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@autistickynotes.bsky.social
Queer. AuDHDer. Black. Corean.
working for liberation. slowing down. being present. creating art. trans joy is resistance. Black lives matter.

https://www.instagram.com/autistickynotes
https://autistickynotes.substack.com
something small, a handshake, lit up my whole body. not confusion. not envy. just a knowing kind of anger. wrote this in the fall. still feeling it.
#writingcommunity #blackwriters #neurodivergent #autisticwriting #culturalappropriation #art #audhd
elm (@autistickynotes)
i wrote this back in September or October, when something small, a handshake, hit my body like a warning. i didn’t write it to explain. i wrote it because i was full. because there’s a kind of anger ...
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December 11, 2025 at 4:49 PM
honesty shouldn’t feel dangerous. but for many of us who speak plainly, who name what’s real, it often does.
this piece is about what it means to be autistic in a world that rewards politeness over truth and what becomes possible when we choose to slow down and stay real.
what honesty asks of us
truth is a new beginning
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December 7, 2025 at 2:22 PM
truth is a kind of care. even when it is uncomfortable. well, especially then.

i shared this because it speaks a truth i am learning to live. may it resonate with something true in you too.

#AuDHD #Honesty #Autism #ADHD #Allisticcommunication #neurocomplex #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic
elm (@elimose)
truth is a kind of care. even when it is uncomfortable. well, especially then. telling the truth of what i feel or what happened is not something i need to apologize for. it never was even though it...
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December 2, 2025 at 5:16 PM
this piece came from a quiet moment that reminded me how grief and tenderness live side by side. on this day of mourning, i wrote what my body is carrying. it’s up now on Substack.

#AuDHD #actuallyautistic #dayofmourning #gratitude #stay #tendernessisstrength #queervoices #transjoy
elm (@elimose)
this moment, this hand, reminded me what it means to belong. this reflection moves through mourning, memory, and the quiet power of gratitude.
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November 27, 2025 at 3:05 PM
Some thoughts don’t arrive with answers.

This piece is a trace of my inner weather of what it means to feel deeply, live slowly, and unmask in a world that often misunderstands.
I wrote it to stay present with myself. Maybe it helps you stay, too.

#ItsOkayToNotBeOkay
#AuDHD #autism #depression
Playing human
Disclaimer
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November 23, 2025 at 1:16 PM
the only way is through. this is how hidden love finds the sun. through grief, through breath, through small rituals of care.

#TheOnlyWayIsThrough #LoveMadeVisible #AutisticVoice #JoyfulMotherfuckers #TendernessInPractice #AuDHD
The Only Way Is Through
Finding love in the light
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September 23, 2025 at 1:07 PM
i never dreamed of being a parent. i said yes to it with fear and regret. and still, parenting gave me a love I never thought possible.

#Autism #ADHD #AuDHD #Family #Healing #Love #Parenting #Queer #BIPoC
For Those Who Never Saw Themselves as Parents
On regret, resistance, and discovering a love I could not have imagined
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September 10, 2025 at 1:01 AM
the other night my friend and i stared at this for what felt like hours. holding joy and silence, imagining people not being terrified to exist. a summer without ice indeed.

#meltice #beaconhill #satx #asummerwithoutice
September 1, 2025 at 2:21 PM
This piece is about eating again, and it is also about survival, family, grief, and the stubborn hope of still believing in people. I am learning to write from that place. I invite you to read, and maybe walk this journey with me.

#AuDHD #writingtoheal #autistic #BIPoC #BLM #transjoyistesistance
Eating, Trust, and the Work of Believing
Notes on family, survival, and still choosing to believe in people
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August 31, 2025 at 9:19 PM
my first post on Substack feels like opening a door. it’s my voice, unmasked, beginning to imagine out loud.

this is an invitation for you to listen and journey with me, too.

