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AJ Oberlender
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Helping businesses shine online | 800+ websites published | Tech strategist by trade, dad by destiny, jokester by choice | Serious about results, not myself 🕎
https://beacons.ai/ajoberlender
Passover reminds us that freedom isn’t always flashy—it’s in the questions we ask, the patience we practice, and the crumbs we’ll be finding in the couch cushions until Shavuot.
April 14, 2025 at 2:38 PM
“It’s just the beginning, middle, or end of the quarter.”

That’s what we used to joke about my dad always working. I swore I wouldn’t be like that.

And yet in the ultimate “Cats in the Cradle” reversal, here I am—a full-fledged workaholic.
March 4, 2025 at 2:06 AM
Took the day off for Yael’s book fair. She had a great time (and yes, she completely finessed me into buying more books than I planned). After running errands and handling a little work chaos, I made it home just in time for the girls to get back.
February 27, 2025 at 3:38 AM
1/4 We don’t talk about the conflict around our daughters. We don’t watch the news in the house. We try to shield them from the heaviness of the world.

But this morning, my almost four-year-old reminded me that some things find their way in, no matter what we do.
#BringThemHomeNow
February 24, 2025 at 11:53 PM
1/3 This weekend, every time my daughter cried out for her mama, it shook me in a way I wasn’t prepared for. Because there are children in Israel who will never again be held by their parents. Parents who will never again tuck their babies into bed. Their lives were taken simply for being Jewish.
February 24, 2025 at 2:47 AM
1/2 Today was brutal. The news about the Bibas children broke me. My boss saw I was barely hanging on and told me to leave for the day, to go be with my family. But I had one last customer call scheduled—someone I truly adore—so I pushed through, holding it together just long enough.
February 22, 2025 at 3:33 AM
Rebrands can make or break a brand’s future. Fresca and Manischewitz showed us how to do it right—leaning into nostalgia while staying fresh. 🔥

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#Branding #Marketing #Rebranding
The Art of the Rebrand: How Fresca and Manischewitz Nailed It
Fresca and Manischewitz prove that great rebrands blend nostalgia with modern appeal. Discover how these iconic brands updated their image while staying true to their roots.
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February 3, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Today is #HolocaustRemembranceDay. I reflect on my Tia Aviva’s survival in hiding, my journey to Auschwitz at 17, and raising two Jewish daughters in a world still grappling with hate. “Never Again” is a mission we all carry.

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Reflections on the Holocaust and Rising Antisemitism as a Father
A personal reflection on International Holocaust Remembrance Day: rising antisemitism post-October 7th, my Tia’s Holocaust survival story, and the responsibility to remember for my children’s future.
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January 27, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Does anyone else think the NBA’s lost its spark? 🏀 For me, it’s not “wokeness” but the gameplay—soft fouls, too many threes, and good luck trying to watch a game live. 😅

Am I the only one who misses the rivalries and grit?👇 www.ajoberlender.com/blog/why-the... #NBA #BasketballTalk
Why the NBA Has Lost Its Edge: A Fan’s Brutally Honest Take
The NBA isn’t struggling because it’s “too woke.” The real issues? Predictable gameplay, accessibility hurdles, and the loss of old-school rivalries. Here’s how the league can fix itself.
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January 15, 2025 at 2:15 AM
93 years. That’s how long my incredible grandmother, Buba Luba, has been inspiring us with her resilience, love, and wisdom. From Uruguay to the U.S., she taught me lessons I’ll carry forever. Forgiveness, lifelong learning, and family first. Read her story: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/celebra...
93 Years of Wisdom: Lessons from My Grandmother, Buba Luba
Discover the inspiring story of my grandmother, Buba Luba, as we celebrate her 93rd birthday. From her journey as an immigrant to her lessons on forgiveness, family, and resilience, her wisdom continu...
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January 12, 2025 at 7:40 PM
Done with the holidays & my Chanukah posts, I’m back—talking fantasy football & leadership. 🏈👔 This post was written before last week’s brutal fantasy loss, but the lessons still hold: strategy, guts, & adaptability win in life & business. Check it out: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/what-i-...
What I Learned About Strategy from Fantasy Football
Fantasy football is more than just a game—it’s a masterclass in leadership and strategy. In this post, I explore how managing a fantasy roster taught me lessons in decision-making, adaptability, and c...
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January 7, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Tonight, as we light the eighth and final candle of Chanukah, I’m reminded: it’s not where you light the menorah, but who you light it with. Family, love, and timeless tradition shine brightest. 🕎 #Chanukah #Family
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The Eighth Night – Illuminating What Truly Matters
This eighth and final night of Chanukah, I reflect on a week of candles lit across five locations, family moments that felt like miracles, and the timeless lessons from my parents’ first menorah. Chag...
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January 1, 2025 at 8:12 PM
On this 7th night of Chanukkah, let’s remember: the menorah’s light isn’t just for the holiday. 🕯️✨ It’s a lesson in resilience, small miracles, and showing up for others. Carry this inspiration all year. Read how: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/from-oi...
#Chanukkah #Inspiration #JewishPride
From Oil to Inspiration: Carrying Chanukkah’s Light All Year
Discover how the timeless lessons of Chanukkah—resilience, community, and finding light in darkness—can guide and inspire you all year long. Keep the flame alive beyond the eight days!
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December 31, 2024 at 6:22 PM
Night 6 of #Chanukah, post 6 of my series! 🕎 Tonight, we spin the dreidel 🎯 and explore its life lessons: wins, losses & surprises. From the Marlins’ highs (World Series!) to lows (fire sales 😭), the dreidel says it all.

