it was -14° when i woke up at 4 am. it is now -18°. love that
January 23, 2026 at 4:01 PM
it was -14° when i woke up at 4 am. it is now -18°. love that
i'm constantly thinking about a video i saw on instagram where the person filming is at a knocked loose show and they're clearly having a good time, shouting the lyrics of the song and all. but they sound like mickey mouse. i think about "ARF ARF" in this squeaky ass voice at least once a week
January 23, 2026 at 1:52 PM
i'm constantly thinking about a video i saw on instagram where the person filming is at a knocked loose show and they're clearly having a good time, shouting the lyrics of the song and all. but they sound like mickey mouse. i think about "ARF ARF" in this squeaky ass voice at least once a week
the down side is that it's easy to stubbornly insist we can solve a problem, or address a need, without help well past the point of it being rational or useful. sometimes we do just have to ask someone else to do something and we never want to lol
January 22, 2026 at 2:45 PM
the down side is that it's easy to stubbornly insist we can solve a problem, or address a need, without help well past the point of it being rational or useful. sometimes we do just have to ask someone else to do something and we never want to lol
one thing i really appreciate about casey is that we both tend to approach things as "i can do this myself, and if i can't, i can learn". it's very fun
January 22, 2026 at 2:36 PM
one thing i really appreciate about casey is that we both tend to approach things as "i can do this myself, and if i can't, i can learn". it's very fun
my favorite thing about very cold weather is that all small talk becomes dread about the cold and self-deprecation for choosing to live somewhere that is this cold. it's very funny
January 22, 2026 at 6:43 AM
my favorite thing about very cold weather is that all small talk becomes dread about the cold and self-deprecation for choosing to live somewhere that is this cold. it's very funny
i was researching nipple piercings after top surgery and discovered that all of the "wait 6 months to 2 years" advice is for people who had nipple grafts. the recommendations i've seen for people who did not are all 3-6 months. i could just do it
January 21, 2026 at 11:49 AM
i was researching nipple piercings after top surgery and discovered that all of the "wait 6 months to 2 years" advice is for people who had nipple grafts. the recommendations i've seen for people who did not are all 3-6 months. i could just do it
i also keep thinking about how nice it would be to buy dried beans instead of canned beans. because i eat beans almost every day. but it really is a pain in the ass to make them.... finally time to acquire a pressure cooker or a small appliance with such functions perhaps
January 20, 2026 at 3:27 PM
i also keep thinking about how nice it would be to buy dried beans instead of canned beans. because i eat beans almost every day. but it really is a pain in the ass to make them.... finally time to acquire a pressure cooker or a small appliance with such functions perhaps
trying to make a sourdough starter again so you know it's not going well over here
January 20, 2026 at 3:22 PM
trying to make a sourdough starter again so you know it's not going well over here
i know it'll get easier eventually but all i think about right now is how badly i want to hold him and kiss his little head. and it hurts a lot
January 19, 2026 at 5:57 AM
i know it'll get easier eventually but all i think about right now is how badly i want to hold him and kiss his little head. and it hurts a lot
lorcan passed away today.
January 16, 2026 at 10:43 PM
lorcan passed away today.
i'm not utterly impervious to psychic damage from hatemail on the internet but it's often just so uncreative and desperate that it is truly like... ok? it's like a random toddler calling you ugly. you are like an ant to me and you know nothing
January 16, 2026 at 12:18 PM
i'm not utterly impervious to psychic damage from hatemail on the internet but it's often just so uncreative and desperate that it is truly like... ok? it's like a random toddler calling you ugly. you are like an ant to me and you know nothing
someone on the internet said some transphobic shit to me and then "i bet you feel soooo unsafe right now" bro i have more pressing concerns than mean words in my phone, i have a mortgage to pay and a job to go to. i will forget about this by tomorrow
January 16, 2026 at 12:13 PM
someone on the internet said some transphobic shit to me and then "i bet you feel soooo unsafe right now" bro i have more pressing concerns than mean words in my phone, i have a mortgage to pay and a job to go to. i will forget about this by tomorrow
was at the dentist and the front desk person asked if i wanted to check if casey's upcoming appts are scheduled correctly and all his bills are paid. she said "i just feel like you're in charge here" lmao
January 14, 2026 at 8:27 PM
was at the dentist and the front desk person asked if i wanted to check if casey's upcoming appts are scheduled correctly and all his bills are paid. she said "i just feel like you're in charge here" lmao
last time i had a complete stranger in my house was when we had a large appliance delivered, and the person who showed up had long, bright pink hair. so i was less anxious LOL
January 14, 2026 at 4:53 PM
last time i had a complete stranger in my house was when we had a large appliance delivered, and the person who showed up had long, bright pink hair. so i was less anxious LOL
it's possible that i'm just paranoid but i get so extremely jumpy any time a contractor or something like this is in my home.
