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@dumari.bsky.social
void masquerading as matter

Portland area, OR
You are always a good host, there's no doubt about that at all.

But you can be a good host and still have others assist when it comes to the actual provisions.

Being a good host is more about environment than it is about providing.

I want you for the good company more than anything.
December 15, 2025 at 2:31 AM
I hope this doesn't seem judgemental because that's not what I'm trying to say...

I just feel like it's easy to feel like what you provide is being a provider, and that results in you feeling less confident about what you offer outside of that.

You are a person worth knowing irregardless.
December 15, 2025 at 12:41 AM
You deserve it, and I hope when you return you find a better middle ground.

I cherish you, but you always seemed like you felt a pressure to provide even when the expectation wasn't there.

There's no harm in that if it's what you want, but if it's a pressure you feel that will wear away at you.
December 15, 2025 at 12:39 AM
Happy birthday @degiburr.bsky.social !
December 14, 2025 at 1:41 AM
I'm terribly sorry and my heart goes out to you.

She was well taken care of, and I'm sure she felt the love she shared back with you.

I know little else matters right now, won't waste your time with it.

Take the time you need.
December 13, 2025 at 11:44 PM
You too? Relyt got sick as hell this week and I'm still not sold on it being food poisoning and not norovirus (which I theoretically dodged like a fucking pro)

I refuse to believe Dave's would try to kill him

Drake is too big a pussy
December 13, 2025 at 1:49 AM
By all means, we should and can talk amongst ourselves to vent our frustrations but that shit needs to not be screamed into the public square.

We are right to be angry, to feel under siege, and we should be BUILDING our allies not walls to keep everyone else out.

We WILL lose, we ARE losing.
December 11, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Ugh.

People so desperately want everything to be simple when it comes to dealing with anyone but themselves.

People forget they are surrounded by a million different stories endlessly being told.

More people need to exist in a state of sonder, it will make the world less stressful to exist in
December 9, 2025 at 8:07 PM
My head is bobbing but my soul is dying
December 3, 2025 at 6:16 PM
Ok but now let's see the tracks you'd use if you were starting a new Trackmania server.
December 3, 2025 at 5:48 PM
All you need is some Jane Remover on there and we have almost the exact same taste which is fucking wild to me
December 3, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Not quite Prayer to God by Shellac levels of direct but not super far off

Also God do I love Prayer to God.... Maybe I don't mind blunt emotion when it doesn't feel catered in a way that makes it feel juvenile and insincere
December 1, 2025 at 9:01 PM