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howevericonic.bsky.social
goldilocs
@howevericonic.bsky.social
writer. poet. muser. artist. amateur astrologer. bisexual. still pushing the happy edges agenda. determined to make y’all call these posts flutters.🙂‍↕️ (she/her)
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Hello friends both new and old!!
I wrote a poetry #book about falling in love, being in love, & what happens thereafter. It’s available on Barnes & Nobles website!! It’s called a lovely little thing (but it might be easier to find under my name, Reine LaCle) all proceeds got to Sudanese crowdfunds!
Everyone wants me to like my grandmother, and then gets mad at me when i bring up how she’s abused all of us in uniquely evil ways. Yall can sanitize this lady’s actions all yall want. Imma call a spade a spade every time.
February 11, 2026 at 1:04 AM
Someone said “i ain’t know you was a Bad Bunny fan”. And I’m like shit i ain’t know i was either until yesterday 😭
February 9, 2026 at 4:28 PM
Anyway I’ve decided if ppl think I’m evil, imma just start agreeing wit em. Fuck it.
February 8, 2026 at 3:47 PM
I’m bi in in the Black way, just like i am woman in the Black way. If you don’t know what i mean, read more Black feminist works circa1960-1980 and stay the fuck out the business 🙂‍↕️
February 8, 2026 at 3:44 PM
I’m here for two reasons.
1. I’m cis gender and feel like my presentation is quite feminine. However, white ppl (white queer ppl especially) up north are eager to masculinize me in a way that white southern folks are not. And i think most of it is the proximity (or lack thereof) to Blackness.
February 6, 2026 at 5:07 PM
I always struggle with knowing if my exposure to queerness/transness was unique to my upbringing OR if it was a generalized southern thing. Because i felt like was all had an Uncle Sue or an Aunt Johnny. Even the white folks. We would sell dinners for folks to get their gender affirming surgeries
February 6, 2026 at 5:04 PM
kinda want to read a piece abt the perception of Black gender identity in America, particularly as it relates to northernness vs southernness…kinda want to write a piece abt the prevalence southern gender divergence, its acceptance, & how starkly it changed once northerners started migrating south…
February 6, 2026 at 4:48 PM
hmmmm…i definitely find cishet men attractive…….but i do not think im interested in dating them….interesting development (everyone saw this coming but me)
January 31, 2026 at 8:04 AM
It got better. (Called him an unloveable naked mole rat)
It got worse lmao
I thought i was getting my own Taylor from Paramore. I was blinded by the curly hair in his face while he jumped around and played guitar. I got multiple life lessons instead
January 28, 2026 at 9:25 PM
Two weeks notice put in :) we’re almost free babes
I gotta quit this hotel job. I think it’s turning me genuinely evil.
January 28, 2026 at 9:23 PM
Ryan Coogler makes me want to be a filmmaker so bad. Like i know it’s futile, but for a moment when im watching his films, i feel like my stories deserve to be heard and seen and appreciated. Before reality hits, i feel limitless.
January 22, 2026 at 8:28 PM
My coworkers at my other job piss me off so bad. We could’ve had a good time, but yall decided to be weirdos. They can suck my clit from the back fr.
January 22, 2026 at 8:21 PM
In 2026 I’m beating my disordered eating habits to a bloody pulp with my bare hands idc
January 2, 2026 at 12:40 AM
Imagine hating me when all I’m doing is eating peach cups and blowing my nose omg.
December 30, 2025 at 5:53 PM
My cat glares at me every time i sneeze or cough. Like damn my b sistah😭 if it’s any consolation, I’m also annoyed that I’m sick😭
December 28, 2025 at 6:46 PM
Unfortunately everyone is testing my limits, so everyone is getting cussed out.
December 23, 2025 at 9:10 PM
I vague post about my past because it pisses me off that someone as sexy as me has a tragic backstory. like that’s so unfaiiiirrrrr. i should just be beautiful and carefree.
December 23, 2025 at 2:55 AM
My therapist literally instructed me to not even try to “get in the Christmas spirit” this year, and wouldn’t you know it? This is the best holiday season I’ve had since i had to move back to my fuck ass hometown.
December 23, 2025 at 1:09 AM
I gotta quit this hotel job. I think it’s turning me genuinely evil.
December 20, 2025 at 7:00 AM
It’s SO annoying that my body’s immediate response to being emotionally overwhelmed is to kill my appetite. Like i was planning on SMASHING my favorite homemade pasta last night but the plate and i just looked at each other😭😭😭
December 9, 2025 at 5:08 PM
I don’t think I’ll ever get over the fact that my brain just…broke. Until then i didn’t understand what ppl meant when they talked about mental breakdowns. And then very suddenly did. For two and a half years. Wild. I now constantly live in fear of it happening again though, so that’s fun.
December 9, 2025 at 3:37 AM
My best friend being a licensed clinical therapist makes me want to apologize and send flowers to all of my therapist. Like oh my god i probably traumatized the fuck outta them ppl im so sorrrrrryyyyyy😭
December 9, 2025 at 3:12 AM
It got worse lmao
I thought i was getting my own Taylor from Paramore. I was blinded by the curly hair in his face while he jumped around and played guitar. I got multiple life lessons instead
December 6, 2025 at 12:08 PM
What I’m beginning to understand is that folks think poets are using pretentious language and structure on purpose. While there are, no doubt, some poets that do, the unfortunate majority of us are just (poorly) trying to communicate😭.
December 5, 2025 at 6:53 AM
I’m tired of reheating Kanthony’s nachos. I need to get Shonda Rhimes on the line.
December 1, 2025 at 3:12 AM