Kai (he/they) 🏳️⚧️
@thegrumpyenby.bsky.social
queer | transmasc enby | bi | kinky | poly | AuDHD | CPTSD | EDS? | covid cautious | serial immigrant | serious AI hater | deeply unserious person
tech lead at @distributeaid.org | freelance dev content
🇦🇹 in Galicia 🇪🇸 No soy expat. Soy immigrante.
tech lead at @distributeaid.org | freelance dev content
🇦🇹 in Galicia 🇪🇸 No soy expat. Soy immigrante.
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GM: Charisma check.
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
February 7, 2026 at 5:01 AM
GM: Charisma check.
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
I couldn't think of "special interest" and said "interest pack" instead and tbh as an AuDHDer, the idea of special interests coming as expansion packs tracks for me
February 7, 2026 at 9:52 AM
I couldn't think of "special interest" and said "interest pack" instead and tbh as an AuDHDer, the idea of special interests coming as expansion packs tracks for me
I know I'm three years late but I finally started *Shrinking* and I want to scream over the rooftops how fucking great this show is. I kept saying, "I'm going to play Hades later" but then I just kept watching. Couldn't stop. Wasn't even on my phone during it. Do you know when this happened last?
February 6, 2026 at 11:48 PM
I know I'm three years late but I finally started *Shrinking* and I want to scream over the rooftops how fucking great this show is. I kept saying, "I'm going to play Hades later" but then I just kept watching. Couldn't stop. Wasn't even on my phone during it. Do you know when this happened last?
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2016: Amber Heard exposes Johnny Depp abuse
2018: Depp in Fantastic Beasts 2
1999: Marilyn Manson admits rape threats & ex-gf murder plan
2020: JK Rowling sends Manson flowers
2008: Jeffrey Epstein convicted of CSA
2018: JK Rowling invites Epstein to Cursed Child
A PATTERN
2018: Depp in Fantastic Beasts 2
1999: Marilyn Manson admits rape threats & ex-gf murder plan
2020: JK Rowling sends Manson flowers
2008: Jeffrey Epstein convicted of CSA
2018: JK Rowling invites Epstein to Cursed Child
A PATTERN
February 3, 2026 at 2:14 AM
2016: Amber Heard exposes Johnny Depp abuse
2018: Depp in Fantastic Beasts 2
1999: Marilyn Manson admits rape threats & ex-gf murder plan
2020: JK Rowling sends Manson flowers
2008: Jeffrey Epstein convicted of CSA
2018: JK Rowling invites Epstein to Cursed Child
A PATTERN
2018: Depp in Fantastic Beasts 2
1999: Marilyn Manson admits rape threats & ex-gf murder plan
2020: JK Rowling sends Manson flowers
2008: Jeffrey Epstein convicted of CSA
2018: JK Rowling invites Epstein to Cursed Child
A PATTERN
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The court record shows what devices and data the FBI was able to ultimately access, and which devices it could not, after raiding the home of the reporter, Hannah Natanson.
It also shows how effective Lockdown Mode might be before the FBI may try other techniques to access the device.
It also shows how effective Lockdown Mode might be before the FBI may try other techniques to access the device.
FBI Couldn’t Get into WaPo Reporter’s iPhone Because It Had Lockdown Mode Enabled
Lockdown Mode is a sometimes overlooked feature of Apple devices that broadly make them harder to hack. A court record indicates the feature might be effective at stopping third parties unlocking some...
www.404media.co
February 4, 2026 at 2:16 PM
The court record shows what devices and data the FBI was able to ultimately access, and which devices it could not, after raiding the home of the reporter, Hannah Natanson.
It also shows how effective Lockdown Mode might be before the FBI may try other techniques to access the device.
It also shows how effective Lockdown Mode might be before the FBI may try other techniques to access the device.
they changed the recipe of our preferred peanut butter which my autism finds deeply ableist
February 2, 2026 at 5:33 PM
they changed the recipe of our preferred peanut butter which my autism finds deeply ableist
sometimes I think I’m too autistic to work in marketing (I kinda sorta work in marketing)
February 2, 2026 at 1:43 PM
sometimes I think I’m too autistic to work in marketing (I kinda sorta work in marketing)
I'm enraged I have to wait a whole month to continue to see Benedict being a total fucking fool. #Bridgerton
January 31, 2026 at 11:59 PM
I'm enraged I have to wait a whole month to continue to see Benedict being a total fucking fool. #Bridgerton
Wanted to show off the perfect fucking curls today before ruining them by putting my Critical Role cap on because it is, as always, pissing down here today 😆 #galicia
January 30, 2026 at 11:12 AM
Wanted to show off the perfect fucking curls today before ruining them by putting my Critical Role cap on because it is, as always, pissing down here today 😆 #galicia
Can someone please just invent a packer already that has the right weight and passes the grab test but doesn’t give me swamp crotch? My silicone/TPE packers manage the first two, and my crochet packer avoids the swamp crotch but I want all three, damnit.
January 30, 2026 at 11:00 AM
Can someone please just invent a packer already that has the right weight and passes the grab test but doesn’t give me swamp crotch? My silicone/TPE packers manage the first two, and my crochet packer avoids the swamp crotch but I want all three, damnit.
“Why is it taking you so long to publish a new website? Why don’t you just use Claude Code for it. It’ll be done in a day.”
WE’RE A HUMANITARIAN AID ORG! We’d be fucking hypocrites!
I have been having this same conversation far too often lately 😒
WE’RE A HUMANITARIAN AID ORG! We’d be fucking hypocrites!
