Dr. NerdLove
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Things I can't eat around Vincent without a fight, #23 in a series: Cheez-Its.
Little bastard shoved his face in the bag, grabbed one and RAN.
Little bastard shoved his face in the bag, grabbed one and RAN.
January 14, 2026 at 12:09 AM
Things I can't eat around Vincent without a fight, #23 in a series: Cheez-Its.
Little bastard shoved his face in the bag, grabbed one and RAN.
Little bastard shoved his face in the bag, grabbed one and RAN.
Now live on Patreon: Everyone in his community thinks abstaining from sex is laudable and something to be proud of. So why is he so convinced that his being an older virgin makes him a loser?
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January 13, 2026 at 11:01 PM
Now live on Patreon: Everyone in his community thinks abstaining from sex is laudable and something to be proud of. So why is he so convinced that his being an older virgin makes him a loser?
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Stop Hating Myself?
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Stop Hating Myself?
He knows he's a good-looking guy, so why does he keep falling into self-loathing when he talks to women? How can he silence his jerk-brain's self-hate?
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January 13, 2026 at 9:30 PM
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Stop Hating Myself?
I am torn between our cyberpunk dystopia being so much dumber than we were told to expect and being amazed at folks who seem to think legal exposure is something that happens to other people.
These Instagram Reels featuring AI-generated influencers having sex with celebrities frequently have hundreds of thousands and sometimes millions of views. They don't disclose that they are AI. @evystadium.bsky.social has more.
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Story by @emanuelmaiberg.bsky.social: www.404media.co/instagram-ai...
January 13, 2026 at 7:09 PM
I am torn between our cyberpunk dystopia being so much dumber than we were told to expect and being amazed at folks who seem to think legal exposure is something that happens to other people.
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Know When It’s Abuse?
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Know When It's Abuse?
She just got out of an abusive relationship. How can she tell the difference between normal relationship conflicts and outright abuse in the future?
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January 13, 2026 at 6:29 PM
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Know When It’s Abuse?
I know I shouldn’t be surprised but hearing Sam Riegel’s voice on a random podcast network ad is like a goddamn jumpscare.
January 13, 2026 at 5:16 PM
I know I shouldn’t be surprised but hearing Sam Riegel’s voice on a random podcast network ad is like a goddamn jumpscare.
TIL that Heated Rivalry is showrun by fucking *Glenn* from Letterkenny.
(who also was the co-creator of Letterkenny)
(who also was the co-creator of Letterkenny)
January 13, 2026 at 4:07 PM
TIL that Heated Rivalry is showrun by fucking *Glenn* from Letterkenny.
(who also was the co-creator of Letterkenny)
(who also was the co-creator of Letterkenny)
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My 2025 budget says I spent >2X as much last year on bills than 2024 due to medical problems, and last Friday, a New Related Problem began to surface. Today, I ask doctors about it!
My health impacts my ability to work.
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Help? #music #fiddle #celtic #indie #support
My health impacts my ability to work.
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Help? #music #fiddle #celtic #indie #support
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creating Fiddle Music
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January 13, 2026 at 1:39 PM
S...SHUT UP. IT'S NOT THAT OLD! IT'S NOT!
Through the Fire and Flames (20th Anniversary Edition) Ft. Syndrone, Sophie Burrell & Bradley Hall
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January 13, 2026 at 3:11 PM
S...SHUT UP. IT'S NOT THAT OLD! IT'S NOT!
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
How Do I Let Go of My "Perfect" Relationship And Move On?
Their last relationship was "perfect", and that's a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn't innately worse than what they had?
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January 13, 2026 at 6:38 AM
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
The Quick and the Dead is like 80% of the way there already
we often talk about “what anime would you adapt into a movie” but here is a reverse: what movies would you adapt into an anime?
January 13, 2026 at 4:27 AM
The Quick and the Dead is like 80% of the way there already
This is an amazingly sweet manga that is exactly what it says on the tin: a middle aged salaryman having regular smoke breaks with a supermarket clerk. That’s it. That’s the whole manga.
