces shame
“a collection of sweethearts with a dash of nightmare” - chi
“if you’re in line to kiss emily, stay in line” - juni
photos: @photos.developher.net
Pinned
as a flirty bit from a known friend? maybe
from a stranger? creepy af
it signals a serious lack of respect for boundaries and autonomy. it puts all focus on the perpetrators’ desires while ignoring the victim’s needs entirely. it is pure objectification and entitlement with zero empathy
from a stranger? creepy af
it signals a serious lack of respect for boundaries and autonomy. it puts all focus on the perpetrators’ desires while ignoring the victim’s needs entirely. it is pure objectification and entitlement with zero empathy
🫵 hey! you! 🫵
were you about to scroll my media tab to like my pics and then dm me about how attracted you are to me?
🛑 DON’T 🛑
harassment is not a turn-on
were you about to scroll my media tab to like my pics and then dm me about how attracted you are to me?
🛑 DON’T 🛑
harassment is not a turn-on
in the past i’d dissociate or masturbate through this kind of funk. don’t know what’s going on
November 28, 2025 at 5:25 AM
in the past i’d dissociate or masturbate through this kind of funk. don’t know what’s going on
tired girl disappointed to discover her favorite dress is less flattering now that she has tits
November 28, 2025 at 3:07 AM
tired girl disappointed to discover her favorite dress is less flattering now that she has tits
moodily contemplative today. thankful for the new people i’ve brought into my life. but sad that this is the last year i can pretend my old life still exists. next year i will most likely be alone, and that terrifies me
i am so very very tired
i am so very very tired
November 28, 2025 at 3:00 AM
moodily contemplative today. thankful for the new people i’ve brought into my life. but sad that this is the last year i can pretend my old life still exists. next year i will most likely be alone, and that terrifies me
i am so very very tired
i am so very very tired
@ol1-v3.bsky.social please thank dune for relentlessly reminding me that i could look good in a crop top. the day i finally embraced it began to unlock so much appreciation of my own beauty
November 27, 2025 at 7:34 PM
@ol1-v3.bsky.social please thank dune for relentlessly reminding me that i could look good in a crop top. the day i finally embraced it began to unlock so much appreciation of my own beauty
i love this, and i’m going
to do the same today as i remember all the wonderful people i know here
to do the same today as i remember all the wonderful people i know here
Gratitude Thread? Seems like a good day for it
November 27, 2025 at 6:35 PM
i love this, and i’m going
to do the same today as i remember all the wonderful people i know here
to do the same today as i remember all the wonderful people i know here
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you've been to:
Moby
John Williams
Sigur Ros
Philip Glass
Death Cab for Cutie
Moby
John Williams
Sigur Ros
Philip Glass
Death Cab for Cutie
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you've been to:
'Weird Al' Yankovich
Tool
Rob Zombie
Rush
Dethklok
'Weird Al' Yankovich
Tool
Rob Zombie
Rush
Dethklok
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you’ve been to:
The Aquabats
The Vandals
My Chemical Romance
AFI
Coheed and Cambria
The Aquabats
The Vandals
My Chemical Romance
AFI
Coheed and Cambria
November 27, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you've been to:
Moby
John Williams
Sigur Ros
Philip Glass
Death Cab for Cutie
Moby
John Williams
Sigur Ros
Philip Glass
Death Cab for Cutie
this holiday a few long-term friends are feasting with us
i spent decades withdrawing from family, and had to cut off parents last year
next month i won’t have a place to go, no family i’ll feel included with, no friendships deep enough to share the day
i chose this path to survive
i need more
i spent decades withdrawing from family, and had to cut off parents last year
next month i won’t have a place to go, no family i’ll feel included with, no friendships deep enough to share the day
i chose this path to survive
i need more
November 27, 2025 at 6:20 AM
this holiday a few long-term friends are feasting with us
i spent decades withdrawing from family, and had to cut off parents last year
next month i won’t have a place to go, no family i’ll feel included with, no friendships deep enough to share the day
i chose this path to survive
i need more
i spent decades withdrawing from family, and had to cut off parents last year
next month i won’t have a place to go, no family i’ll feel included with, no friendships deep enough to share the day
i chose this path to survive
i need more
it’s so much fucking work, but the results speak for themselves
it’s not luck, or genetics, or privledge
hotness comes from confidence, and i’m living proof confidence is a learned skill
when you find confidence, you discover the motivation to put in the work
it’s not luck, or genetics, or privledge
hotness comes from confidence, and i’m living proof confidence is a learned skill
when you find confidence, you discover the motivation to put in the work
this is true for any and every Hotgirl u see. yes theres usually some luck in a couple aspects but nobody becomes This Hot without a lot of work
I was blessed in some ways (eyes, hair) but I have to stress that the result you’re seeing is the result of eight years of learning and discovery and experimenting and work
November 27, 2025 at 2:33 AM
it’s so much fucking work, but the results speak for themselves
it’s not luck, or genetics, or privledge
hotness comes from confidence, and i’m living proof confidence is a learned skill
when you find confidence, you discover the motivation to put in the work
it’s not luck, or genetics, or privledge
hotness comes from confidence, and i’m living proof confidence is a learned skill
when you find confidence, you discover the motivation to put in the work
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Hi all! I am working on making a document on the basics of kink communication. Consent, Negotiation, and Aftercare being the focus.
