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"Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY πŸ‘πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ
@violetrollergirl.com
Save a pregnancy test, breed a trans girl.

πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸ’» Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker.
πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ›Ό Rollerblading trans femmebot with the QR code tattoo
β›“πŸͺ’πŸ‡ Equal parts whip smart & whipping girl

🌐 VioletRollergirl.com
πŸ’Œ [email protected]
TER ID 401195
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This week I'm finally back in NYC (then traveling again!) and half my time is already spoken for with workshops and crypto consults, but I still have some time for steamy shenanigans. ❀️‍πŸ”₯

Peep my calendar: πŸ—“οΈπŸ‘‡πŸ»
VioletRollergirl.com#tours

Current availability:

πŸ”₯ Jan 8
πŸ”₯ Jan 10 and 11, evening
πŸ”₯ Jan 12
I don't know if I can survive Winter without these! πŸ˜… I have four such pads at my home, one for each sofa and two for my bed.
January 12, 2026 at 6:29 AM
This would be the cuddliest attack formation ever, we would be unstoppable! 😁
January 12, 2026 at 6:27 AM
I have to agree. You don't owe him any attention between coordinating logistics and confirming them.

If he expects you to provide a heartbeat response then he at least needs to send a heartbeat transmission himself first, not expect you to read his mind.

He sounds like a bad communicator, at best.
January 12, 2026 at 6:03 AM
Paperwork is itself a UI dark pattern. πŸ’―
January 12, 2026 at 12:13 AM
Sunday funday (for my mouf). β˜•πŸ˜‹

Brunch is my favorite meal of the day and one of my hopes for 2026 is more bubbly fun brunch or brekkie† dates!

(†Still not a morning kitten so we are mostly looking at 11am or later but client life hack: yes I can be roused early by novel places or nummy nom noms!)
January 11, 2026 at 8:47 PM
Absolutely no question this is true.

bsky.app/profile/viol...
Also half of the info you get in this maze will be wrong, self-contradictory, or conflict with what you're told in person by who we told you to get advice from, and also half of it isn't actually covered by insurance so you're also going to have to pay out of pocket for more than we said! Good luck!
January 11, 2026 at 8:26 PM
πŸ˜„πŸ«ΆπŸ»πŸ’•

Thank you! And, oh, I abso-fucking-lutely am! πŸ˜‡

bsky.app/profile/viol...
January 11, 2026 at 7:25 PM
She was the blueprint and remains an icon! πŸ™‡πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

The only thing I didn't relate to is her *STOMP STOMP STOMP* biological clock, and to this day still insist that my lack of that particular concern is one of the best parts of being a trans woman. 🀣
January 11, 2026 at 7:04 PM
Also half of the info you get in this maze will be wrong, self-contradictory, or conflict with what you're told in person by who we told you to get advice from, and also half of it isn't actually covered by insurance so you're also going to have to pay out of pocket for more than we said! Good luck!
January 11, 2026 at 6:50 PM
Dead-on balls accurate. 😏 It's a technical term.
Male to New Yorker / Male to Marisa Tomei
January 11, 2026 at 6:41 PM
And then to meet Marisa Tomei who, by the way, was born in Brooklyn, NY. πŸ˜πŸ—½πŸ’œ
January 11, 2026 at 6:35 PM
This! For me it's best when we both let our guards down and be truly unarmored, even vulnerable with one another.

And it IS possible to get there even before meeting but it takes two to tango. I posted about what it took to get there so fast with one new more recent client: bsky.app/profile/viol...
I get to meet a new sweetheart tomorrow and I feel none of the common first-meet safety nerves! 😁

I know even experienced clients get anxious meeting a provider for the first time. In addition to the usual exciting πŸ¦‹s, there's an unpleasant background hum: is it a sting?

We workers feel this, too!
January 11, 2026 at 3:43 PM
I tour often but even for me now it's why I only schedule tours around prebookings with super reliable clients, personal travel desire, or a combination of those plus more work-adjacent reasons that I'm able to turn into a tour.

