C3xJ
c3xj.bsky.social
C3xJ
@c3xj.bsky.social
Simple human, simple life, dog dad, Plant nerd, Teach marching band/colorguard, creative mind, love outdoors, POGO lvl45 - yet introverted.
#hoodia I’m s starting to open up!
July 9, 2025 at 8:24 PM
Chat GPT says this is me as a dog. I agree! #ai #chatgpt #measadog
May 16, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Boysenberry Churro at Knotts Berry Farm

#churro #knottsberryfarm
April 29, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Went for a walk today to Starbucks which is about 1.5miles away from home. And it really got my brain thinking how roadways are not accessible for pedestrians let alone ADA accessible. This road has signs saying not trespassing on railway property and also no sidewalks but here is a bus stop.
April 21, 2025 at 2:21 AM
My #drygarden starting to paint with colors. Hopefully the soap aloe flowers will spike up to add orange in the sea green, purples and yellows.
#xeric #drygarden #droughttollerant #zone9b
April 19, 2025 at 2:24 AM
I let my yard and house go to waste the past 2 years while I was seriously deep into my depression. I finally talked to my neighbor yesterday and apologized for how horrible of a neighbor I’ve been. He was very understanding and I felt a little more free. I’m just embarrassed for everything.
April 9, 2025 at 6:40 PM
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March 10, 2025 at 7:49 AM
The Four Rooms, about a year ago or so, I was asked by @davidwichman.bsky.social to join him on something blindly & Im glad I did. He lead the meetings on topics regarding sex and the self impact from different walks of life. Can’t wait to get this book started & how it’s layered for the reader. 😅
March 10, 2025 at 1:59 AM
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I'm joining the AIDS/LifeCycle Roadies Rock! and New Bear Republic! teams as a Roadie supporting the food service team at this year's ride from SF to LA. have been quite lax about fundraising but I hope to bring in a little more for the cause.

giving.aidslifecycle.org/index.cfm?fu...
Help me End AIDS with AIDS/LifeCycle 2025!
I'm supporting AIDS/LifeCycle 2025 to help support the life-changing services of San Francisco AIDS Foundation and the Los Angeles LGBT Center. Will you join in our mission End AIDS?
giving.aidslifecycle.org
March 5, 2025 at 10:48 PM
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Family includes everyone! ❤️
November 17, 2024 at 9:40 PM
30second exposure on iPhone.

Capturing clouds, city light, water, reflection and stars

The BF opened his door and his break lights shined on the tree. Happy accident.

#camping
#outdoor
February 28, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Mini daffodils finally opened up!
February 25, 2025 at 4:31 PM
Soft Launch!

I feel at peace here!
February 23, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Incredible birthday weekend, started off at a mini resort hotel in the valley and then ended with camping

#birthday
#gay
February 23, 2025 at 5:12 PM
In weird turn of events, I met someone who I’m chatting with. And it feels so good!

Things I like:
• He is around my age
• Not a city gay
• He gets along with his family
• Not afraid to eat jack in the box 😂
• Understands how much touch communication is important to me
• we want to take this slow
February 10, 2025 at 6:15 AM
going year 2 without you. I’m going to remember you, celebrate you, forever grieve, and same time trying to hold space to celebrate my birthday or reason to this month. I’ll always love you Todd but youre a jerk for dying on my birthday.
February 4, 2025 at 3:40 AM
Low energy and feeling extremely lonely today. With what’s happening in this country & the lack of in person human connection is really taking a toll. Pent up trauma that no one asked if I’m okay but they know about really questions if there are really good ppl out there.

I want a hug and cry…
February 4, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Another atmospheric river coming down on Northern California.

#california
February 1, 2025 at 8:13 PM
I can’t wait to go back to #Yosemite when it gets warmer to discover new trails. I took this photo with my iPhone near Clark Point last year.
January 28, 2025 at 6:34 PM
My main succulent/cacti/weird plant collection. Majority are dormant and havnt been watered since late fall. When spring hits, they will get their 1st drink and hopefully induced flowering.

#plantsky
#cacti #succulents
January 21, 2025 at 6:00 AM
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So you found your way here from TikTok. First impression, it's not quite what you were expecting, but all of that is about to change. Programs like @flashesapp.bsky.social and @skylight.social are on the way, and they are going to be a game changer.
January 19, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Soaking in the sun for my own peace

#suburbiagay
#gay
January 20, 2025 at 12:37 AM
No I will not go back to TikTok after that PR stunt.

We have a choice to choose a poison that you want or don’t want to use.

Almost over a few million views on my videos in the TT world, just not going back
January 19, 2025 at 10:34 PM
I have no shame for using TikTok - I used it and created videos to teach new coaches/instructors on how to approach their programs. I planned ahead and saved the videos I wanted so that I have it for whatever platform it can be used to educate those in my niche work field and helped a few folks!
January 19, 2025 at 4:39 AM
When I lived in Washington DC - I use to go to Velvet Nations every week! This was my introduction to the gay culture.

#gayculture #velvetnation #washingtondc #gaydc
January 15, 2025 at 5:55 PM