🔞 Bear Wolfie
@chasingfuzz.bsky.social
26🏳️🌈 | NSFW-ish - you're warned | INFP | Healing from my past, finding ways to be me | ADHD Tech Nerd | kinda furry, kinda bear, mostly wild
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🔞 Bear Wolfie
@chasingfuzz.bsky.social
· Oct 13
Heya! I'm Wolfie. I guess this profile is sorta just trying to figure out myself and what makes me tick.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
Sometimes, I get scared that I'm slowing down, maybe falling into a routine.
And then I decided to take my car interior apart at 11 pm
And then I decided to take my car interior apart at 11 pm
December 23, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Sometimes, I get scared that I'm slowing down, maybe falling into a routine.
And then I decided to take my car interior apart at 11 pm
And then I decided to take my car interior apart at 11 pm
Got the chance to attend my first bears x pups Christmas event a few nights ago. What an amazing community of self-acceptance and supporting recovery from the various hard chapters of life
It felt warm, authentic, enriching, really enjoyed it, definitely would go again
It felt warm, authentic, enriching, really enjoyed it, definitely would go again
December 22, 2025 at 2:07 PM
Got the chance to attend my first bears x pups Christmas event a few nights ago. What an amazing community of self-acceptance and supporting recovery from the various hard chapters of life
It felt warm, authentic, enriching, really enjoyed it, definitely would go again
It felt warm, authentic, enriching, really enjoyed it, definitely would go again
The complex emotions you have to process when a close friend says "oh i think $(person who did you wrong) is so great, really awesome, we're so close."
Like it's not your place to ruin their friendship, but you also don't want to pretend everything is fine either
Like it's not your place to ruin their friendship, but you also don't want to pretend everything is fine either
December 14, 2025 at 5:32 PM
The complex emotions you have to process when a close friend says "oh i think $(person who did you wrong) is so great, really awesome, we're so close."
Like it's not your place to ruin their friendship, but you also don't want to pretend everything is fine either
Like it's not your place to ruin their friendship, but you also don't want to pretend everything is fine either
Considering that there's only a few weeks left of the year, I'm desperately trying not to sprint to the end and burn myself out.
Slow and steady....
Slow and steady....
December 9, 2025 at 2:56 PM
Considering that there's only a few weeks left of the year, I'm desperately trying not to sprint to the end and burn myself out.
Slow and steady....
Slow and steady....
Found a song about the intricacies of meeting a partner that isn't perfect, and instead of running away, you meet them where they are, and if they're overwhelmed, you wait beside them providing support.
And that they'll do that for you as well.
I didn't know how I could relate to this so well??
And that they'll do that for you as well.
I didn't know how I could relate to this so well??
November 29, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Found a song about the intricacies of meeting a partner that isn't perfect, and instead of running away, you meet them where they are, and if they're overwhelmed, you wait beside them providing support.
And that they'll do that for you as well.
I didn't know how I could relate to this so well??
And that they'll do that for you as well.
I didn't know how I could relate to this so well??
Shoutout to the folks who told me to get back in contact with my narcissistic mother
It's been almost 10 years, she still doesn't want to talk.
The feeling is mutual, but thanks for the advice, i guess?
It's been almost 10 years, she still doesn't want to talk.
The feeling is mutual, but thanks for the advice, i guess?
November 25, 2025 at 10:59 AM
Shoutout to the folks who told me to get back in contact with my narcissistic mother
It's been almost 10 years, she still doesn't want to talk.
The feeling is mutual, but thanks for the advice, i guess?
It's been almost 10 years, she still doesn't want to talk.
The feeling is mutual, but thanks for the advice, i guess?
Turned 26 and was asked what my plans were.
Honestly? I didn't expect to make it this far, and I'm thankful for all my friends helping me get to this point.
No goals, no plans, just a nevef ending adventure of learning, authenticity, great food, and awesome memories with amazing friends
Honestly? I didn't expect to make it this far, and I'm thankful for all my friends helping me get to this point.
No goals, no plans, just a nevef ending adventure of learning, authenticity, great food, and awesome memories with amazing friends
November 20, 2025 at 1:46 PM
Turned 26 and was asked what my plans were.
