Clare
clareisfree.bsky.social
Clare
@clareisfree.bsky.social
Immigrant. Fmr sport fighter. Fmr 1st responder. Partially disabled, full time STEM student despite extreme (49) oldness. Inveterate mystery addict. ASD. Writerish. I try to be an excellent ally but pull me over if you see me eff that up. She/her 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
She does, & that's a great idea, ty!
December 20, 2025 at 3:57 AM
It absolutely will, I really do have to be super careful about that stuff bc I am such a klutz. but Ive gotten really good at it & now I'm emboldened on her behalf, safety will happen!
December 20, 2025 at 3:46 AM
Thank god no, I try to keep her off any stairs & I'm going to use this shamelessly against her in the future to help in that regard. She tripped over a stupid iPad cable. I told her that we are decluttering her spaces bc it's too gd dangerous! I've always been clumsy so I learned to Clare proof.
December 20, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Ty! They just took her back for X-rays so we'll find out how severe this is. She was in a bonkers amount of pain, but morphine is now on board so she's happier. I hope to god she doesn't need surgery, poor thing.

The sound was so loud I was just SO relieved not to find blood in her hair.
December 20, 2025 at 2:10 AM
That's what I found out! They only officially became the state of Rhode Island in 2020, before it was technically Rhode Island for the island(s) & Providence Plantations for the mainland. Really glad they fixed it, i don't want to live in anything w/"plantation" in the name.
December 18, 2025 at 9:15 PM
I love that you accommodated her not wanting to sit with Santa. I was forced to & I hated it so much! That you guys have made a fun tradition of it is awesome, happy holidays to you both!
December 18, 2025 at 1:45 AM
As I just said to bff, Estonia is a NATO country & although Russia retreated, this all has a hella "who cares about some Austrian kid in Sarajevo" vibes.
December 18, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Honestly it might be both, but he definitely doesn't think I know how to take care of him so he worries mummy won't come back.

Plus he ended up at the shelter bc his people got divorced & neither would take him, he remembers. He was 11! & he is the sweetest, chillest puppy I hate those people.
December 16, 2025 at 7:09 PM