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This post should've been easy (according to my impatience) but apparently the concepts needed more time
She's cooked, she's seasoned, she's ready.
I Rebuke the Concept of Reactive Abuse
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She's cooked, she's seasoned, she's ready.
I Rebuke the Concept of Reactive Abuse
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February 6, 2026 at 3:47 AM
This post should've been easy (according to my impatience) but apparently the concepts needed more time
She's cooked, she's seasoned, she's ready.
I Rebuke the Concept of Reactive Abuse
live on substonk
Relationship Inventory Worksheet gift in your inbox when you sub (costs nothing) 🫶🏻
She's cooked, she's seasoned, she's ready.
I Rebuke the Concept of Reactive Abuse
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Relationship Inventory Worksheet gift in your inbox when you sub (costs nothing) 🫶🏻
Why would mine own ass treat me this way (sore) after all I've done for it? (leg day)
February 5, 2026 at 7:22 PM
Why would mine own ass treat me this way (sore) after all I've done for it? (leg day)
I only ever hate my roommate a lil when I think they should be displaying a level of compassion, empathy, and ability to take accountability that would have had to be present for us to still be friends.
February 5, 2026 at 7:22 PM
I only ever hate my roommate a lil when I think they should be displaying a level of compassion, empathy, and ability to take accountability that would have had to be present for us to still be friends.
Oh good god someone's got me making stupid delulu faces again
February 5, 2026 at 7:22 PM
Oh good god someone's got me making stupid delulu faces again
Right and wrong only exist for each individual
Connecting to authenticity is how you learn what that means for you
Connecting to authenticity is how you learn what that means for you
February 5, 2026 at 7:21 PM
Right and wrong only exist for each individual
Connecting to authenticity is how you learn what that means for you
Connecting to authenticity is how you learn what that means for you
My ideology is not hedonism in the classically defined sense but it's also not quite eudaimonia.
February 5, 2026 at 7:21 PM
My ideology is not hedonism in the classically defined sense but it's also not quite eudaimonia.
What would life feel like if you didn't see love as a limited resource?
February 5, 2026 at 7:21 PM
What would life feel like if you didn't see love as a limited resource?
Mitski really cooked with "my love is mine all mine"
That one line has been shifting my brain chemistry slowly but surely for years
That one line has been shifting my brain chemistry slowly but surely for years
February 5, 2026 at 7:21 PM
Mitski really cooked with "my love is mine all mine"
That one line has been shifting my brain chemistry slowly but surely for years
That one line has been shifting my brain chemistry slowly but surely for years
Every sentence is either spreading love or asking for it, at its core, so every social media presence on every platform at some point and in some way is seeking validation, care, etc.
It's just being human :)
It's just being human :)
February 5, 2026 at 7:21 PM
Every sentence is either spreading love or asking for it, at its core, so every social media presence on every platform at some point and in some way is seeking validation, care, etc.
It's just being human :)
It's just being human :)
Everyone should get bimbo'd once in their life just to see how it feels for them.
No shade if it isn't for you but we could definitely have more people serving cvnt if they could try it and learn that they love it
No shade if it isn't for you but we could definitely have more people serving cvnt if they could try it and learn that they love it
February 5, 2026 at 9:54 AM
Everyone should get bimbo'd once in their life just to see how it feels for them.
No shade if it isn't for you but we could definitely have more people serving cvnt if they could try it and learn that they love it
No shade if it isn't for you but we could definitely have more people serving cvnt if they could try it and learn that they love it
Anger is the "this is wrong, let's take action to change it" emotion
And it's always the trench coat being worn by a deeper emotion like sadness or fear
And it's always the trench coat being worn by a deeper emotion like sadness or fear
February 5, 2026 at 7:28 AM
Anger is the "this is wrong, let's take action to change it" emotion
And it's always the trench coat being worn by a deeper emotion like sadness or fear
And it's always the trench coat being worn by a deeper emotion like sadness or fear
I just know my moral perfectionism baddies need to hear this one:
There's no objectively right or wrong choices in life, just right or wrong FOR YOU
There's no objectively right or wrong choices in life, just right or wrong FOR YOU
February 5, 2026 at 7:25 AM
I just know my moral perfectionism baddies need to hear this one:
There's no objectively right or wrong choices in life, just right or wrong FOR YOU
There's no objectively right or wrong choices in life, just right or wrong FOR YOU
What would you do if you were certain you couldn't fail?