I love it.
I love it.
Smoking Behind The Supermarket With You is a cozy rom-com manga: aftermath.site/smoking-behind...
January 13, 2026 at 3:33 AM
This is an amazingly sweet manga that is exactly what it says on the tin: a middle aged salaryman having regular smoke breaks with a supermarket clerk. That’s it. That’s the whole manga.
I love it.
I love it.
How Do You Find Your Masculinity?
How Do You Find Your Masculinity?
How do you find your masculinity in the modern world? Some thoughts on what it takes to be a man in this day and age.
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January 12, 2026 at 9:26 PM
How Do You Find Your Masculinity?
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
How Do I Let Go of My "Perfect" Relationship And Move On?
Their last relationship was "perfect", and that's a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn't innately worse than what they had?
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January 12, 2026 at 7:59 PM
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man?
Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man?
Why does it feel like trying to be a good man is almost impossible? Learning to be a good man isn't about rules, it's about respect...
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January 12, 2026 at 6:31 PM
Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man?
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The meat market got an unexpected sausage delivery.
WTFIWWY Live - I Have The Meats - 1/5/26
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January 11, 2026 at 5:22 PM
The meat market got an unexpected sausage delivery.
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
How Do I Let Go of My 'Perfect' Relationship And Move On?
Their last relationship was 'perfect', and that's a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn't inherently worse than what they had?
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January 12, 2026 at 4:43 PM
NEW COLUMN: Their last relationship was “perfect”, and that’s a problem. How can they accept that a new, different relationship isn’t inherently worse than what they had?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Let Go of My “Perfect” Relationship And Move On?
I think so many of people’s lack of media literacy and unwillingness to consider moral complexities that aren’t strict black/white dichotomies comes from parents not teaching kids how to read as God intended: with books kids are far too young to read kept within in easy reach of an 8 year old.
January 12, 2026 at 4:00 PM
I think so many of people’s lack of media literacy and unwillingness to consider moral complexities that aren’t strict black/white dichotomies comes from parents not teaching kids how to read as God intended: with books kids are far too young to read kept within in easy reach of an 8 year old.
This is, no shit, precisely the cover that got me to read this book. Because *damn*. Pirates! Sorcery! Mate Care-for!
The Pirates of the Caribbean-ass re-issue can't hold a candle to this.
The Pirates of the Caribbean-ass re-issue can't hold a candle to this.
Today's Classic Cover of the Day is On Stranger Tides by Tim Powers. This 1987 cover was illustrated by James Gurney, who also created the book series Dinotopia.
January 12, 2026 at 3:49 PM
This is, no shit, precisely the cover that got me to read this book. Because *damn*. Pirates! Sorcery! Mate Care-for!
The Pirates of the Caribbean-ass re-issue can't hold a candle to this.
The Pirates of the Caribbean-ass re-issue can't hold a candle to this.
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?
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January 12, 2026 at 9:11 AM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?
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I have been informed about the movie “By Design”, where Juliette Lewis swaps bodies with a chair and I swear to Christ my first thought is that the director is literalizing Kelly Sue DeConnick’s Sexy Lamp Test.
This could be AMAZING.
This could be AMAZING.
January 12, 2026 at 4:09 AM
I have been informed about the movie “By Design”, where Juliette Lewis swaps bodies with a chair and I swear to Christ my first thought is that the director is literalizing Kelly Sue DeConnick’s Sexy Lamp Test.
This could be AMAZING.
This could be AMAZING.
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?
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January 11, 2026 at 10:43 PM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Forgive and Forget?
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Forgive and Forget?
Hey Doctor NerdLove, Im contacting you because I need a non-biased opinion about my situation. It's about my ex who pushed me away, then broke things off via text, then apologized three weeks later. Can't ask friends or family because they will obviously side with me and just hate on her. So, first thing I want to start off with this girl I dated for a while had her own problems dealing with anxiety. Just stating that to help explain what happened afterwards. The start of the relationship was fantastic for me and her. The first month and a half
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January 11, 2026 at 8:02 PM
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Forgive and Forget?