Disastress (they/them)
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Stay safe in these fuck around and find out times🫀banner artwork: Tony Akins + Matt Hollingsworth in Aliens: Colonial Marines issue #2 🫀
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I need #artists to follow! Digital art, photography, paint, music, whatever. I'll look at/listen to anything anyone has to suggest. Come promote yourself! Promote a friend! Promote that weird indie band with 2 monthly listeners on Spotify!
I need to balance The Horrors™️ with some Silly Ass Whimsy™️.
I need to balance The Horrors™️ with some Silly Ass Whimsy™️.
I've come back to remind everyone that Ville Valo is just Anthony Stewart Head in a different font
July 5, 2025 at 9:36 PM
I've come back to remind everyone that Ville Valo is just Anthony Stewart Head in a different font
Today I want to give love specifically to my trans masc and trans men siblings, my brothers in this world. It's queer pride month & men's mental health awareness month. As a queer myself, I know that we get even less peace in June. I hope my brothers can find a bit for themselves. I love you.
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June 1, 2025 at 6:40 PM
Today I want to give love specifically to my trans masc and trans men siblings, my brothers in this world. It's queer pride month & men's mental health awareness month. As a queer myself, I know that we get even less peace in June. I hope my brothers can find a bit for themselves. I love you.
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Kinda dipping my toes into lotr spaces is funny because the majority of people are like "I watch it every year" and I've watched it once almost every week since November of last year and if I didn't watch the lotr trilogy, I watched wotr or the animated hobbit or the rotoscoped LOTR. Like pls 😅
May 20, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Kinda dipping my toes into lotr spaces is funny because the majority of people are like "I watch it every year" and I've watched it once almost every week since November of last year and if I didn't watch the lotr trilogy, I watched wotr or the animated hobbit or the rotoscoped LOTR. Like pls 😅
Disability is so weird because wym last week I spent 3h on my feet meal prepping and I was tired but fine at the end of it but this week I got the shakes 45m in and had to sit on a stool the rest of the time?
Anyway here's my late Caturday offering sry for the delay I was flared up.
Anyway here's my late Caturday offering sry for the delay I was flared up.
May 18, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Disability is so weird because wym last week I spent 3h on my feet meal prepping and I was tired but fine at the end of it but this week I got the shakes 45m in and had to sit on a stool the rest of the time?
Anyway here's my late Caturday offering sry for the delay I was flared up.
Anyway here's my late Caturday offering sry for the delay I was flared up.
Caturday offering
May 11, 2025 at 2:36 AM
Caturday offering
To be clear, I have never done that but I really want to. Instead what I'll do is clench my jaw and do my best to dissociate then spend an inordinate amount of time regulating myself afterward.
May 6, 2025 at 3:24 AM
To be clear, I have never done that but I really want to. Instead what I'll do is clench my jaw and do my best to dissociate then spend an inordinate amount of time regulating myself afterward.
Noise canceling headphones are the shit because I can hear my partner pull the vacuum out and I'll put them on and then I don't want to curl up in a ball with my hands clamped over my ears and my eyes shut and scream the whole time. Which is what I want to do.
May 6, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Noise canceling headphones are the shit because I can hear my partner pull the vacuum out and I'll put them on and then I don't want to curl up in a ball with my hands clamped over my ears and my eyes shut and scream the whole time. Which is what I want to do.
Last time I talked to my brother, he took time out of his night sitting in the hospital with his toddler who was just dx with leukemia to verbally abuse me because I reinforced a boundary. I told my therapist and asked for her professional opinion.
"That is fucked up." is what she said.
"That is fucked up." is what she said.
May 6, 2025 at 12:47 AM
Last time I talked to my brother, he took time out of his night sitting in the hospital with his toddler who was just dx with leukemia to verbally abuse me because I reinforced a boundary. I told my therapist and asked for her professional opinion.
"That is fucked up." is what she said.
"That is fucked up." is what she said.
Watching ROTS and my cat, Buu, was GROWLING at Palpatine using force lightning to kill Mace Windu. My girl 🥰
April 30, 2025 at 5:43 AM
Watching ROTS and my cat, Buu, was GROWLING at Palpatine using force lightning to kill Mace Windu. My girl 🥰
It's Caturday. Mr. I Don't Like Cats when we first met 13 years ago is now Mr. Getting Snuggled Nightly By Our Two Eldest.
April 26, 2025 at 7:39 AM
It's Caturday. Mr. I Don't Like Cats when we first met 13 years ago is now Mr. Getting Snuggled Nightly By Our Two Eldest.
