Clare Lavery
@clerotto.bsky.social
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Creative writer, content creator ,Linguist ,trainer, activist Human Rights campaigner, Against all forms of violence against women & children Interested in systems reform & healing from trauma & adversity in education & communities Language Matters
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clerotto.bsky.social
‘Defend joy like a flag
Defend it from Lightening and melancholy
From the fools and the frauds
From rhetoric and ruptured of the heart
From the endemic and the academic’

Mario Benedetti

Sweet dreams

Drift off to Sleep
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clerotto.bsky.social
The sky ablaze tonight
clerotto.bsky.social
The struggle with vulnerability is a main barrier to receiving or giving Love
The Walls we raise to keep out danger after violence or disappointment keep us from any challenge to uncomfortable feelings or real love

My morning tea break I sing to WALLS 🎵
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clerotto.bsky.social
#LanguageMatters in the giving of Love & Care

Where do we learn these lessons?
How does context of Loving matter so much?
What is the relationship between Love & Violence?
Why do Men hurt women or children they claim to Love?

An excellent reflection
#Masculinity
#DVAM
#CulturalContext
#Love
thedailypanda.bsky.social
How can we as men learn to love & be vulnerable with others, and why is love a transformative social force against violence? Why do we need to decolonise gender? We discuss on the latest episode of #NowandMen with the hugely insightful Prof of Psychology Kopano Ratele! nowandmen.net/episode/kopa...
Episode 58 of the Now and Men podcast with Prof Kopano Ratele
clerotto.bsky.social
Stay in a Greenhouse cage
Or let your growth shatter its walls
You cannot be contained

"nature felt imprisoned & sought to break free from its captor, unleashing its unstoppable force ..vegetation that has become one with the bars of its cage.”
Romain Veillon
#TuttoUnRestare
clerotto.bsky.social
A Harvest moon
Illuminates
All Truths
hidden
Harvest joy
from the scars
that silence caused

#TuttoUnRestare

raccogliere gioia dalle cicatrici che il silenzio ha causato

Gravity
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Evelyn De Morgan ‘Night & Sleep’ detail 1878
Galileo Moons
clerotto.bsky.social
#TuttoUnRestare

What stays of us is the Journey
Our perseverance through
And That is our Legacy
And nobody can replicate it
Or steal it
We are all on unique paths

Vincent Van Gogh Visits the Gallery
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The Mulberry Tree in Autumn 1889- Vincent Van Gogh
clerotto.bsky.social
"Sono sempre colpita da quanto possa essere sottile il confine tra una catastrofe e il resto del mondo."

“I'm always struck by how fine the line between catastrophe and the rest of the world can be.”

Lucy Easthope
@lucygobag.bsky.social

@unicef.org

e #TuttoUnRestare #EducationCannotWait
clerotto.bsky.social
“It is the text messages sent on the morning... The conversations cut short in the middle of an argument or the middle of a new love affair or even just asking 'What's for tea?' The end of a thread of anger or lust, hope or dejection. Love and life interrupted forever.”

― Lucy Easthope
clerotto.bsky.social
“..it was only afterwards that this period was framed neatly and bookended with a beginning and an end. At the time, you just kept putting one foot in front of the other, each time that Dawn broke”

Lucy Easthope #TuttoUnRestare

Cosa rimane dopo la tragedia?
clerotto.bsky.social
“Is not impermanence the very fragrance of our days? Flare up like flame and make big shadows I can move in. Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final."
~ Rainer Maria Rilke

#TuttoUnRestare Lean in

Bocelli
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clerotto.bsky.social
Coming back from an 8 mile hike across bridle paths carpeted in acorns
Humming country tunes
The peace of an Autumn Sunday
Though the World is presenting troubled times
We have to measure our own responses
Seek balance & detach

The Plumb Line

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clerotto.bsky.social
Thinking of my apple scrumping as I chop one for my porridge
Yesterday in a decidedly blustery orchard
Sorting through the Apples blown under trees
Some rotten to the core
Some bruised but salvageable
Some misshapen but still delicious
Like hearts 🍎🍏

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clerotto.bsky.social
#FeriteERifioriture


From your wounds your creativity is birthed

Dalle ferite nasce la creativita

This is my treasured drawing by a Milanese artist Gigi Pedroli
“La Cuccagna”

It Represents a village rich with peace & gifts
A symbol of creative fertility
clerotto.bsky.social
What looks like a single flower
May have deep & extensive roots

Your Perception is yours to interrogate

#FeriteERifioriture #VentagliDiParole
clerotto.bsky.social
#DomesticViolenceAwareness
#DVAM

This month we need to remove the ‘Domestic’ from Violence because #LanguageMatters

Domestic has connotations of trivial
Domestic simplifies #CoerciveControl
Domestic over-generalises very complex cases of serious offences

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clerotto.bsky.social
#MiaMadreTerra

We begin building a home Land
from the 1st moment of play
If we build it inside we will be strong they say

Where is my Land?
Mother pray for me
Now I have crossed the Sea 🙏

La Mia Terra

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clerotto.bsky.social
Madre terra. Earth Mother
Terra Madre Mother Earth

Terra Madre -Homeland
Our Language & Identity are entwined in notion of Home.
Take my tongue, you take my Home.
Take my home, you cut my tongue

Time for a homeland dance
#MiaMadreTerra
@VentagliP

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clerotto.bsky.social
#CoerciveControl is a mind game theft

Your Favourite Sky?
Don’t tell them your favourite skies
‘These are a few of my favourite things’ you sing 🎶 🎶
You give them too much of YOU
To Shame
Unsuspecting in your Trust
Their mask
then steals your Sky

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clerotto.bsky.social
The meeting of souls is a meeting of energies
Some will darken our skies
Our Northern Skies of promise
It's our job alone to show
Discernment
Do not allow the darkness of Others
toxic mind games
suffocate your Light 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

Thank God it's Friday guys