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#LifeLessons #MiamiSports #DreidelWisdom
Life Lessons from a Dreidel: Wins, Losses, and Spins
On the sixth night of Chanukah, discover how the dreidel teaches us about life’s twists and turns. From work wins to Marlins heartbreaks, every spin has a lesson!
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December 30, 2024 at 5:20 PM
Life’s a grind—hustle, deadlines, toddlers. But Chanukah reminds us: small wins spark big miracles. Every flame matters. Keep showing up, keep shining. 🕎 #Chanukah #SmallWins #Resilience
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Finding Light in the Darkness of the Daily Grind
Discover the inspiring lesson of Chanukah: how small victories in the daily grind can lead to big successes. Embrace resilience, celebrate progress, and find your light in the darkest moments. 🕎
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December 29, 2024 at 8:55 PM
Life’s chaotic, just like my family. From a missing wedding dress at the gate to a classic Kuba house balagan, the last couple of days leading up to the 4th night of Chanukah was peak chaos. But isn’t that where the best stories come from? Check it out: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/chanuka...
Chanukah, Balagan, and the Missing Dress: A Modern Miracle
A missing dress, a chaotic family morning, and a 4th-night Chanukah miracle—discover how the joy of balagan brought light and laughter to our holiday celebration.
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December 28, 2024 at 5:13 PM
It’s the 3rd night of Chanukah 🕎—a holiday that’s basically a marketing masterclass.

From tradition to surprise, here are 5 lessons brands can learn to keep their audience hooked (just like we are for 8 nights):
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How to Keep Your Audience Engaged for 8 Straight Days
Discover 5 powerful marketing lessons inspired by Chanukah! Learn how brands can build trust, spark surprise, and foster community to keep audiences engaged—just like the holiday keeps us hooked for 8...
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December 27, 2024 at 4:23 PM
Leaders, take a note from the shamash (a.k.a. Hanukkah’s MVP): light others up without burning yourself out. Burnout isn’t heroic; it’s exhausting—and nobody’s inspired by a zombie boss. ✨ #HanukkahWisdom #Leadership
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Business Needs a 'Shamash': Leading Without Burning Out
Discover why every business needs a ‘shamash’—the leader who empowers their team to thrive without burning out. Learn how sustainable leadership can light up your organization and keep your spark aliv...
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December 26, 2024 at 7:33 PM
Hanukkah starts tonight, and I’m kicking off 8 posts reflecting on its lessons.

First up: A menorah that’s been with my family for decades—and the light it shines on resilience, tradition, and love.

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What’s your favorite Hanukkah or holiday tradition? 🕎
December 25, 2024 at 5:11 PM
Nice to see some of my favorite twitter follows joining; welcome to the party @monicalewinsky.bsky.social @karaswisher.bsky.social
May 2, 2023 at 7:55 PM
@yoyoel.com do you ever miss the slightly more carefree days when we worked at the Apple Store, you know minus the customers throwing iPhones at us in anger
May 1, 2023 at 7:34 PM
Hey everyone, just a little update: our gender reveal showed we're having another girl! 🎉👧 I know I'm outnumbered here, but I'm embracing the role of chief storyteller, hug giver, and dance partner for my girls 💃🤗
May 1, 2023 at 2:48 AM
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reskeet if you think I should put a billboard in Florida that says “GOD LOVES TRANS PEOPLE!’
April 30, 2023 at 11:07 PM
🎉❄️ Yael's Frozen Surprise at Cousin's Bday! 🎂✨

Our 2 y/o Yael was ecstatic when Anna & Elsa appeared at her cousin's party! 😍🎉 Priceless reactions, magical moments, & endless joy! 💖👑 #CousinLove #FrozenFever #DisneyMagic #BestPartyEver
April 23, 2023 at 3:41 PM
Looks like finding the afikomen isn’t the only surprise this Passover! 🙊 We've got a secret: Baby #2 is on the way! 🍼 Get ready for double the laughs and horseradish-level spice at our next Seder! 🎉😂🌶️👶🏼
April 6, 2023 at 1:21 PM