Kat
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Kat
@cosmicallyurs.bsky.social
· Mar 29
I don't know who needs to hear this, but accusations from a narcissist are actually confessions.
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Keeping a "Scorecard" of wrongs and
constantly bringing up your past mistakes during to keep you feeling guilty and on the defense is not love. Love does not keep a scorecard.
constantly bringing up your past mistakes during to keep you feeling guilty and on the defense is not love. Love does not keep a scorecard.
August 19, 2025 at 11:52 PM
Keeping a "Scorecard" of wrongs and
constantly bringing up your past mistakes during to keep you feeling guilty and on the defense is not love. Love does not keep a scorecard.
constantly bringing up your past mistakes during to keep you feeling guilty and on the defense is not love. Love does not keep a scorecard.
Narcissists depend on validation like it’s oxygen.
August 13, 2025 at 1:38 PM
Narcissists depend on validation like it’s oxygen.
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Incels fantasy posts are hilarious.
1. My wife won't give me sex
2. My wife only wants money
3. I tricked her and now I am going to get a bunch of money and never have to do anything
4. Now she regrets not giving me sex, that gold digger!
Ha ha ha ha ha....
1. My wife won't give me sex
2. My wife only wants money
3. I tricked her and now I am going to get a bunch of money and never have to do anything
4. Now she regrets not giving me sex, that gold digger!
Ha ha ha ha ha....
August 6, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Incels fantasy posts are hilarious.
1. My wife won't give me sex
2. My wife only wants money
3. I tricked her and now I am going to get a bunch of money and never have to do anything
4. Now she regrets not giving me sex, that gold digger!
Ha ha ha ha ha....
1. My wife won't give me sex
2. My wife only wants money
3. I tricked her and now I am going to get a bunch of money and never have to do anything
4. Now she regrets not giving me sex, that gold digger!
Ha ha ha ha ha....
If someone says that it's YOUR fault for THEIR behaviors, they're gaslighting you.
August 6, 2025 at 11:07 PM
If someone says that it's YOUR fault for THEIR behaviors, they're gaslighting you.
A man who tries to humble a woman is a very insecure man but no one is ready for that conversation.
August 6, 2025 at 11:07 PM
A man who tries to humble a woman is a very insecure man but no one is ready for that conversation.
Nobody moves on faster than a narcissist who needs a place to live!
August 4, 2025 at 11:08 PM
Nobody moves on faster than a narcissist who needs a place to live!
When you realize narcissists are just cowards who use manipulation because they don’t know how to ask for what they want.
August 3, 2025 at 4:12 PM
When you realize narcissists are just cowards who use manipulation because they don’t know how to ask for what they want.
Not liking someone is perfectly okay... but making up lies to destroy their character is NOT okay.
July 31, 2025 at 9:06 PM
Not liking someone is perfectly okay... but making up lies to destroy their character is NOT okay.
Running a smear campaign is a telltale sign someone is a narcissist. Narcissism 101.
July 31, 2025 at 9:06 PM
Running a smear campaign is a telltale sign someone is a narcissist. Narcissism 101.
Narcissists hate that you don’t need their approval to be good. Keep shining.
July 31, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Narcissists hate that you don’t need their approval to be good. Keep shining.
Narcissists target people who have the very traits they lack. They will suck the light right out if you allow them to.
July 31, 2025 at 7:27 PM
Narcissists target people who have the very traits they lack. They will suck the light right out if you allow them to.
The bigger their ego, the lower their self-esteem. 🚩
July 30, 2025 at 10:19 PM
The bigger their ego, the lower their self-esteem. 🚩
Next time someone tries to bring you down, remember this:
Confidence is quiet. Insecurity is loud.
Confidence is quiet. Insecurity is loud.
July 30, 2025 at 3:25 PM
Next time someone tries to bring you down, remember this:
Confidence is quiet. Insecurity is loud.
Confidence is quiet. Insecurity is loud.
Narcissists devalue people they envy.
If this doesn't work, they attempt to destroy them.
If this doesn't work, they attempt to destroy them.
July 30, 2025 at 3:24 PM
Narcissists devalue people they envy.
If this doesn't work, they attempt to destroy them.
If this doesn't work, they attempt to destroy them.
Not everything that ends is a failure. Some relationships are lessons, some are mirrors, while others were never meant to go the distance, but they brought you closer to yourself. It’s time to let them go and allow yourself grow.
July 29, 2025 at 7:25 PM
Not everything that ends is a failure. Some relationships are lessons, some are mirrors, while others were never meant to go the distance, but they brought you closer to yourself. It’s time to let them go and allow yourself grow.
Learn the signs and prevent the heartache and trauma if possible! 🙏🏻
July 29, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Learn the signs and prevent the heartache and trauma if possible! 🙏🏻
