natoleander.bsky.social
@natoleander.bsky.social
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I love you, and I’m proud of you.

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The rage cycle sucks.
Here's how to break free.
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January 12, 2026 at 10:26 PM
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I’ve got a lot more to share, but I want to keep today’s message simple. Forward this to a friend who needs to hear it. Take a breather. Give yourself permission to not have it all figured out right now, to be confused and overwhelmed.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:25 PM
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Allow for integration of urgent activist work without abandoning your core mission. Maybe that means something as simple as cooking a meal for a friend who’s on the ground, while your primary role is behind the scenes.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:24 PM
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Find your superpower and hone it. Activism involves many different roles, and trying to do everything is not efficient or effective. The stuff that’s easy and magical for you is needed in the movement.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:24 PM
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Meaningful connection is essential. Talk to a friend. Laugh together. Make a plan about a small way to help each other, your community, or someone who’s struggling.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:24 PM
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You need two big reminders as often as possible. One: You cannot fix everything. Two: everything cannot be fixed right now. (But also, that does not mean it’s time to give up!)

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January 12, 2026 at 10:23 PM
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You are allowed to rest, even when shit is really, really bad. Like, every day. Even every hour you can find a few moments to disconnect and reset.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:23 PM
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In fact, all the underlying factors that fuel the rage cycle can be redirected to fuel sustainable communal change. It just takes a few adjustments (some of which you’ve probably implemented in other areas of your life!):

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January 12, 2026 at 10:23 PM
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You can get off social media and still succumb to this. It’s all coming from a good place: your compassionate heart, your desire to make real change, your capacity for connection. You are not the problem here.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:22 PM
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But please don’t judge yourself. I’ve been through that cycle a thousand times. It’s quite literally what our environment sets us up for: social media, constant news exposure, lots of eager energy trying to find a focus, human rage on a large scale.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:22 PM
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You tell yourself to go to another protest or join another activism group. But you can’t get yourself to do anything. You doomscroll. You crash. Then the rage cycle begins again.

This is not sustainable activism.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:21 PM
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You make eloquent social media posts. You aren’t sleeping enough. You feel guilty that you’re not doing more. You’re not sure what to do, but you feel the burden of what should be done, and the gnawing sense that whatever you’re doing isn’t enough. You have circles under your eyes. You feel numb.
January 12, 2026 at 10:21 PM
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First of all:

The rage cycle is exhausting. You are furiously energized by the news, you take in more news than your brain can handle in a day, your furious energy grows, and you immediately want to do something. Maybe you show up to a protest. You shout and wave signs.
January 12, 2026 at 10:20 PM
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I’ve been working on an essay about ableism and the importance of rest, and as it keeps growing, I’ve put off sending a newsletter to y’all. But I want to be writing and saying more, and responding to the moment. And you need support, care, and inspiration when everything seems hopeless.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:20 PM
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I wish I had the RIGHT thing to say right now.

There’s a lot of despair flying around. A lot of terror. And incredibly righteous anger that’s trying to find the right target to change this shit.

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January 12, 2026 at 10:19 PM
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A friend of mine @natoleander.bsky.social is needing mutual aid help for them and their 10mo. They’ve recently gone through some very heavy life events, and need some financial support. Please check out their fundraiser here, and share however you’re able: chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable
Spending the majority of your time strategizing how to stay on someone's good side is not normal.
chuffed.org
June 26, 2025 at 1:40 AM
No, I don't want to read books by violent abusers, watch movies with violent abusers, or listen to music by violent abusers.
September 29, 2025 at 8:04 PM
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My friend Nat needs help! Their family is victim to a series of unfortunate events: Their partner got a concussion and their car was wrecked! They need help to pay the bills, replace their car, and take care of their newest member of the family. Donate here: buff.ly/sLJJXPr
Mutual Aid: Help an Activist Family Replace our Car
A month ago, my chilld's father survived a terrifying accident. We are very lucky that he was able to walk away—but our car was utterly totaled, and now we're unable to replace it.
chuffed.org
May 22, 2025 at 12:41 PM
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May 21, 2025 at 10:42 PM
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No one experiencing the tragedy of a miscarriage should be arrested, much less abandoned in jail for 5 months with a $100k bond. But that’s exactly what happened to Mallori Patrice Strait in Texas. Women, particularly women of color, in this country are no longer allowed dignity even in extreme loss
May 21, 2025 at 3:19 PM
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A reminder from Marsha to tune out the trolling and hate and fearmongering and focus on the material conditions our people face, what we can do to resist, and how we can help each other survive.
January 23, 2025 at 2:06 PM
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This is an absolute must-read. This is exactly what I was writing about here: www.fightforthefuture.org/news/2024-07...

Too many progressive organizations develop their policy positions and priorities based on the whims of funders rather than any meaningful accountability to a grassroots base.
January 23, 2025 at 3:01 PM