Normally on Fridays, I run readers questions for Ask Dr. NerdLove. On occasion, however, I'll get a letter that necessitates going into greater depth than the usual submission. Sometimes the answer is more complex or requires a deeper dive into the situation. Sometimes the only way to see where things went wrong is to grab the bonesaw and start carving into the body of the dilemma and poking around at the guts inside. So it's time to scrub up, snap on some gloves and dive in for a little emotional surgery in this relationship Post Mortem. Let's do this. Dr. NerdLove,