#audhd #adhd #autistic #bipoc #imaginingpossibilities #transjoy #unmasking
Another world is possible
Before I began writing here, I gave this speech to youth development professionals.
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August 29, 2025 at 11:46 AM
Reposted by elm
I think this is the most horrifying post I have ever read.
July 19, 2025 at 4:17 AM
@abelouise.bsky.social has the feature, poem-a-day, on the Academy of American Poets! It is beautiful.

Here is a link to her reading it: megaphone.link/POETS2185059...

#poemaday #abelouiseyoung #queerartists
Abe Louise Young: “Who” by Poem-a-Day
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July 11, 2025 at 2:20 PM
call your representatives. have hope that your call will do something. this is absolutely catastrophic. people will die.

#5callsapp #savemedicaid
A whopping 76 percent oppose significant cuts to Medicaid.

The tax bill that Republicans ultimately pass — public opinion be damned — will make life more difficult for millions of low-income Americans.

Here’s everything you need to know ⤵️
Trump's Plan to Kick Millions of Americans Off Medicaid, Explained
Donald Trump and Republicans in Congress are imposing massive cuts to Medicaid in order to fund tax breaks for the richest Americans.
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May 19, 2025 at 1:14 PM
start it around 22 sec. when i get lost inside myself, i watch this on repeat. we live in a world that is so beautiful. we just need to pause and look.

#blm #transjoyisresistance #mdd #cptsd #siponjoy
Murmuration
A chance encounter and shared moment with one of natures greatest and most fleeting phenomena. Facebook: Islands And Rivers For licensing information contact…
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May 19, 2025 at 1:00 PM
my heart hurts.
"the stars have time to burn / while winking at us"
The Ball
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May 19, 2025 at 12:15 PM
More of this
Beverly on Substack
Powerful! Perfectly articulated. This man is to be appluaded.
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May 17, 2025 at 12:56 PM
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Shoutout to Iberville Parish having a BALL lmaoooooooooooo
May 16, 2025 at 9:05 PM
ancestors are celebrating today!

#blacklivesmatter #fafo
🧵The largest plantation in the South burned down this week.
And the way white folks—especially wedding vendors—are mourning “memories” and “brides who won’t get to have their special day there”?

It’s giving cognitive dissonance.

Because let’s be real...
May 16, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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Today is the day of the Nakba, the beginning of the genocide and displacement of the Palestinians.

The Nakba never ended. It’s been 77 years of ongoing Nakba.
May 15, 2025 at 8:21 PM
…cuts on that scale would “reduce the number of people with health insurance by at least 8.6 million” across America #powertothepeople #savemedicaid
May 15, 2025 at 1:23 AM
$880 billion cut to medicaid. Call your representatives. Find out if they know what the cut to this program means for communities. From this video, doesn’t seem like Blackburn does. #savemedicaid #5calls #callyourrepresentatives
Calling GOP Sen. Marsha Blackburn about Medicaid
Call 202-224-3121 and demand answers from your reps!
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May 15, 2025 at 1:20 AM
“It’s no wonder people died there. The wonder is people survived there”
“They tell me from above that they call Sde Teiman a cemetery,” said the commander of the facility.

A former guard at the Israeli torture camp testifies to the horrific conditions there in this translation of a Haaretz oped.

x.com/alon_mizrahi...
May 10, 2025 at 12:16 PM
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WASHINGTON (AP) — Up to 1,000 openly identifying transgender troops will be moved out of the military immediately under new Pentagon order.
May 8, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Beautiful way to express the feelings of a lot of Black people. Officers acquitted in a state sanctioned lynching. Tyre Nichols and many more who have become martyrs should be alive today. A traffic stop should not in end brutal beatings that end your life.
#Blacklivesmatter
Elizabeth Booker Houston on Substack
💔〽️
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May 8, 2025 at 1:06 PM
Black lives matter
I am numb and heartbroken, especially for Tyre Nichols’ family today.

Tyre Nichols was a father.
Tyre Nichols was a creative.
Tyre Nichols’ life mattered.
Tyre Nichols should still be alive.

Here’s how he described himself ⬇️
May 8, 2025 at 1:30 AM