January 14, 2026 at 4:45 PM
it's possible that i'm just paranoid but i get so extremely jumpy any time a contractor or something like this is in my home.
kolya recently obtained a catnip toy that's pickle shaped, and every time he plays with it, casey goes "ohhhh he's pickling". also the pickle has embroidered text that says "i'm kind of a big dill" so i'm constantly saying that. cursed object
January 13, 2026 at 1:36 PM
kolya recently obtained a catnip toy that's pickle shaped, and every time he plays with it, casey goes "ohhhh he's pickling". also the pickle has embroidered text that says "i'm kind of a big dill" so i'm constantly saying that. cursed object
every time i open instagram, it's just three million gay reels, and this is great unless i accidentally open the comments. which are always three million straight girls saying "yaoi" or talking about some anime boy ship
January 9, 2026 at 11:31 AM
every time i open instagram, it's just three million gay reels, and this is great unless i accidentally open the comments. which are always three million straight girls saying "yaoi" or talking about some anime boy ship
i am consistently amused by employers asking for excuse notes from a doctor and then acting surprised/irritated when the doctor recommends even more time off
January 7, 2026 at 1:31 PM
i am consistently amused by employers asking for excuse notes from a doctor and then acting surprised/irritated when the doctor recommends even more time off
i'm incredibly sick today, and my sibling texted me and said "btw i have covid". i just saw them late last week 🥲
January 5, 2026 at 12:53 AM
i'm incredibly sick today, and my sibling texted me and said "btw i have covid". i just saw them late last week 🥲
i'm reorganizing my kitchen and i've learned that i have 60 unique spice jars. a few are spice blends but the majority are individual spices
January 2, 2026 at 11:31 PM
i'm reorganizing my kitchen and i've learned that i have 60 unique spice jars. a few are spice blends but the majority are individual spices
i went out to the bar for nye. the floor was SO fucking slippery from snow/ice getting tracked in and i knew it would be an issue as soon as i walked in. of course i slipped and fell when i was trying to leave and bashed my knee :/
January 2, 2026 at 11:33 AM
i went out to the bar for nye. the floor was SO fucking slippery from snow/ice getting tracked in and i knew it would be an issue as soon as i walked in. of course i slipped and fell when i was trying to leave and bashed my knee :/
i get sooooo vain every time i see my own reflection with my upper arms/shoulders exposed. i am still very frail and pathetic in reality, but i have SO much more muscle now. and i look so good 😩
December 31, 2025 at 11:25 AM
i get sooooo vain every time i see my own reflection with my upper arms/shoulders exposed. i am still very frail and pathetic in reality, but i have SO much more muscle now. and i look so good 😩
i'm really grateful. i don't think it's possible to be ready for a pet to die, but idk. it felt really out of nowhere. it's comforting in some way to understand the situation, even though the situation is pretty bleak
December 30, 2025 at 9:50 PM
i'm really grateful. i don't think it's possible to be ready for a pet to die, but idk. it felt really out of nowhere. it's comforting in some way to understand the situation, even though the situation is pretty bleak
great news everyone. lorcan is currently stable. with his renewed zest for life after the hospital helped with the more acute issues, we're just going to let him keep waddling around the house and closely monitor his condition with his vet for now
December 30, 2025 at 9:42 PM
great news everyone. lorcan is currently stable. with his renewed zest for life after the hospital helped with the more acute issues, we're just going to let him keep waddling around the house and closely monitor his condition with his vet for now