Showing Up Isn’t Enough: Learning to be Better
@beyondshowingup.bsky.social
Showing up isn’t enough. Writing about love, attachment, boundaries, and learning the difference between effort and capacity
Pinned
I’m writing about a relationship that didn’t work—and more importantly, what it showed me about myself.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
I’m writing about a relationship that didn’t work—and more importantly, what it showed me about myself.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
February 6, 2026 at 5:32 AM
I’m writing about a relationship that didn’t work—and more importantly, what it showed me about myself.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
Not in a “here’s what she did wrong” way.
More in a “here’s where I stayed when I should have listened to myself” way.
Today, I choose to love myself more than someone who never truly valued me. I choose to love myself enough to know I am worth it. I choose to love myself enough to know I’m worthy of everything I want in this life.
February 6, 2026 at 5:21 AM
Today, I choose to love myself more than someone who never truly valued me. I choose to love myself enough to know I am worth it. I choose to love myself enough to know I’m worthy of everything I want in this life.