I even wrote a FAQ page about it: violetrollergirl.com/faq/meeting/...
When Will You Be In My City β€’ Violet Rollergirl β€’ Bubbly trans GFE companion
Brilliant, bubbly, and beautifully nerdy, Violet is your confident, kind, trans girlfriend experience where sophistication meets genuine sparkle.
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January 11, 2026 at 3:37 PM
I mention exactly this thing in an automated message one time to every new subscriber in thinly coded language in a bulleted list so it stands out and is easy to scan.

Beyond that, I have to immediately block them.

There's no world where risking my livelihood to coddle their ignorance is worth it.
I wish more clients understood how incredibly powerful the combination of @torproject.org to browse @tryst.link to find me, using @signal.org to contact me, and then using @z.cash to pay me is.

Instead, many try to sub to OF and ask to book there. πŸ™€ That's actual cop behavior. SO SO VERY misguided.
January 11, 2026 at 2:59 PM
Oh hey, haven't seen you on here in a long while, welcome back? (Or is it me who hasn't paid attention?)

And happy new year indeed, you look adorably squishable as ever!
January 11, 2026 at 4:40 AM
Snuggle sandwich with me, you, and an electric heating pad. πŸ₯°πŸ¦„

(Vastly underrated bedtime activity, IMHO, it's just soooooo warm and cozy!)
January 11, 2026 at 4:35 AM
Yeah, absolutely.

There's a whole chain of follow-on effects from these societally approved and culturally enforced laws-that-are-not-literally-written-into-legislation.

For (maybe obvious?) reasons focusing on decrim is absolutely crucial and politically expedient but it's only part of the story.
January 11, 2026 at 4:27 AM
Yeah, I just think it's worth pointing out willingness to screen is downstream of these issues, not upstream of them.

Like, a decrim legal regime doesn't magically change how men police other men's desires, and so a stigmatized desire will effectively still be culturally outlawed if not legally so.
January 11, 2026 at 4:05 AM
Yeah, for sure, being branded a criminal is not helpful. I don't think anyone in this thread is arguing the inverse of that. πŸ’―
January 11, 2026 at 3:57 AM
…who still have shame around that will just be slower to reveal themselves to us because they're desiring against a societally acceptable grain.

Ie., I think some men screen for one provider but not another because of how they feel about their own desire for a category of body, not because of laws.
January 11, 2026 at 3:51 AM
Reluctance to screen wouldn't magically go away under decrim, the salient reasons would change.

Yes, decrim will make a safer environment for everyone but legal concerns mask, mirror, or follow social stigmas, they don't preempt or predict them.

IOW, men into marginalized bodies (trans, BBW, etc)…
January 11, 2026 at 3:51 AM
One irony of hatefully scapegoating trans people (mostly women) is my inquiries see an uptick from guys new to professional companionship and so don't understand our norms, eg., they don't know what screening is.

Transphobia can't erase our existence, so it ends up compelling them toward curiosity.
Why Screen β€’ Violet Rollergirl β€’ Bubbly trans GFE companion
Brilliant, bubbly, and beautifully nerdy, Violet is your confident, kind, trans girlfriend experience where sophistication meets genuine sparkle.
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January 11, 2026 at 1:56 AM
Excellent! 😁 Thanks for diving into it! I'm glad you're making moves to switch over to crypto for more of your transacting needs. πŸ™ŒπŸ»

As always, you know where to reach me if you run into any issues. πŸ™‡πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ’œ

Please feel free to link clients to my guides for them, too: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
Using Cryptocurrency (as a client or customer) β€’ Violet Rollergirl β€’ Bubbly trans GFE companion
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January 11, 2026 at 1:27 AM
Reposted by "Vi" Rollergirl | NYC/BOS/FMTY πŸ‘πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ
Loved learning all about this. Want to switch over to primarily accepting deposits via crypto ❀️!!!
An underappreciated power of Zashi + NEAR is I can unilaterally protect a client's payment privacy.

This is unlike comms tools (@signal.org) where we both need the app. With @z.cash, I can hide myself as his recipient even if he won't hide himself as my sender.

violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
January 11, 2026 at 12:35 AM
I came here to say this, too.

But since you did I'll just add that this is good if one is in the business of quality connections, but I can also see why it will feel like a bad thing if one is in the business of quantity or popularity.

This platform also doesn't have to be everything for everyone.
January 11, 2026 at 1:22 AM