February 5, 2026 at 6:11 AM
What would you do if you were certain you couldn't fail?
Morning mindset shift:
How can I convert today's drudgery into a pleasure practice?
Translation: how can I find ease and enjoyment in what I usually see as monotonous, routine, boring, or unfun?
How can I convert today's drudgery into a pleasure practice?
Translation: how can I find ease and enjoyment in what I usually see as monotonous, routine, boring, or unfun?
February 2, 2026 at 7:56 PM
Morning mindset shift:
How can I convert today's drudgery into a pleasure practice?
Translation: how can I find ease and enjoyment in what I usually see as monotonous, routine, boring, or unfun?
How can I convert today's drudgery into a pleasure practice?
Translation: how can I find ease and enjoyment in what I usually see as monotonous, routine, boring, or unfun?
I post for the dudes, dudettes, and duderinos who thought there was something terribly wrong with them mentally or physically until they found out their biggest support was secretly their biggest opp
January 28, 2026 at 9:37 PM
I post for the dudes, dudettes, and duderinos who thought there was something terribly wrong with them mentally or physically until they found out their biggest support was secretly their biggest opp
Boundaries are a huge part of building healthy connections, but I haven't met a single person who didn't have any misconceptions about them (aside from one [1] of the MANY therapists I've tried over the years).
January 28, 2026 at 2:00 AM
Boundaries are a huge part of building healthy connections, but I haven't met a single person who didn't have any misconceptions about them (aside from one [1] of the MANY therapists I've tried over the years).
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I think everyone should trans their gender at least once, as a treat
January 26, 2026 at 3:42 AM
I think everyone should trans their gender at least once, as a treat
Can we be perpetual works in progress together?
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👉👈 🥺
January 26, 2026 at 9:38 AM
Can we be perpetual works in progress together?
👉👈 🥺
👉👈 🥺
The painting that is you will never be done, but finishing it was never the point
January 26, 2026 at 9:37 AM
The painting that is you will never be done, but finishing it was never the point
Wash your toys.
Wash. Them. Every. Time.
The bacteria are multiplying. You will give yourself an infection or your partner if you have one. Wash your toys.
Wash. Them. Every. Time.
The bacteria are multiplying. You will give yourself an infection or your partner if you have one. Wash your toys.
January 26, 2026 at 5:52 AM
Wash your toys.
Wash. Them. Every. Time.
The bacteria are multiplying. You will give yourself an infection or your partner if you have one. Wash your toys.
Wash. Them. Every. Time.
The bacteria are multiplying. You will give yourself an infection or your partner if you have one. Wash your toys.
All my loved ones are weird little freaks and that's exactly how it should be
January 25, 2026 at 11:45 AM
All my loved ones are weird little freaks and that's exactly how it should be
Enemies to lovers is a common romance trope because love and hate are more closely related than we'd generally like to think
January 25, 2026 at 8:34 AM
Enemies to lovers is a common romance trope because love and hate are more closely related than we'd generally like to think
The opposite of hate is love, but the opposite of love is indifference
January 25, 2026 at 8:34 AM
The opposite of hate is love, but the opposite of love is indifference
To live is to experience
And to experience is to be reshaped like sea glass
And to experience is to be reshaped like sea glass
January 25, 2026 at 8:32 AM
To live is to experience
And to experience is to be reshaped like sea glass
And to experience is to be reshaped like sea glass
My least favorite part of being on T is probably the nose hairs
January 25, 2026 at 8:31 AM
My least favorite part of being on T is probably the nose hairs