Would I appreciate my husband's calm and kind demeanor as much if I hadn't had so many front row seats to violence?

Would I be another stuck up bitch without my trauma?

...AM I another stuck up bitch who doesn't get what that pain and betrayal feels like?

#KeepsMeUpAtNight

I had love. Not saying I'm unloved.

Bro's friends told me (much later) he enlisted the entire skatepark to beat up the first guy who broke my heart (found out he was "cheating" via MySpace 😹).

Would I be different if he'd been more open?

If he hadn't been so physically aggressive towards us?