In other words, I only hate them when I want them to be someone whom I know after 11 years that they are not. They're just being who they are

I forgot to live my choice to accept them as they are and move on. That part's on me

I chose the name hedonic flow because it's closer to hedonism than eudaimonia - focusing on healing trauma and building a life filled with sustainable, healthy pleasure practices both sexual and not that serve you both in the present and long term.

It made a HUGE difference in how I approach my relationships, and I hope it does the same for you.

which helps you to finally get clarity about the people that give you brain fog or a weird level of anxiety (you might know it as "butterflies") by giving you a place to get your thoughts, feelings, values, and data about your person down in one place!

Today we're tackling some myths and fears that are keeping you from getting started or getting a firm grip on using boundaries.

Full love letter up on substonk (you know where to find 🖇)
Aaand if you subscribe to my substonk, you get my free Relationship Inventory worksheet

Why yes, it had come up. They'd just lied every time I asked if it could be them and ignored me when I'd occasionally yap about the importance of proper toy care when it came up organically.