Margaret J
whatyihavegod.bsky.social
Margaret J
@whatyihavegod.bsky.social
Just a mom. WNBA fan. NY Liberty is my team! 🗽

Not performative so it’s hard for me to relate.

#fvxkcancer
Immunotherapy is not the same thing as chemotherapy , so little to no hair loss and minimal side effects .

So far

Exhaustion
Soreness
Exhaustion

can still be active and independent!
March 18, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Its literally not even a task for me to be mean to men now because I literally cried away the niceness and care.

Heartbreak did a number on me so bad that I thought the doctors told me i was a goner soon. Turns out I heard everything wrong and have a very high chance of beating this!
March 18, 2025 at 3:53 AM
Could you imagine BEGGING the person you're in a relationship with to ask you..not support, but just ask about your business? Only for them to say they asked you 6 weeks ago, but on a STRANGERS podcast every week like a loyal fan.

I'm a sucker y'all?? Tell me the truth! 😭

I should deck him right?
March 18, 2025 at 3:38 AM
Not because I cheated or lied. Not because I lacked ambition or care for him, but because I got depressed and couldn't receive what he was giving.

My mother died and I took custody of my kid sister along with some major life changes.

But yeah resent for over 6 months.

Yeah, I hate this man.
I’m super angry! I feel like whenever my period comes I start ruminating about how my ex literally played in my face for months knowing his ass wasn’t feeling me or the relationship anymore😭

Not long after the Liberty won we literally looked at rings..RINGS and this man RESENTED ME!
March 18, 2025 at 3:34 AM
I’m super angry! I feel like whenever my period comes I start ruminating about how my ex literally played in my face for months knowing his ass wasn’t feeling me or the relationship anymore😭

Not long after the Liberty won we literally looked at rings..RINGS and this man RESENTED ME!
March 18, 2025 at 3:30 AM
Took him to see his favorite team play against the Knicks at MSG ! For no other reason other than it was his favorite team.

I’m a sucker y’all? Like what? I feel like I would feel better if I punched him in the face.

This is less about material things and more about the time I wasted and lies.
March 18, 2025 at 3:21 AM
I didn’t know much about him when we met, but a year prior to him meeting me he received an accolade within his field of work. I found out he never celebrated it , so I surprised him with tickets to see MJ the musical on broadway. His first Broadway play. GREAT SEATS! But “he don’t matter”.
March 18, 2025 at 3:15 AM
Anyway, could you imagine someone saying they felt like they didn’t matter when you were in a middle of a depressive episode brought on by the death of your mom, becoming a guardian to teen sister and just life stuff??

When all you’ve done since you met them is pour into them and uplift?

I can.
March 18, 2025 at 3:09 AM
I’m about to just skeet to myself? Is that what we call posts on Bluesky? A skeet? 😭.
March 18, 2025 at 3:07 AM
I will never ever do this again. I’m aesthetically lowkey, yet an attractive woman. I pop out when I need to , but always keep it casual. Not shallow at all, but he told me I was because I wanted him to compliment me. Bro idk how I keep choosing partners who literally play in my face every time.
I’m not a person who is overly into my appearance and I 100% shrank myself in previous relationship. There were a number of reasons why. Initially it was so folks wouldn’t think I was using him when repeated conversations about his outward appearance fell on death ears, so I just downgraded mine.
March 18, 2025 at 2:59 AM
I’m not a person who is overly into my appearance and I 100% shrank myself in previous relationship. There were a number of reasons why. Initially it was so folks wouldn’t think I was using him when repeated conversations about his outward appearance fell on death ears, so I just downgraded mine.
March 18, 2025 at 2:55 AM
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stop settling for bad sex
March 17, 2025 at 4:58 PM
God is love. ❤️
March 16, 2025 at 1:07 PM
lol.

Dad jokes 101 but from moms

The kid: “Why can’t I stay up late? Why are you taking my remote?”

Me: There’s a whole lot of whys and not enough z’s for me”

🤣🤣🤣
March 16, 2025 at 4:08 AM
The science of breakups is so interesting and it really helpful in terms of giving myself grace for how I behaved immediately after mine.

I only regret one thing about how it “ended”. and that’s a mistake I will never make again.
March 16, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Reposted by Margaret J
My actions match my heart…
March 15, 2025 at 10:51 PM
!!!!!
Why do ppl lie so damn much?! Just tell the truth and let ppl leave if they want to.

Why do you want to trick someone into accepting things about you? Why be with someone who clearly hate fundamental parts of who you are?! Weird af to me
March 15, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Some people need to only date white folks 🥴

And

Some pride themselves for only dating black people , but are abusive so what you priding ourselves on?

I personally don’t have an attraction to them so I don’t think I can.
March 15, 2025 at 6:15 PM
No for real!
Whatever you overlook now, you'll be overlooking for the rest of your relationship; Maybe even for the rest of your life.

Never let disrespect slide. It always escalates over time.

If it doesn't feel right, don't you ever let that shit go!
a woman says " you got to respect me " in front of her face
ALT: a woman says " you got to respect me " in front of her face
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March 14, 2025 at 12:41 PM
NY Liberty season almost here !
March 14, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Folks be in therapy for years and still lying and spilling the trauma on you with nice words and a “self aware “ apology . 🤣
A nigga that don’t wanna go to therapy is a nigga that’s not for me. Won’t be spilling your trauma on to me! No mam
March 14, 2025 at 12:24 AM
Let me hurry up lol
I finished Oathbound!

Spoiler-free review:

Very good book.
I was entertained by the beginning, the middle, and the end.
I liked the words, very well put together. Excellent sentences.

That’s all I’m saying until everyone has read it!
#booksky
March 14, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Mom and aunt
Where are you eating?
March 14, 2025 at 12:13 AM
Reposted by Margaret J
FUCK cancer.
March 13, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Yes
Good morning loves. I have one directive for you on today…..

Never forget who tf you are♥️
March 13, 2025 at 3:07 PM