Honestly? I didn't expect to make it this far, and I'm thankful for all my friends helping me get to this point.
No goals, no plans, just a nevef ending adventure of learning, authenticity, great food, and awesome memories with amazing friends
Honestly? I didn't expect to make it this far, and I'm thankful for all my friends helping me get to this point.
No goals, no plans, just a nevef ending adventure of learning, authenticity, great food, and awesome memories with amazing friends
I get that there are lows and highs, but holy crap, you'd think a high appears at some point.
I've been exhausted lately, and just sorta...in conserve energy mode? Trying my best but feeling like I'm letting myself down and punishing myself more than I should.
I've been exhausted lately, and just sorta...in conserve energy mode? Trying my best but feeling like I'm letting myself down and punishing myself more than I should.
November 17, 2025 at 5:28 PM
I get that there are lows and highs, but holy crap, you'd think a high appears at some point.
I've been exhausted lately, and just sorta...in conserve energy mode? Trying my best but feeling like I'm letting myself down and punishing myself more than I should.
I've been exhausted lately, and just sorta...in conserve energy mode? Trying my best but feeling like I'm letting myself down and punishing myself more than I should.
A large part of me trying to figure out why my own authenticity matters to me now more than anything else would require a bit of a backstory, so let's go for that.
I've spent a really large part of my life fawning to survive, as is the regular case for anyone in an active trauma.
I've spent a really large part of my life fawning to survive, as is the regular case for anyone in an active trauma.
November 12, 2025 at 3:34 PM
A large part of me trying to figure out why my own authenticity matters to me now more than anything else would require a bit of a backstory, so let's go for that.
I've spent a really large part of my life fawning to survive, as is the regular case for anyone in an active trauma.
I've spent a really large part of my life fawning to survive, as is the regular case for anyone in an active trauma.
had some large adult toys arrive, I knew what I was getting into with them, but still kinda disappointed?? Thought they'd be more of a challenge
November 11, 2025 at 1:16 PM
had some large adult toys arrive, I knew what I was getting into with them, but still kinda disappointed?? Thought they'd be more of a challenge
It's sorta wild that you can be in a mood, and your brain will subconsciously look out for ways to regulate.
A certain genre or playlist of music, specific foods, lollies, or even alcohol. It's all an attempt to regulate.
You may even seek someone out and just talking to them or being around them
A certain genre or playlist of music, specific foods, lollies, or even alcohol. It's all an attempt to regulate.
You may even seek someone out and just talking to them or being around them
November 9, 2025 at 1:06 PM
It's sorta wild that you can be in a mood, and your brain will subconsciously look out for ways to regulate.
A certain genre or playlist of music, specific foods, lollies, or even alcohol. It's all an attempt to regulate.
You may even seek someone out and just talking to them or being around them
A certain genre or playlist of music, specific foods, lollies, or even alcohol. It's all an attempt to regulate.
You may even seek someone out and just talking to them or being around them
My brain made an analogy last night while I was at my local bear den night, and I really liked it.
November 9, 2025 at 4:13 AM
My brain made an analogy last night while I was at my local bear den night, and I really liked it.
I won't lie. It stings when you find out that a friend was within 400m of your work and didn't even flick a message or come for coffee or anything....
Despite agreeing to it literally a week before
Despite agreeing to it literally a week before
November 8, 2025 at 8:57 AM
I won't lie. It stings when you find out that a friend was within 400m of your work and didn't even flick a message or come for coffee or anything....
Despite agreeing to it literally a week before
Despite agreeing to it literally a week before
See, like, I've always wanted to make an AD account, but my brain gets stuck on the idea of looking outwards to strangers for validation.
I feel like it would be a slippery slope, and I don't really want to do that.
I feel like it would be a slippery slope, and I don't really want to do that.
November 4, 2025 at 9:37 AM
See, like, I've always wanted to make an AD account, but my brain gets stuck on the idea of looking outwards to strangers for validation.
I feel like it would be a slippery slope, and I don't really want to do that.
I feel like it would be a slippery slope, and I don't really want to do that.
I like how the latest "i saw this and thought of you" is just memes.
It's like little showers of micro-affection.
Even if you're low energy, it still shows folks you care about them and think of them
It's like little showers of micro-affection.
