evil nora
@noralenderbe.bsky.social
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middle aged trans woman. mom. wife and wife-haver. cogito ergo post. she/her "…le plaisir délicieux et toujours nouveau d'une occupation inutile"
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setting up a media thread for 2025, trying to keep track of everything in one place. starting off with a bang because i had a lot of nearly finished things that i wrapped up yesterday
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it famously worked out great for Kojima, so i think you're absolutely right!
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i'm so glad you posted this and that i looked it up, what a stupid/great joke
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omg you three are so cute! glad you had a nice chat 💜
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Justin Trudeau and Katy Perry is a weird pairing where i somehow think they could both do better.
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What is this, survival horror for ants?
A section in Alone in the Dark has you walking over narrow bridges above water. If you fall in, a monster comes out, and the camera is zoomed out so far for some reason that seeing where you are is extremely difficult
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god i need to find a forest full of trans women
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this is what made me learn it lol. really found trying to speak/sing while playing difficult because his cadence is so different from the strum rhythm.
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maybe i should stop doing morning shots. emotions get too heightened throughout the day
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damn Chi, that got a smile from me, thank you 💜

really hoping for that day to be soon
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y'all i am currently having the kind of dysphoria where i wish i could tear my arms off of my body so that i wouldn't have to look at these shoulders ever again.
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agreed. if someone was going to beat me to it, i'm glad it was you
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it's the work of a lifetime, therapists have a good racket imo
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it is so hard to fully move past family baggage. after all it took iris like 1000 years lol

i had a lot of trepidation before becoming a parent, and while i've made mistakes, it is possible to notice the vicious circle and break out of it.

it's getting easier as i recognize my feelings better, too
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one of that last major scenes between Iris and Mother (which i won't spoil) is about this, and i haven't been able to stop thinking about it all week.

i just hope that i'll be able to leave that behind me and offer my kids the chance to build something new
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and for me this hits so hard, probably because i'm actively struggling with this problem myself. i'm still rebuilding myself from that parental force, and at the same time trying not to pass that on to my kids, and the tightrope feels nearly impossible sometimes.
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the desire for security that feels like control, the desire to protect that results in distrust, the desire for tradition that creates resistance
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the game shows us three generations of women who are struggling with the same difficulties – albeit in progressively more heightened contexts – of how do we raise our children in a world we don't recognize while carrying all the baggage that came before?
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of all the various co-mingling metaphors in 1000xRESIST, the one that i can't stop thinking about is the usage of motherhood/parenthood as its own form of imperialism that we can't help but carry with us
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i'm never going to get the hang of not ruining my nails immediately every time i polish
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"I wish I had been born a man like you, brother..."

Don't let your dreams be dreams, Alma.
Alma in Final Fantasy Tactics saying the line in the skeet.