👻🐈‍⬛ Ben Paites (but Spooky) 🧙‍♀️🐉
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Senior Curator at Colchester Museums. Mainly Roman archaeology and LGBTQ+ history. Also cat dad to Artemis and enthusiastic Gaymer. He/Him Author of 50 LGBTQ+ Finds: https://www.amberley-books.com/50-lgbtq-finds.html Website: https://www.ben-paites.com
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Today is the day! My book is finally available to buy. After years of work, I’m so excited to finally share it with the world! But this isn’t the end. I will be promoting the book across the country over the next year, so stay tuned for more info.
#BookLaunch
A man with short dark hair and a short beard in a cream jumper holding a book. The book title reads “50 LGBTQ+ Finds” and is dark brown in colour with a picture of an object on the front in the form of a bust that is green in colour.
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The Romans got EVERYWHERE so I wouldn’t be too surprised.
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I’ve watched to much true crime and horror to know that barns are where you keep the bodies 😶
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I’ve just found out Jilly Cooper was born in the town next to where I grew up?! 🙃
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Maybe I’ll need naps in between sessions this week…
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I don’t think I was clear-headed a single morning of that conference. Now I’m a little older I’m not sure I could handle that.
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I’m speaking at the #MAConference this Wednesday. Very excited to hear the other speakers for what will be an incredible few days in Cardiff.
Who else will be there?

This was me during the Brighton conference in 2019 (Photo by Dan Vo)
@museumsassociation.org #Museums2025
A man with a rainbow cape pouting at the camera.
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Day 5 - Hermes Psychopompos
#ClassicTober #ClassicsTober25
An image of the god Hermes with a winged hat and a short tunic, holding a torch in his left hand and reaching out to a spirit, covered in a shroud, with his right arm. Below is the Greek for Hermes Psychompos.
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Hypnos 💤🪽 for #ClassicsTober Day 1!
Art by flaroh illustration. A portrait bust of the god Hypnos with red wings on either side of his head. Illustrated with a green and red and black palette
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See how far I can keep this up. Only doing spooky sketches on my phone.
Day 1 - Hypnos
#ClassicsTober #ClassicsTober25
A chalk drawing on a black background. It shows swirling eyes a nose and mouth with wings either side. The Greek for Hypnos is written below.
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As someone who went to Cambridge, I’d say it’s vers. It can certainly fuck you, but it also gives you great joy when you’re inside it.

Oxford is a needy bottom.
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"If we lose hope, we're doomed."

We must continue Dr. Jane Goodall's mission and all fight for the future of the planet.
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I’ve just spotted my book is for sale on the @britishlibrary.bsky.social shop! How exciting 🥳🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
#50LGBTQfinds
A screenshot of the British Library website showing the book 50 LGBTQ+ Finds for sale.