Even if you're low energy, it still shows folks you care about them and think of them
November 3, 2025 at 4:54 PM
I like how the latest "i saw this and thought of you" is just memes.
It's like little showers of micro-affection.
Even if you're low energy, it still shows folks you care about them and think of them
It's like little showers of micro-affection.
Even if you're low energy, it still shows folks you care about them and think of them
Imagine laying on the couch and copping a burrito to the balls.
No, really.
Thanks boyfie, where would I be without your aim?
No, really.
Thanks boyfie, where would I be without your aim?
November 2, 2025 at 1:31 PM
Imagine laying on the couch and copping a burrito to the balls.
No, really.
Thanks boyfie, where would I be without your aim?
No, really.
Thanks boyfie, where would I be without your aim?
Someone should really study the "traumatised adult -> fetish" pipeline
October 28, 2025 at 4:56 PM
Someone should really study the "traumatised adult -> fetish" pipeline
Had friends come over this weekend and on cue, the post hangout depression begins.
See, I don't think it is depression, or even a variant of it. I think it's one's emotional and nervous system calming down and regulating back to day to day emotions.
You have all the highs. Gotta come down sometime
See, I don't think it is depression, or even a variant of it. I think it's one's emotional and nervous system calming down and regulating back to day to day emotions.
You have all the highs. Gotta come down sometime
October 26, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Had friends come over this weekend and on cue, the post hangout depression begins.
See, I don't think it is depression, or even a variant of it. I think it's one's emotional and nervous system calming down and regulating back to day to day emotions.
You have all the highs. Gotta come down sometime
See, I don't think it is depression, or even a variant of it. I think it's one's emotional and nervous system calming down and regulating back to day to day emotions.
You have all the highs. Gotta come down sometime
It's funny how one's views and opinions can change over the years
I used to avoid the local gay sauna. In my mind, it felt....I dunno, sleazy?
But 18 months ago, I decided to go and give it a shot. It feels....warm? welcoming? Like I can ignore the world and focus on me for a while.
I used to avoid the local gay sauna. In my mind, it felt....I dunno, sleazy?
But 18 months ago, I decided to go and give it a shot. It feels....warm? welcoming? Like I can ignore the world and focus on me for a while.
October 19, 2025 at 12:43 PM
It's funny how one's views and opinions can change over the years
I used to avoid the local gay sauna. In my mind, it felt....I dunno, sleazy?
But 18 months ago, I decided to go and give it a shot. It feels....warm? welcoming? Like I can ignore the world and focus on me for a while.
I used to avoid the local gay sauna. In my mind, it felt....I dunno, sleazy?
But 18 months ago, I decided to go and give it a shot. It feels....warm? welcoming? Like I can ignore the world and focus on me for a while.
Ngl, I was wicked excited to attend a gay men's rave but found that after such a heavy week, I really wanted to just stay home.
I shouldn't be disappointed in myself for that, but I'm pretty sure my body has a check engine light after this week.
I shouldn't be disappointed in myself for that, but I'm pretty sure my body has a check engine light after this week.
October 18, 2025 at 8:35 PM
Ngl, I was wicked excited to attend a gay men's rave but found that after such a heavy week, I really wanted to just stay home.
I shouldn't be disappointed in myself for that, but I'm pretty sure my body has a check engine light after this week.
I shouldn't be disappointed in myself for that, but I'm pretty sure my body has a check engine light after this week.
Casual reminder that joking about trauma tends to scare people. It's not my fault that it's ✨️just that funny✨️
October 14, 2025 at 12:19 PM
Casual reminder that joking about trauma tends to scare people. It's not my fault that it's ✨️just that funny✨️
Heya! I'm Wolfie. I guess this profile is sorta just trying to figure out myself and what makes me tick.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
October 13, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Heya! I'm Wolfie. I guess this profile is sorta just trying to figure out myself and what makes me tick.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
I'm involved in my local furry and bear scenes, and I also enjoy music and going on wild adventures driving throughout the night.
Expect me to also analyse my own thoughts and behaviours.
Imagine going to a rave and then promptly dying
October 13, 2025 at 6:51 AM
Imagine going to a rave and then promptly dying