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Casey Winslow

@kinkycurly.bsky.social

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🌟 Professional miscreant, artist, hedonist, and Sacred Intimate 🌟 My Website: https://mxcurly.com Find me Everywhere: https://linktr.ee/yourkinkycurly Send me a Gift!: https://throne.com/kinkycurly

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 8d

There's a confidence that comes from working in a new space with clients new to BDSM. Knowing that I bring skills and experience they've never encountered before—and feeling prepared to guide them on their first steps along a path that's shaped so much of my own journey. I’m lucky to do this work.

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 12d

It’s so delicious to discover a life-long friend is a fellow #kinkster…

Especially when he confides he’s been locked in #chastity for MONTHS 🥰

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 12d

Thoroughly enjoyed my time in Boise! Got wild with some #watersports and made plenty of #shibari friends.

Also just dropped about $400 on new #estim gear— prepare to be shocked!

⚡️ 🧑‍🔬

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 12d

Yeah. I like ‘em thicc.

#foraging #mushroom #shrooms #kingbolete #nerd

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 18d

If I wouldn’t string myself up for fun…
why should anyone else trust me to do it?

Lucky for all of us—I love a good self-suspension. 😉

#shibari #bondage #BDSM #selftie #rope #suspension

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PupAmp @pupamp.bsky.social · 18d

From ball pain, ball slips and why doesn’t my cage fit right? Today’s new vid is all about ways you might be doing chastity wrong! (And our tips to make it right!) @kink3d.com @mrkristofer.bsky.social

Happy #locktober yall.
youtu.be/rkXh1FbdAxs

You're Doing Chastity Wrong! - LOCKTOBER

YouTube video by Watts The Safeword

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 19d

Just wait until you see what I did with that design last night ;P

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 19d

Had a really good day holed up in the library, catching up on current biophysicalsociocultural research in BDSM.

…what, is that NOT everyone’s idea of a good time?

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 20d

Just a nice, relaxing day at the park 😜

#BDSM #shibari #rope #bondage

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 23d

Jokes aside, I made a major mistake not asking for this client’s history before playing. I assumed, based on the language he was using, that he was experienced.

I’m a professional and had the skills to manage the scene safely. But I failed to educate him on the risks involved.

#RACK #SSC #PRICK

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 23d

Turns out, he’s just an über masochist and didn’t know impact over needle play is considered kind of… intense.

Remember, kids: always do a thorough negotiation before edgeplay!

#BDSM #edgeplay #needleplay #professional #prodom #femdom

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 23d

OMFG I just did needle play with a guy who’d never done it and he completely passed out.

At the very end of the session I asked how intense the scene was and he shrugged and said “eh, a 3/10”

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · 26d

If I’m feeling slutty: fishnets.
If I’m feeling sophisticated: silk!

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Reflective Desire @reflectivedesire.com · Sep 8

Had a very strong desire to be groped and inspected by
Vespa while watching this video with @gothcharlotte.bsky.social

reflectivedesire.com/videos/pleas...

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 20

Not my usual style, but hey! It was a request.

#BDSM #worship #muscles #NSFW #femdom #strong

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 18

The turn of the seasons means my site has a fresh face!

If you haven’t already, check out mxcurly.com and subscribe to my #newsletter— I work hard on that thing, dammit.

#BDSM #tantra #education #sexeducation #writing

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 18

Planning another #tour for October!

Where oh where to go next?

#SW #SWer #touring #kink #spookyseason

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 16

To anyone who thinks this job is easy money- there are different kinds of labor.

#emotionallabor #sexwork #nonjudgment #lovingkindness

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 16

I just had a very emotionally intense session with a client. I’m SUPER proud of the way I responded, but I’m still feeling upset.

I’m also proud of the way I’m verbalizing, rather than flailing my psychological arms around like an allegorical tube man.

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 15

Absolutely love working with clients who go *all in*.

One of mine built his own bespoke ball-busting table— I couldn’t help but admire the craftsmanship as I was kneeling his package;

This is a man of taste, tools, and testicular ambition!

#KinkCraft #CustomFurniture #BuiltToLast #DIYDomination

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Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 11

Currently planning a trip to Greece and once again getting sucked down the #ultralight rabbit-hole.

Why does my brain fetishize optimization??

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Sep 11

Back in Oregon and feeling refreshed after a windy, buggy, freezing cold trip to the Boundary Waters.

…can you tell I’m a fan of #type2fun?

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Aug 18

Nothing quite like being walked in on by an unsuspecting stranger during a #BDSM scene to get the adrenaline pumping…

Ah. I’ve discovered #exhibitionism.

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Aug 8

Yes it was! 😋

Casey Winslow @kinkycurly.bsky.social · Aug 3

3) service submissive?