In Cancun, with my husband, scouting the area during our trip for IVF eating tacos by the seaside

Me: "The best thing about being poly is if you were there ever was, it would be enough. But it doesn't have to be!" Him: "Yeah it could be some!
Me: "I mean it's most, really"
Him: "Yeah, it's most"

This is Toba. He is a fluffy cuddle bug who terrorizes his adopted sister and demands cuddles at least twice a day.

Sagan was a prophet.

One minute straight of loud purring and affection that is so overwhelming she just cannot stop moving #catskies

I wonder if it will become necessary, or already is necessary, to cycle through new social media providers every 3 to 5 years. My understanding of the model of how websites like this work is at first it’s all about the user and building a base, thus there are no ads and …

Just been reminded of the greatest misprint I ever did see in an 18th century book

But have you gazed upon the exquisite visage of my cat?!

"We could not choose to leave the silos even if we wanted to: they are being constructed around us, demanding ever-steeper admission fees to ever-shrinking cultural conversations."

-- THEY KNEW (2022)

I miss the heyday of Facebook so much because I miss reading the long form writings and status updates of my close friends. I go on there still, looking for a shadow of the observations, conversations, rants, engagements there used to be and nothing remains. But it’s a lost cause and I feel I am now