brynstigram.bsky.social
@brynstigram.bsky.social
Like why not have an equivalent to smart shuffle? Why not have the radios you make from songs actually easy to locate?
January 19, 2026 at 7:28 PM
Also a global tour is not global if it’s only for the northern hemisphere
January 9, 2026 at 1:13 AM
It’s like a garden. You cannot water it once every 6 months and expect abundance. Sure maybe one or two neglected buds might survive on their own sheer willpower but mostly you’ll have a barren patch where nothing grows.
January 6, 2026 at 7:26 PM
To be crystal clear this is not about long distance friendships, and there is no level of busy that means in 5 months you cannot find a single spare hour to check in with a friend.

If you value people in your life you will make time to spend with them. Relationships require investment
January 6, 2026 at 7:26 PM
It also works on the premise that you’re keeping count as well which with the exception of those with transmittable conditions seems weird tbh
December 1, 2025 at 9:38 PM
I’m the type of person who would immediately leave that conversation laughing coz the question itself tells me everything I need to know about the person asking but even if I was to entertain it…I would simply lie because there is no reason not to in a culture still dedicated to sexual shame
December 1, 2025 at 9:36 PM
It’s so strange to me that a bad faith question is expected to have a good faith answer? There is nothing in that kind of interaction that would compel me to be truthful because it’s accusatory and based in extreme insecurity. Why would I honour or reward that with vulnerablity and openness?
December 1, 2025 at 9:36 PM