It always means “how little support can we give you before you break?”
We are never meant to survive that metric.
It all about what we can produce for others.
It always means “how little support can we give you before you break?”
We are never meant to survive that metric.
It all about what we can produce for others.
You were carrying expectations never designed for your bodymind.
They called it fragility so they wouldn’t have to redesign anything or count you.
You didn’t fail.
The system did.
You were carrying expectations never designed for your bodymind.
They called it fragility so they wouldn’t have to redesign anything or count you.
You didn’t fail.
The system did.
Or worse, ungrateful.
And then they wonder why we shut down...
Or worse, ungrateful.
And then they wonder why we shut down...
It’s about refusing to contort ourselves into shapes that make everyone else’s life easier while destroying our own.
It’s about refusing to contort ourselves into shapes that make everyone else’s life easier while destroying our own.
The Hits Just Keep on Comin’ by PUBLIC ENEMY.
The Hits Just Keep on Comin’ by PUBLIC ENEMY.
You were punished every time you had one.
You weren’t “too emotional”.
You were never allowed to feel safe enough to be calm.
You weren’t “broken”.
You were surviving.
And you still are.
You were punished every time you had one.
You weren’t “too emotional”.
You were never allowed to feel safe enough to be calm.
You weren’t “broken”.
You were surviving.
And you still are.
Mindful Times in the Fairy Wood.
Mindful Times in the Fairy Wood.
We burn out from pretending we’re not.
From jobs, families, and systems that punish difference and call it “help”.
Recovery isn’t about fixing us.
It’s about changing the conditions.
Even one small one at first is already a huge step.
We burn out from pretending we’re not.
From jobs, families, and systems that punish difference and call it “help”.
Recovery isn’t about fixing us.
It’s about changing the conditions.
Even one small one at first is already a huge step.
Dr Arjan Singh from the British Medical Association tells #BBCBreakfast this year there were 10,000 jobs available for 30,000 candidates
Dr Arjan Singh from the British Medical Association tells #BBCBreakfast this year there were 10,000 jobs available for 30,000 candidates
We say what we mean.
Clearly.
And still - people don’t hear us.
Not because we’re quiet.
But because they only listen for a tone that sounds like them.
So we get quieter.
Not out of shyness.
Out of exhaustion.
Out of apathy.
We say what we mean.
Clearly.
And still - people don’t hear us.
Not because we’re quiet.
But because they only listen for a tone that sounds like them.
So we get quieter.
Not out of shyness.
Out of exhaustion.
Out of apathy.
You were protecting your nervous system.
You weren’t “uninterested”.
You were overstimulated.
You weren’t “self-isolating”.
You were seeking safety.
They called it avoidance.
But it was preservation.
This is the life of the autistic human.
You were protecting your nervous system.
You weren’t “uninterested”.
You were overstimulated.
You weren’t “self-isolating”.
You were seeking safety.
They called it avoidance.
But it was preservation.
This is the life of the autistic human.