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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · 22h

"The dance is tragic because both partners experience unresolved pain. Try as they might, well-intentioned efforts fail to bridge the gap between different neurological systems."
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The Tragic Dance of the Neurodiverse Couple

A cycle of unresolved conflict

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · 2d

My book, Disconnected, comes from a wish to connect readers with the resources I once needed myself. To celebrate the book's 1st anniversary in November, I’m sharing a new series of essays on how Asperger’s can challenge couples.
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Autism 101

A series of essays on how autism affects couples

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Sep 9

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Book review of Disconnected

Disconnected: Portrait of a Neurodiverse Marriage by Eleanor Vincent is a personal and emotionally raw memoir that explores the complexities of love, communication, and resilience in a late-life marri...

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Sep 9

"Disconnected" is a 2025 Readers' Favorite Finalist in the Non-Fiction Relationships genre! This is the sort of news that keeps me going.=)
#disconnected #readersfavorite #readersfavoritefinalist #nonfictionrelationships #memoir #womenwriter #neurodivergence #vineleavespress #indieauthor

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Aug 29

These are two of my favorite reviews from the last couple of months.

It means the world to me to connect with readers and hear that my book made them feel less alone. And one of the ways more readers who need my book can find it is through reviews. Take a moment to drop a line?🙏

Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jul 23

It's been a good couple of weeks for Disconnected, with my article up on Jane Friedman’s blog on whether Writing Awards matter & a review from The US Review of Books.

These little wins are inspiring me to keep writing the books I need in this world.=)

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jul 17

So, friends, what do you think? In this week's Substack, I weigh in on my recent Eric Hoffer Award and my recent article on Jane Friedman's blog.

#substack #writingawards

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Do Writing Awards Matter?

I'll take mine with a shot of dopamine, please

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jul 16

When writers ask me about how I got published, or built a platform, or started my author newsletter, I respond, “I follow Jane Friedman. Today, I had the honor to share my article "I won a writing award, does it matter?" on her blog!

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I Won a Writing Award. Does It Matter? | Jane Friedman

Even awards that offer only bragging rights, but no prize money, can telegraph something important: your work matters to readers.

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jun 24

Great fun at 9th Ave: SF Writers Grotto Blood, Sweat and Tears Toast at Green Apple Books! 🍷

Earlier this month, I had the opportunity to celebrate Disconnected, a finalist for the Eric Hoffer Award, alongside other Grotto writers who released books this year!

One Big Cheer for New Books!🎉

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jun 20

Later post!

The 11th annual Bay Area Book Festival #Baybookfest was a wonderful opportunity to connect with readers and writers. Wonderful panels and pals!
#writing #writingcommunity #SFBayArea #bayareabookfest #baybookfest #disconnected #memoir

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Jun 6

I'm attending No Kings's event, “NO KINGS Contra Costa County” - sign up now to join me! www.mobilize.us/nokings/even...

NO KINGS Contra Costa County · No Kings

Rally & March on Saturday 6/14 from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. starting in Broadway Plaza by the fountain behind the Apple Store. More details coming soon. We are also planning overpass visibility actions...

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · May 16

My memoir Disconnected won an honorable mention in the memoir category of the Eric Hoffer Award, the premier award for small press books. Sharing this news today gladdens my heart. There were more than 2,500 books entered in 25 categories. Being among the small % of writers honored is remarkable

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · May 2

Just found out my memoir Disconnected made the Grand Prize Shortlist for the Eric Hoffer Award. Found out mid-electrical rewiring—fitting, since the book’s about the brain's wiring. Deeply honored, especially in the company of Joan Kwon Glass, Stacey C. Johnson & others. #Memoir #HofferAward

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 28

Is a house really a home till the color-coordinated bookshelf is done?
#justmoved #newhome #bookshelf #decorating

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 25

Marlowe is scary-smart, extremely intuitive, and the most people-oriented cat I’ve ever met. He trills when he has a question for me, follows me from room to room, and always sits on my lap and purrs. He is truly an excellent companion. Writing can be solitary, but it’s better with a Marlowe!

Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 25

Earlier this month, I did the sweetest book club talk. As an author, I love book club talks; they're interactive, intimate, and always fun.

Want to book me for your next book club? I travel all over the Bay, and I also love Zoom meet-ups. Let's open a page, crack open a bottle of wine, and chat!

Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 23

Disconnected has resonated with a range of people: women with their own stories of heartbreak late in life, lovers of memoir, the children of neurodivergent parents, mental health professionals, journalists, hopeless and cynical romantics, and more. It's such an honor to hear from so many folks

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 21

Reflecting on my life after the story of my memoir, Disconnected, I am reminded that every moment is an opportunity for love. My last romantic love story didn't go as planned, but I see all my love from nature, animals, family, friends, and community. I can say, Okay, this is good. This is enough.

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 17

1966. Is it time to bring it back? Back then, I worked at Perkin’s Pancake House so I could buy all my own cosmetics and clothes. This hair is brought to you by the powers of AquaNet hairspray, which I just learned still exists!
#1960s #bighairdontcare #aquanet #throwbackthursday

Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 17

Like many writers, I often need nature to connect to and to replenish my creative spirit. I love living in Rossmoor, with views of Mount Diablo visible from all corners. Sometimes all I need is to walk out my front door.
#activeliving #norcal #walnutcreek #amwriting #naturelover #rossmoor

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 11

There is something poignant about this photo. I believe this is the last move I will ever do (I can't imagine going through the exhaustion of moving ever again), and in this photo, it is as if my suitcases are looking out at the beginning of a new life, pondering the old one.

Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 4

Happy National Library Week!

Join me at the Local Author Book Festival at the Benicia Public Library this Saturday! There will be readings, Q&As, Book Signings, and community!

And if you can't attend, order a copy of Disconnected from your local library.=)

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Apr 1

Let's kick off National Library Week!

Fabulous local authors from all over the Bay Area will be present for Readings and Q&As at the Benicia Public Library this Saturday! Let's support authors and our beloved libraries in this tenacious and scary time! We truly need the arts more than ever.

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Mar 26

The handsome Overlord of the Living Room overseeing my packing process.
#moving #packing #mainecoone.

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Eleanor Vincent @eleanorpvincent.bsky.social · Mar 24

Have you ever experienced the feeling that a relationship is slipping through your hands and you just don’t know why? Finding your way through the hurt and confusion takes courage!

❤️ #memoir #disconnected #relationships #neurodiversity #neurodiverslove #autism #love #loveandletgo #vineleavespress

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