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Survivor.
Still here trying to teach my grown-ass husband that you get further in life if you're not always rude or passive aggressive to people
May 2, 2025 at 5:03 AM
The world is going to shit, my sister wants to leave the country....but hey, my marriage is the best it's ever been
March 5, 2025 at 3:18 PM
He hasn't lost his temper in some time, and we haven't argued in what feels like ages. It feels weird and I don't trust it.
February 8, 2025 at 2:36 AM
It's been a long week. Caught a nasty cold and started my period on our wedding anniversary. Add that to the chaos of the country, and my mental health is even further in the toilet
February 4, 2025 at 4:21 AM
How am I supposed to write sweet stuff in an anniversary card when I'm still bitter? He really is trying to do better, but I find it hard to let go of all the years he treated me like shit
January 28, 2025 at 4:51 AM
I'm tired of "I'm sorry" I want changed behavior
January 26, 2025 at 12:56 AM
You know, it's pretty bad when you can't go visit friends or family on your own because you can't trust your husband alone with the dog.
January 24, 2025 at 5:54 AM
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January 22, 2025 at 11:54 PM
It's only been two days and it feels like forever. And yes, husband told me that I have to tone down what I say. I don't have to be silent, but I can't be as outspoken as I was before.
January 22, 2025 at 5:14 AM
The husband is a federal worker. He is concerned about being outspoken against the new administration, worried it might cost him his job. I'm starting to wonder if I need to silence myself as well.
January 21, 2025 at 12:53 AM
Today, for the first time, he admitted that he knows that it will take a very long time to earn my trust back. That's the biggest sign of improvement I've seen so far. I just hope he keeps it up
January 14, 2025 at 4:46 AM
He keeps talking about bluesky. I try to keep the conversation neutral. I don't want him to find this account. Even though I haven't posted much yet, I like having the freedom to post what I want.
January 13, 2025 at 4:41 AM
I'm tired of trying to explain to a grown ass man that he should care about people outside of his family. How am I supposed to explain that? He's exhausting
December 24, 2024 at 7:48 AM
I don't know if anyone will read these.

I'm nearly 40 hubs and I have been married 13 years. I have multiple chronic illnesses that prevent me from working or driving. He knew who I was when we got married.
December 22, 2024 at 6:00 AM
I've been trying to figure out what to do with bluesky. I think I might use it to chronicle the changes my marriage is going through. I need somewhere to talk about it.
December 22, 2024 at 3:35 AM
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December 6, 2024 at 4:52 AM
The Void must be pampered

#blackcat #void
December 4, 2024 at 5:12 AM
I just want to spend a day lost in some adult gummies
December 3, 2024 at 5:30 AM
December 2, 2024 at 12:16 AM
The void demands a sacrifice.

#blackcat #void
November 30, 2024 at 1:46 AM
I'd love for some divine miracle happen and the next administration actually do some good for the country. I would happily admit that I and so many others were wrong. Unfortunately, that isn't going to happen. I'm scared for the next four years. Our government has become a joke.
November 28, 2024 at 5:16 PM
Still trying to get used to the Sky. I've always been a FB fan, so this dynamic is very new to me
November 28, 2024 at 3:55 AM
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Metal: Everything sucks, but I have my rage.
Punk: Everything sucks, but I'll focus my anger.
Rap: Everything sucks, but I know how to survive.
Folk: Everything sucks, but there is beauty.
Ska: Everything sucks, let's ignore it.
Emo: Everything sucks, and I miss you.
November 22, 2024 at 2:04 PM