I have been having this same conversation far too often lately 😒
January 29, 2026 at 11:00 AM
“Why is it taking you so long to publish a new website? Why don’t you just use Claude Code for it. It’ll be done in a day.”
WE’RE A HUMANITARIAN AID ORG! We’d be fucking hypocrites!
I have been having this same conversation far too often lately 😒
WE’RE A HUMANITARIAN AID ORG! We’d be fucking hypocrites!
I have been having this same conversation far too often lately 😒
genuinely my favourite strangers are those who will gently and matter of factly correct my Spanish in passing because how the fuck else am I gonna learn?
January 29, 2026 at 8:01 AM
genuinely my favourite strangers are those who will gently and matter of factly correct my Spanish in passing because how the fuck else am I gonna learn?
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Kansas just passed a monstrous bill enabling criminal penalties and vigilante lawsuits for trans people using the bathroom according to their gender identity and requires them to surrender their current drivers licenses and birth certificates if it does not match their sex assigned at birth.
January 28, 2026 at 11:44 PM
Kansas just passed a monstrous bill enabling criminal penalties and vigilante lawsuits for trans people using the bathroom according to their gender identity and requires them to surrender their current drivers licenses and birth certificates if it does not match their sex assigned at birth.
misgender by a coworker who so far has seemed entirely above board 😒 idk what the fuck is going on today
January 28, 2026 at 7:30 PM
misgender by a coworker who so far has seemed entirely above board 😒 idk what the fuck is going on today
this morning, my watch has abandoned its usual motivational tone and has pleaded "let your body recover!"… cool cool cool cool cool this is fine lolsob
January 28, 2026 at 6:43 AM
this morning, my watch has abandoned its usual motivational tone and has pleaded "let your body recover!"… cool cool cool cool cool this is fine lolsob
tell your friends you love them
like literally normalise saying “I love you” to friends
like literally normalise saying “I love you” to friends
January 27, 2026 at 12:48 PM
tell your friends you love them
like literally normalise saying “I love you” to friends
like literally normalise saying “I love you” to friends
much like when you got a hammer everything looks like a nail, when you’re bisexual everyone looks like they could be nailed
January 23, 2026 at 1:28 PM
much like when you got a hammer everything looks like a nail, when you’re bisexual everyone looks like they could be nailed
I knew that hailstorms are a thing but I assumed they'd be like snowstorms. nlNot thunder and lightning PLUS hail. 😳 just cancelled my osteopathy session because potentially getting pelted by hail on the way there and back seems detrimental to getting treatment.
January 23, 2026 at 8:05 AM
I knew that hailstorms are a thing but I assumed they'd be like snowstorms. nlNot thunder and lightning PLUS hail. 😳 just cancelled my osteopathy session because potentially getting pelted by hail on the way there and back seems detrimental to getting treatment.
Gina Yashere is such a fucking delight on Starfleet Academy. And pairing up her and Tig is truly chefskiss. Add Holly Hunter sitting with extreme bisexuality and neurodivergence and it's the cherry on top that makes this my favourite Star Trek in quite a while.
January 23, 2026 at 12:03 AM
Gina Yashere is such a fucking delight on Starfleet Academy. And pairing up her and Tig is truly chefskiss. Add Holly Hunter sitting with extreme bisexuality and neurodivergence and it's the cherry on top that makes this my favourite Star Trek in quite a while.
y'all it rains far more in Galicia in winter than in Edinburgh 😂 I truly did not see this coming. everyone warned us and I waved it off since I've lived in Scotland. I was a fool!
January 21, 2026 at 8:36 PM
y'all it rains far more in Galicia in winter than in Edinburgh 😂 I truly did not see this coming. everyone warned us and I waved it off since I've lived in Scotland. I was a fool!
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Hello again, everything is still scary and hard and the tech job market is wild right now, so here's my semi-regular thread of open jobs I've found where your work could make the world better (or at least, not make it worse)
January 21, 2026 at 4:04 PM
Hello again, everything is still scary and hard and the tech job market is wild right now, so here's my semi-regular thread of open jobs I've found where your work could make the world better (or at least, not make it worse)
I just learned that “owl” in Spanish is “búho” and I will never be the same 😆 fucking love when onomatopoeia
January 21, 2026 at 3:03 PM
I just learned that “owl” in Spanish is “búho” and I will never be the same 😆 fucking love when onomatopoeia
testosteroned so hard that I now must face the question whether my belly warrants shampoo instead of soap
January 21, 2026 at 9:59 AM
testosteroned so hard that I now must face the question whether my belly warrants shampoo instead of soap
Someone tell me if I’m losing my mind, please. I can’t seem to right-click images in my gallery on onedrive anymore. No matter which browser I try this on. Is it just me? It’s driving me up a fucking wall tbh. The enshittification just never stops.
January 19, 2026 at 4:34 PM
Someone tell me if I’m losing my mind, please. I can’t seem to right-click images in my gallery on onedrive anymore. No matter which browser I try this on. Is it just me? It’s driving me up a fucking wall tbh. The enshittification just never stops.
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I wrote about my experiences being sexually exploited as a child, and what we need to do to make sure AI doesn’t make that a reality for millions of children.
www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...
www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...
My picture was used in child abuse images. AI is putting others through my nightmare | Mara Wilson
I was a child actor, exploited by strangers on the internet. Now millions of children face the same danger
www.theguardian.com
January 18, 2026 at 2:20 AM
I wrote about my experiences being sexually exploited as a child, and what we need to do to make sure AI doesn’t make that a reality for millions of children.
www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...
www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...