Any med students needing surgery hours wanna give me a free radical hysterectomy? 🙏 Pls
April 26, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Any med students needing surgery hours wanna give me a free radical hysterectomy? 🙏 Pls
They're paying attention. They're literally running away from town halls because they can't handle the smoke. They're starting to see we're the ones who control their position of power, not Trump. Keep at it.
April 23, 2025 at 3:30 AM
They're paying attention. They're literally running away from town halls because they can't handle the smoke. They're starting to see we're the ones who control their position of power, not Trump. Keep at it.
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Not cat related but joyful nonetheless: the spring ephemerals are coming up in the woods! Hepaticas, bloodroot, and Dutchman's Breeches are all blooming, trout lilies are abundant but not quite open yet, and my favorites the trilliums have buds!
April 23, 2025 at 2:13 AM
Not cat related but joyful nonetheless: the spring ephemerals are coming up in the woods! Hepaticas, bloodroot, and Dutchman's Breeches are all blooming, trout lilies are abundant but not quite open yet, and my favorites the trilliums have buds!
Got a 2 person (myself included) book club going reading the Earthsea books and I can't really properly convey how happy I am to finally be embracing the fantasy nerd within me.
April 22, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Got a 2 person (myself included) book club going reading the Earthsea books and I can't really properly convey how happy I am to finally be embracing the fantasy nerd within me.
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Basil and Dawson: in the lair of the Yellow King #greatmousedetective
April 21, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Basil and Dawson: in the lair of the Yellow King #greatmousedetective
Caturday offering:
April 20, 2025 at 12:31 AM
Caturday offering:
Brain fog is remembering Keith Jardine's name even though he hasn't fought in ufc since 2010 but completely blanking on my favorite Tolkien character's name that I've used in the last month.
Idk what part of getting older this is but it sucks shit.
Idk what part of getting older this is but it sucks shit.
April 18, 2025 at 2:41 AM
Brain fog is remembering Keith Jardine's name even though he hasn't fought in ufc since 2010 but completely blanking on my favorite Tolkien character's name that I've used in the last month.
Idk what part of getting older this is but it sucks shit.
Idk what part of getting older this is but it sucks shit.
Poor season 3 of Daredevil. I just cannot be fucked to actually pay attention to 80% of it but I don't wanna be completely lost when I watch Born Again.
April 17, 2025 at 2:59 PM
Poor season 3 of Daredevil. I just cannot be fucked to actually pay attention to 80% of it but I don't wanna be completely lost when I watch Born Again.
So I guess I'm asking all my disabled siblings for recommendations. For canes. I'd like a rollator but realistically my house is too small for that to really be viable. I don't wanna end up with something flimsy but money is tight. So any suggestions help.
April 16, 2025 at 11:09 PM
So I guess I'm asking all my disabled siblings for recommendations. For canes. I'd like a rollator but realistically my house is too small for that to really be viable. I don't wanna end up with something flimsy but money is tight. So any suggestions help.
Well, I had to get out of bed and let my dog out because my son is asleep and my partner works. I used the broom as a cane and felt so much more confident in my ability to see the task of walking across the entire house done.
April 16, 2025 at 11:09 PM
Well, I had to get out of bed and let my dog out because my son is asleep and my partner works. I used the broom as a cane and felt so much more confident in my ability to see the task of walking across the entire house done.
Today is a day where I feel flared up. I did a few loads of laundry, lots of stairs and bending and lifting and carrying. Idk what I have. I assume it's some kind of dysautonomia. I don't think it's POTS because it doesn't seem to be postural.
April 16, 2025 at 11:09 PM
Today is a day where I feel flared up. I did a few loads of laundry, lots of stairs and bending and lifting and carrying. Idk what I have. I assume it's some kind of dysautonomia. I don't think it's POTS because it doesn't seem to be postural.
I love spring. It's when I wake up at 3am with a sneezing fit and the tops of my fingers and my ear lobes itch like crazy.
April 16, 2025 at 7:58 AM
I love spring. It's when I wake up at 3am with a sneezing fit and the tops of my fingers and my ear lobes itch like crazy.
Shit goddamnit I missed Caturday again. It's only Tuesday, nbd.
April 16, 2025 at 3:14 AM
Shit goddamnit I missed Caturday again. It's only Tuesday, nbd.
ISO: A nice girl to play bluesy guitar with the windows open while she lets me read her Tokyo Ghoul Manga on a pleasantly warm spring night.
April 6, 2025 at 5:32 PM
ISO: A nice girl to play bluesy guitar with the windows open while she lets me read her Tokyo Ghoul Manga on a pleasantly warm spring night.