Alice In Wunderland
@aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
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31, she/her and living as the mean girl I wish I got to be in high school. "Consent technohitlerite".
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aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
God that was meant to be mastodon.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
It's a great feature elevated to an essential one on a website where the block feature is so nuclear.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Bluesky is busy doing nightmare moderation when really it should be implementing a feature that allows you to remove a follower without blocking them.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
If the hob is too hot, you should remove your hand.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Having a higher follower account than someone else does not, in fact, make you abuser bodied.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
There's a specific "I will dump my trauma as a way to demand that you tolerate the ways I've already been abusive to you, a stranger" that I've just seen a million times at this point. It is a pattern.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
You will reap what you sow. Good luck.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I, too, am a transfeminist subject.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Sometimes transfeminist activism is setting boundaries with a trans woman who thinks that you're her own personal mother whose job it is to coddle her over a grievance with you that she wholly hallucinated.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I am not responsible for your unhinged reaction here. I don't know you and I have not done anything to provoke it. Please stop.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I'm attacking you for not doing the decency of reading what I wrote before you misrepresent me as a traitor to transwomankind or whatever. You get what you give lol.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I called it transmisogyny repeatedly but I suppose you cannot read.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Oh I see, yeah I don't disagree
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Yeah, definitely. There's plenty that consciously take advantage of that unease to push hatred wherever they can, too. It's the classic "see, they don't know what it's like because they're men trying to force themselves on you" trick.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I've not encountered this, but I tend to encounter cis lesbians primarily in specifically trans women friendly spaces. What kind of scolding?
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teefofgod.bsky.social
this is kinda one of the reasons why i can get annoyed w/ how lesbians r positioned as uniquely neurotic abt sex or "biology".

bc we do have issues there, and its some shit we need to unpack, but i never rly see ppl going lettuce consider why this is happening. which wld be useful in fixing it.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I mean often this is more unlearnt bioessentialism and unexamined presumptions about sex with trans women than active transmisogyny. It's typically a revulsion to the concept of The Phallus, but most people simply do not realise that a dick is not inherently The Phallus.
juneever.green
it’s so weird how cis lesbians will talk about how much they love strap but the second someone else says they fuck with trans women suddenly they’re entirely anti-dick
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
God I bet. I didn't mean to imply otherwise. I wasn't aiming to criticise you but use your post as a prompt to talk about it, I'm sorry if it read otherwise
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
Yeah, I was trying to thread the needle of not excusing it whilst saying "it's an understandable journey to go on". When they refuse to, it's a problem. There's no good reason to react to other people's relationships like that.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
It's work to be done and it's shit when it hasn't, but the reaction is one I'm not entirely without sympathy for. Especially when they (wrongly) feel that any of this as direct pressure for them to have sex with a trans woman rather than understand us as we actually are and what that means to others
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
It's not that it's not transmisogyny, but where it comes from is interesting. I've watched multiple cis lesbian friends go through this journey around it as they reconcile the comphet violence they were raised with with the reality that a dick is not manhood.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
I mean often this is more unlearnt bioessentialism and unexamined presumptions about sex with trans women than active transmisogyny. It's typically a revulsion to the concept of The Phallus, but most people simply do not realise that a dick is not inherently The Phallus.
juneever.green
it’s so weird how cis lesbians will talk about how much they love strap but the second someone else says they fuck with trans women suddenly they’re entirely anti-dick
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
He prevented the protection of trans kids in schools. In particular, sex and biology education that is relevant to them. He was the intervening act that stopped that.
aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social
If you want to convince people to support you, you should act in good faith. You want me to agree with you and you've set about making it happen by making me glad that, if things continue to get worse, you will begin to suffer, too.