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awispofblue.bsky.social
🦊 s 🦋
@awispofblue.bsky.social
🦋 25+ | she/they | no minors 🔞

multiple fandoms 🍵 always thinking about 🫖🌸 | 🦊 |🎐| svsss

other interests: 🌹🧩, the apothecary diaries, kamisama kiss, bsd, 5️⃣🐯 / 🐺🐯 / ⛩️🐯, etc.
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Like, if you think fanfic written BY WOMEN about topics like BL and gay sex, stuff that many real men in fandom are assholes about and hate, is “male centred” you are stupid
Look up the actual definition, and don’t just say words based on the vibe of what you THINK it means
January 8, 2026 at 9:25 PM
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Consider that in refusing to use the word "wife", you are not only misrepresenting and delegitimizing Renee Good's widow's relationship to her wife, you are also opening the door to delegitimizing the other details in her eyewitness testimony to a crime.
January 8, 2026 at 9:31 PM
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If you're worried about homophobes dismissing Renee's murder if you use the word "wife", why? You're not going to persuade them and they'll find out anyway.

If you're uncomfortable saying the word "wife" to refer to a woman married to another woman, congratulations: you are the homophobe.
January 8, 2026 at 9:19 PM
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I don’t have a lot of patience for the “why ship X when Y ship is right there” argument anyways, but it’s especially funny when they’re not even in the same ballpark for tropes/kinks
January 9, 2026 at 9:52 AM