Nat
@thoughtfulnat.bsky.social
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Male Bondage Stories Analysis Conversation Only 18+ I'm @thoughtful.fetishist on Instagram and thoughtfulfetishist on Recon. Kinky podcast: @thebondagegaze.bsky.social
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I don't know where else to share the link to my blog website, so I'll just leave this here.

If you're not familiar with my content, I write bondage fiction and have a general blog where I discuss different fetishy things.

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This week on KinkVision, @kevinjeopardy and I are joined by @guysintrouble.bsky.social to discuss his kink origin story, as well as how he started Guys in Trouble.
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we need a word for a type of person who spends all their time working to live in a city so they can be near cool things, but they don't actually like going out
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A little fun from a recent session.
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I made a bingo card for what seems like universal kink awakening experiences for bondage kinksters.
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It was a rewarding experience to speak with and listen to all of the stories that were shared.
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This week on KinkVision, @kevinjeopardy and I have compiled kink origin stories from various kinksters, with various kinks.

Even when people's kinks differ, we all seem to grow up with similar experiences.
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This week on KinkVision, we discuss all the things that contributed to Kevin’s kink awakening!
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They're perfect for cloth gags
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I actually have a picture of them lol

Mouth stuffing, one cloth for each lip, then a big one over everything. The cloth is flour sack towels.
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We don't have a video version at this point, but you can find the podcast wherever you get podcasts: Apple Podcast, Spotify, etc.
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Something made me think of this session with @tyebondage.bsky.social. It was a few years ago, and I was really into 60s-style looks at the time.
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When @thoughtfulnat.bsky.social found @kinkmate13.bsky.social and tried to help him, I stepped in and let him join in on the fun.
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Who was he made for?
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"Wear this. Let me put this in your mouth and strip you. I'm gonna do fx makeup on you now."
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I was described as a “fully posable action figure” on @thoughtfulnat.bsky.social’s podcast today and I kind of love that.
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Therefore, transvestism is the most known clothing fetish probably because men are understood as the only fetishists and women and women's wear are the only things to be fetishized.

However, as queer people, we're able to see masculinity and femininity as sexy and powerful in different ways.
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Our conversation about the roots of my suit fetish made me start thinking about how fetishes for masculine clothing are probably less known because men and masculinity are socially constructed as only powerful, not sexy or desirable.
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So, we talk about the scenes of interest that got me going, some early kinky fantasies of mine, and kink experiences that led to who I am today.

We also get an early kinky fantasy from @stannnum.bsky.social.
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This week on KinkVision, @kevinjeopardy and I talk about the things that contributed to my kink awakening.