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🦄feji💜
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Marble enthusiast. Atheist. Bi-polar with flavoring. Hopes this is the good place. Optimistic nihilist. Radical empathy. Secretly excited about things. 🤫 🦶 He/Him 🏳️‍🌈 📍The OC My profile on Letterboxd https://boxd.it/5KLD
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I'm just an earnest positive sincere person that sometimes struggles but tries to never take it out on anyone. If I say something I mean it, unless we have a relationship where you could maybe expect a random dry sarcastic to come through. But I try to never make the sarcastic comment negative.
The weirdness of people trying to help me by giving me advice that what I am doing and what I explained just moments ago is actively trying to not do.

I am like... were you not listening to the entirity of the point of the thing that I am trying to do?
I'll do my best... 🙏
It's funny cause I'm trying to get the information to go to an event my boss is speaking at. I've been trying to get the where for awhile and it's just ignored. And they answer other questions in the chat.
What i feel is I'm a loser. But it has to be unintentional. I just am very intentional with how I engage with people. Very understanding. And I see ways to let them know they are seen and I try and take those moments. I don't know what to do with this. am I just a baby or these ok adult thoughts?
Like I text people... And they just don't respond. And I try and have grace and I try and have understanding that they are busy or whatever. But it legit hurts my feelings. I see in group chats my texts get repeatedly ignored and others get responded to. I don't understand.
I don't think my expectations of communication I have with my boss, coworkers, and people in general are too high. But I'm continually not responded to.

Like what about me does that? Am I annoying? Does no one like me? Does no one respect me? Should I just Fucking jump into the abyss and disappear?
@tarantical.bsky.social if you accept cis men to your coven... I'd like to be considered.
It's how I tell people I love and appreciate them. 😊💜 Look at all the goals of mine you've helped me with.
The absolutely garbage Fucking cunt as bullshit these politicians do.... Just swear the person in. Jesus Fucking christ. I know speaker Mike Johnson is a gay ass Queen but this is petty even for Queens.
Enough is enough. Adelita Grijalva was elected on September 23. The people of Arizona have a right to be represented in Congress.
 
During today’s pro forma session, when the House is called to order I will seek unanimous consent to insist upon the swearing-in of Adelita Grijalva.
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Not sure I get Trump's new vision for the White House
All the greatest countries in the world aren't the ones shouting they are the greatest countries in the world.

If you need to tell us you are great...
a man in a pink shirt and tie is blowing a kiss while wearing suspenders .
ALT: a man in a pink shirt and tie is blowing a kiss while wearing suspenders .
media.tenor.com
Imagine being a person that things protecting themselves means making other people suffer.
I AM B+ TOO! *high five blood type friend*
I am getting headaches lately.

My anxiety and stress is getting higher, but my capability to handle it is getting higher. SO... I am pleased to announce anxiety and stress now gives me headaches. But I am powering through.
Saw the movie #InOurBlood tonight at the Newport Beach Film Festival and I really Fucking loved it. Go see it when it comes out in two weeks if you can.
I'm at the @thefridacinema.org watching a members only screening of The Mastermind.
The hardest thing I've had to learn as I got older was I don't need permission. And I often find what I was looking for when I used to use language like this was people to give me permission.
The standard of which I hold myself is unhealthy, unreasonable, and quite frankly suicidal.

The irony of holding myself to such standards is it makes it hard to actually live up to what I set for myself, as one must take care of themselves first before helping other.

Selfcare is preparation.
Don't critique in any other way than by example. Just do the thing you want to see. I tell people at my college this all the time. If you see a better way to do things, that's an invite to do it.

Lately I have been ending lots of posts like this when Rent references. But I will refrain this time
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I know it's a fool's errand to expect anything from the media but "President posts video of himself dumping diarrhea on America" is an important thing to call attention to for a dozen reasons
That's not really the point.
My partner told me that I asked them a question and just grabbed my phone instead of listening to them and I felt all bad that I felt like I was going to have a panic attack.