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Dr. NerdLove
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Free now of the chains of Twitter, traveling the world and doing good. Dispensing the best dating advice on the Internet. Send your dating questions to [email protected].
Don't let grievance-peddlers and self-pitying strangers online dictate how you feel! Let me help you create a plan of action. Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 14, 2026 at 4:39 PM
Now live on Patreon: Everyone in his community thinks abstaining from sex is laudable and something to be proud of. So why is he so convinced that his being an older virgin makes him a loser?

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January 13, 2026 at 11:01 PM
January 13, 2026 at 3:20 PM
Sometimes the key to the love life you've always wanted is learning how to get out of your own way. I can help you with that! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 13, 2026 at 6:38 AM
January 12, 2026 at 10:25 PM
Sometimes the key to the love life you've always wanted is learning how to get out of your own way. I can help you with that! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 12, 2026 at 7:59 PM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?

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January 12, 2026 at 9:11 AM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: They can't get past comparing every new partner to their past "perfect" relationship. How can they stop feeling that just because it's DIFFERENT doesn't mean that it's inherently WORSE than what they had?

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January 11, 2026 at 10:43 PM
Are you tired of feeling unsure and insecure in your relationships? Need something more than a vague situationship? Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 10, 2026 at 8:50 AM
Are you tired of feeling unsure and insecure in your relationships? Need something more than a vague situationship? Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 9, 2026 at 10:33 PM
Are you tired of feeling unsure and insecure in your relationships? Need more than vague situationships? Let me help you find what you need! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!
January 9, 2026 at 4:48 PM
Now live on Patreon: Ask Dr. NerdLove Revised comes to a close for another year as I go back to a classic question: is it a good idea to take a break from dating in hopes that your crush will want to date you when you're done?

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January 9, 2026 at 2:30 AM
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your social life is learn how to get out of your own way. Need help figuring out how? Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove.com!
January 8, 2026 at 3:18 AM
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your social life is learn how to get out of your own way. Need help figuring out how? Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove.com!
January 7, 2026 at 5:06 PM
liberate me ex inferis
January 7, 2026 at 2:47 PM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: ADNL Revisited continues, as we re-examine the question: why, precisely, is it bad when men get frustrated because they can't get laid?

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January 7, 2026 at 9:22 AM
Open, clear and fearless communication is critical for any successful relationship. Let me help you build your communication skills! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove.com!

January 7, 2026 at 5:18 AM
I don't mean to be all "Old Man Yells At Cloud" but I feel that we have done The Youth a disservice by never teaching them about "I don't have a job, a car or an apartment, but I'm in a band"...
January 6, 2026 at 11:53 PM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: ADNL Revisited continues, as we re-examine the question: why, precisely, is it bad when men get frustrated because they can't get laid?

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January 6, 2026 at 10:59 PM
Open, clear and fearless communication is critical for any successful relationship. Let me help you build your communication skills! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove.com!

January 5, 2026 at 7:59 PM
Clear, open and fearless communication is vital for a successful relationship! Let me help you work on YOUR communication skills! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove.com!

January 5, 2026 at 4:45 PM
Now live on Patreon: The Doc revisits some older questions to see if his answers have changed. In today's letter: can someone who's poly simply STOP being poly and be happy in a monogamous relationship?

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January 5, 2026 at 8:46 AM
Now live on Patreon: The Doc revisits some older questions to see if his answers have changed. In today's letter: can someone who's poly simply STOP being poly and be happy in a monogamous relationship?

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January 4, 2026 at 10:38 PM
January 2, 2026 at 2:40 PM
Just gonna leave this here as a tribute for 2026…
December 31, 2025 at 8:05 PM