Darragh Hayes
@blueridgemere.bsky.social
40, rural Appalachian, your friendly neighborhood transmasc librarian. Generally found writing, reading, trying to play Irish trad music on the guitar, or bumbling around in a video game when I'm not wrangling 2 kiddos.
- I'm leaning toward playing with the poly mod on because if I get one shot at this storyline with GF, we're gonna f around because I want to maximize the experience 🤣
- Is it worth it to try an origin playthrough? I keep thinking I'll miss the voice acting of anybody too much...
- Is it worth it to try an origin playthrough? I keep thinking I'll miss the voice acting of anybody too much...
November 1, 2025 at 10:21 PM
- I'm leaning toward playing with the poly mod on because if I get one shot at this storyline with GF, we're gonna f around because I want to maximize the experience 🤣
- Is it worth it to try an origin playthrough? I keep thinking I'll miss the voice acting of anybody too much...
- Is it worth it to try an origin playthrough? I keep thinking I'll miss the voice acting of anybody too much...
- GF will be staying with me and is looking forward to watching the story unfold. It's her first time. I haven't done the Durge storyline all the way through yet (either one) - dobI want to traumatize her with squirrel-kicking and murder?
November 1, 2025 at 10:21 PM
- GF will be staying with me and is looking forward to watching the story unfold. It's her first time. I haven't done the Durge storyline all the way through yet (either one) - dobI want to traumatize her with squirrel-kicking and murder?
It is never too early for ice cold Coke...
September 16, 2025 at 2:09 PM
It is never too early for ice cold Coke...
Sending you writerly hugs 🫂
September 15, 2025 at 11:59 AM
Sending you writerly hugs 🫂
As I told my girlfriend, the motivation behind me thinking of reporting it is a feeling of "I WANT YOU TO KNOW I'M NOT STUPID" thing but that in and of itself is kinda stupid 🤦🤣😭😭😭
September 11, 2025 at 5:18 PM
As I told my girlfriend, the motivation behind me thinking of reporting it is a feeling of "I WANT YOU TO KNOW I'M NOT STUPID" thing but that in and of itself is kinda stupid 🤦🤣😭😭😭
Mulling over - with the time stamp and exact location and a witness (my girlfriend in the car), is it smart to call the Sheriff's Dept and... I don't even know what I'd do. Lodge a complaint? "Anyway, tell that guy he was wrong"? A part of me wants to do *something* and not let it go but also 😬😬😬
September 11, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Mulling over - with the time stamp and exact location and a witness (my girlfriend in the car), is it smart to call the Sheriff's Dept and... I don't even know what I'd do. Lodge a complaint? "Anyway, tell that guy he was wrong"? A part of me wants to do *something* and not let it go but also 😬😬😬
I saw this and went AHA I DO HAVE CAMERAS but he was too far away to see much - best still pic I could get was of his vehicle pulling out
September 11, 2025 at 5:09 PM
I saw this and went AHA I DO HAVE CAMERAS but he was too far away to see much - best still pic I could get was of his vehicle pulling out
Sharing this because I was already wound up about it before other world events happened, and now I am struggling to keep myself grounded and resilient and not give into feeling jumpy as fuck. Fuck.
September 11, 2025 at 4:52 PM
Sharing this because I was already wound up about it before other world events happened, and now I am struggling to keep myself grounded and resilient and not give into feeling jumpy as fuck. Fuck.
Do I just pull the band-aid off and do it? Do I ask my coworkers how we'd collectively feel about not putting our names below our photos? (Head librarian has already nixed the "Librarian Not Appearing In This Presentation" ala Monty Python label, so I tried that...)
August 26, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Do I just pull the band-aid off and do it? Do I ask my coworkers how we'd collectively feel about not putting our names below our photos? (Head librarian has already nixed the "Librarian Not Appearing In This Presentation" ala Monty Python label, so I tried that...)
Now planning to paint it green and add a little sign that says "No Entrance Except On Potty Business" 😁
August 5, 2025 at 9:03 PM
Now planning to paint it green and add a little sign that says "No Entrance Except On Potty Business" 😁
(Also here with the "boy" Halloween costumes, highlights including Frodo Baggins in 5th grade and Dave Lister from Red Dwarf in college 🤣)
July 28, 2025 at 1:44 PM
(Also here with the "boy" Halloween costumes, highlights including Frodo Baggins in 5th grade and Dave Lister from Red Dwarf in college 🤣)
I had an almost exact similar experience when I Konmari-ed my house back in 2022, and I didn't realize until reading this how much that was a part of my coming to terms with my gender journey.
July 28, 2025 at 1:43 PM
I had an almost exact similar experience when I Konmari-ed my house back in 2022, and I didn't realize until reading this how much that was a part of my coming to terms with my gender journey.