I am after input on the kinds of things you might want to see in a document like this as well as any materials that might help!
Please repost for visibility
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I am after input on the kinds of things you might want to see in a document like this as well as any materials that might help!
Please repost for visibility
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November 26, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Hi all! I am working on making a document on the basics of kink communication. Consent, Negotiation, and Aftercare being the focus.
I am after input on the kinds of things you might want to see in a document like this as well as any materials that might help!
Please repost for visibility
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I am after input on the kinds of things you might want to see in a document like this as well as any materials that might help!
Please repost for visibility
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we aren’t just challenging the sex or gender assigned to us at birth
we are challenging *the life* assigned to us at birth and making our own instead
we are challenging *the life* assigned to us at birth and making our own instead
you are not beholden to a life assigned to you at birth !!
November 26, 2025 at 6:29 PM
we aren’t just challenging the sex or gender assigned to us at birth
we are challenging *the life* assigned to us at birth and making our own instead
we are challenging *the life* assigned to us at birth and making our own instead
happy wagon wednesday assmunch
November 26, 2025 at 5:57 PM
happy wagon wednesday assmunch
pictures taken almost 10y apart
reach out for what you always knew you needed. you will thank yourself for the life-changing gift
reach out for what you always knew you needed. you will thank yourself for the life-changing gift
November 26, 2025 at 5:19 AM
pictures taken almost 10y apart
reach out for what you always knew you needed. you will thank yourself for the life-changing gift
reach out for what you always knew you needed. you will thank yourself for the life-changing gift
no, too narrow a window and far too costly to justify for less than 24h. would have been a fantastic experience though
aaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
something very exciting may potentially happen!!!
something very exciting may potentially happen!!!
November 26, 2025 at 1:28 AM
no, too narrow a window and far too costly to justify for less than 24h. would have been a fantastic experience though
realizing there is a strong correlation between me wearing black lips and me being kissed by pretty girls
November 25, 2025 at 9:17 PM
realizing there is a strong correlation between me wearing black lips and me being kissed by pretty girls
casual wfh boss bitch
November 25, 2025 at 5:00 PM
casual wfh boss bitch
i’m blaming my challenges with buttons on the nails and not the 4 decades of buttons in the reversed arrangement
morning lesbians
November 25, 2025 at 4:57 PM
i’m blaming my challenges with buttons on the nails and not the 4 decades of buttons in the reversed arrangement
also yes, “hamburger menu” is a stupid name and a visually unintuitive abstraction of skeuomorphic stacks of books or paper and everyone in ux design agrees they’re stupid
i’ve been using bsky for how long and just now discovered i can swipe to get to the menu instead of navigating back to my “home” and hitting the burger?
ux fail
ux fail
November 25, 2025 at 3:52 PM
also yes, “hamburger menu” is a stupid name and a visually unintuitive abstraction of skeuomorphic stacks of books or paper and everyone in ux design agrees they’re stupid
i’ve been using bsky for how long and just now discovered i can swipe to get to the menu instead of navigating back to my “home” and hitting the burger?
ux fail
ux fail
November 25, 2025 at 2:50 PM
i’ve been using bsky for how long and just now discovered i can swipe to get to the menu instead of navigating back to my “home” and hitting the burger?
ux fail
ux fail
she did not get 2h of sleep
if i fall asleep right now i’ll still get 2h of sleep…
November 25, 2025 at 2:36 PM
she did not get 2h of sleep
if i fall asleep right now i’ll still get 2h of sleep…
November 25, 2025 at 1:27 PM
if i fall asleep right now i’ll still get 2h of sleep…
bury myself in work for 3h or so, come back up for air
what’s up on bsky?
oh.
oh no.
what’s up on bsky?
oh.
oh no.
November 25, 2025 at 8:41 AM
bury myself in work for 3h or so, come back up for air
what’s up on bsky?
oh.
oh no.
what’s up on bsky?
oh.
oh no.
girl who needs more triggers implanted
November 24, 2025 at 10:59 PM
girl who needs more triggers implanted