Clare
clareisfree.bsky.social
Clare
@clareisfree.bsky.social
Immigrant. Fmr sport fighter. Fmr 1st responder. Partially disabled, full time STEM student despite extreme (49) oldness. Inveterate mystery addict. ASD. Writerish. I try to be an excellent ally but pull me over if you see me eff that up. She/her 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
Bff's elder kitty never approaches her unless she's asleep, when he does secret sniffies of her paws & snoot, but today Harry appears to just be judging the heck out of napping Xena.
December 18, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Bff & I were talking about places I'd ideally like to go to grad school, mostly New England. And that's how I found out she thought Rhode Island is an actual island. Which made me realize WHY HAVE I NEVER WONDERED ABOUT THIS?! I found the answer but I'm bothered that I never noticed this.
December 18, 2025 at 4:50 PM
Granted it's 4am but I have no idea to what shooting he's referring? I officially can't keep track of mass casualty events. Halp.
Is there any precedent in modern history for a mass shooting occurring in a public setting with 10+ casualties and the perpetrator not being apprehended? It's really hard to fathom.
December 18, 2025 at 8:53 AM
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Crockett: As he stood up today in front of the American people, he sounded like a used car salesman. Like, let me just shout it out. Buy what I'm selling. Yes. This is a lemon. Yes. He is selling nothing but lemons
December 18, 2025 at 4:55 AM
So this is just him screaming "YOU DO TOO LOVE ME!!!!" Jesus.
December 18, 2025 at 2:07 AM
So russia just invaded Estonia.
a man in a leather jacket and tie is saying cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
ALT: a man in a leather jacket and tie is saying cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
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December 18, 2025 at 12:39 AM
Xena REALLY likes to be sung to. I am not a great singer but she loves it.

Tonight's medley featured Phlotilla Going Down Fighting, Vickie Lawrence's The Night the Lights went out in Georgia, Aretha's Chain of Fools & like any west coast Gen Xer, finished w/(radio edit) It Was a Good Day, Ice Cube
December 18, 2025 at 12:33 AM
Bff is at the pain doctor & then going to the drugstore (if you have to take pills daily to stay alive, you know how horribly this can go), this is my only cheer up move (though I will also be offering her Mac & cheese upon arriving home). We're both very good wives, but now we get appreciation!
December 16, 2025 at 7:35 PM
Every time bff has to leave the house without her pup, he stands guard as long as he can, it is the cutest thing on earth.
December 16, 2025 at 6:19 PM
One of my favorite things about bff is how unbelievably gangster she is in how she deals w/her ex. Occasionally I'll ask "oh shit I bet he's mad we put up decorations out front!" (He lives in the same small town we do & hates joy) & she always is surprised bc she just...doesn't think of him.
December 16, 2025 at 2:20 AM
My American hometown back on the west coast is flooding like crazy, & a levee nearby just failed. I wish I was there with my old friends, helping. I worry for them.

We have a massive elk herd in the valley, here they are swimming on the middle school playfield. It's so bad.
December 16, 2025 at 1:28 AM
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whoever is writing reality lately is really getting heavy-handed with it. no subtlety at all
WATCH: Replica of the Statue of Liberty topples due to strong winds in Guaíba, Brazil
December 15, 2025 at 11:25 PM
One of the really fun features of living with bff, who is 13 years older than me, is she is down to learn all the Gen X stupid shit & we end up laughing our asses off. Yesterday she made the mistake of saying "ok, here's the situation." Yes I did the whole thing, she's a bloody saint.
December 16, 2025 at 1:20 AM
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If you’re telling Head Start programs they can’t say “disability”, “Black”, “female”, or “Tribal” in order to get funded—you don’t care about kids. Period.

This administration is attacking the very protections that keep children safe and supported. Our kids are not political props.
December 15, 2025 at 9:49 PM
NAILED MY STRAIGHT As yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy!
kermit the frog is dancing in front of a red curtain on a stage .
ALT: kermit the frog is dancing in front of a red curtain on a stage .
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December 15, 2025 at 10:40 PM
We are at war.
Rob Reiner was more than an amazing movie director to me.

He was one of our strongest public advocates for @TheDemCoalition, part of our Impeachment Task Force.

He was one of America's foremost voices of reason and wisest defenders of democracy.

Rob is an American treasure.
December 15, 2025 at 3:24 AM
PLEASE! Baby needs to dissociate.
CBS should make me editor-in-chief and it will be 24 hours nonstop coverage about arcane menswear rules no one knows or cares about
December 15, 2025 at 3:21 AM
I keep getting spasms in my feet, they literally look deformed when it happens, my toes contort into crazy angles.

Just took a fuck ton of muscle relaxants, hope to god it works bc I don't have insurance until 1/13 (when I can enroll through school. I think).
December 15, 2025 at 2:22 AM
So do we all think it's Venezuela? Ive never seen narcissistic collapse at this level, i don't know what to expect but honestly i don't think anything is beyond/below him.

Except actual work.
December 15, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Immigrants get the job DONE.
Wow! This man is a hero.

Watch him wrestle the rifle from one of the Bondi Beach shooters.
December 14, 2025 at 3:44 PM
Ahmed al Ahmed, a Lebanese Muslim who owns a Sydney fruit shop, risked his life to disarm one of the Bondi Beach shooters.

His courage gives me hope amidst the horror and darkness. Muslims and Jews are not enemies. Our futures, in the Middle East and beyond, are intrinsically bound.

A true hero.
December 14, 2025 at 3:06 PM
I think about this situation every single day I'm on campus of my large public university.
A gunman shot 10 people, killing two of them, at Brown University on Saturday afternoon, local officials said. Follow live updates. www.nytimes.com/live/2025/12...
December 14, 2025 at 1:49 AM
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This one isn’t downloadable but if you have TikTok go watch it. Well worth your time www.tiktok.com/t/ZTr4gRL7v/
@Mercado Media video credit #minnesota #illinois #louisiana #america
TikTok video by June Osborne
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December 13, 2025 at 3:12 AM
Kavorka is a blessing & a curse.

I have a long history of dudes I'm luke warm on becoming obsessed w/me. I still get emails regularly from a couple guys, but I just got one from a dude I literally had to have committed post break up. I mean he had issues already but yeah.
December 14, 2025 at 12:46 AM
It's snowing & purdy!
December 14, 2025 at 12:34 AM