Emily Tammam
@emilytammam.bsky.social
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IBCLC, mother of daughters, bereaved mother of Neve, interested in palliative care, birth and death, communication and connection, writing, painting, baking, running. Continuing Neve’s long standing tradition of ruffling feathers. www.emilytammam.co.uk
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Two years
Reflections on a toddler Neve and a list of writing, speaking, events and more, in Neve's honour, to mark two years since her death

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ioanaacristea.bsky.social
Must, must-read. Just drop everything, take an hour and read this, as I have. I wish these two parents would know that strangers like me who read their writings about their Martha will think long and hard about what happened, not forget and not be the same.
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I am thrilled to share a new piece of writing. Sabina Dosani and I wrote about maternal grief-writing as a transformative practice. The whole experience has been incredible. Needless to say, I learnt a lot!

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Maternal Grief-Writing as Transformative Practice: Life Writing: Vol 0, No 0
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This Wednesday, 30th July, the NCMD will launch a thematic report, about children with life-limiting conditions and palliative and end of life care needs. I was involved in the whole process, as a parent contributor and co-author. Including having my painting on the cover! See you on Wednesday!
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drkathrynmannix.bsky.social
'Data for the head,
Stories for the heart.'

The @ncmd.bsky.social is collecting stories from families whose child died. They will be used to illustrate what children & families found challenging & what was helpful, in a report recommending service improvements.

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ncmd.bsky.social
Next month, the NCMD will publish a report on children with life-limiting conditions and palliative and end of life care needs. Are you a bereaved parent or family member? Would you like to share your story with us?
Here's more info:
www.ncmd.info/uncategorise...
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How families can contribute to our upcoming report on life limiting conditions
Emily, a bereaved parent who has worked closely with NCMD explains how families can share their stories with us.
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Please share this widely. We are inviting families to share their stories with us. See more details here.
ncmd.bsky.social
Next month, the NCMD will publish a report on children with life-limiting conditions and palliative and end of life care needs. Are you a bereaved parent or family member? Would you like to share your story with us?
Here's more info:
www.ncmd.info/uncategorise...
@emilytammam.bsky.social
How families can contribute to our upcoming report on life limiting conditions
Emily, a bereaved parent who has worked closely with NCMD explains how families can share their stories with us.
www.ncmd.info
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paedpallcare.bsky.social
We are so lucky that @emilytammam.bsky.social is one of our parent PPI members. I was never fortunate enough to meet Neve but am very grateful to Emily for her generous sharing of her writing and painting. Please read. #pedpc
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Two years
Reflections on a toddler Neve and a list of writing, speaking, events and more, in Neve's honour, to mark two years since her death

emilytammam.substack.com/p/two-years-...
emilytammam.substack.com/p/a-list-to-...
emilytammam.bsky.social
Two years
Reflections on a toddler Neve and a list of writing, speaking, events and more, in Neve's honour, to mark two years since her death

emilytammam.substack.com/p/two-years-...
emilytammam.substack.com/p/a-list-to-...
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bedsidereading.bsky.social
Sneak preview for Tuesday 15/4 when Sabina Dosani joins me to talk about Ilse Pedlar’s poem “Visit to the Vets”
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Bluebells
And a radiant little Neve

"I could feel traces of Neve all around me - on the grass and up the trees, in the warmth of the sunshine, echoed in the screams and the squawks of the peacocks."

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As elements of the brain fog of grief and my numbness start to dissipate, it is changing how I write. Wisdom from one of Neve's doctors helped me through the early months and years. Now I feel a pull towards a bit more structure and focus, in my writing.
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jpwarchaeology.bsky.social
I talk a fair bit about the expectation that archaeologists will work for free. Even when we do get paid for appearing at events the reality can be grim. In this thread, I'm going to outline financial issues at play in giving a public lecture using a real world example...
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Painting Neve reading

Musings on reading and painting, on World Book Day
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artinsociety.bsky.social
Here's Mark Draisey’s oil portrait ‘Kitty, the Teenage Baker’, a prize-winner in the BP Portrait Award 2020 markdraisey.com/portraits
Red-haired teenaged woman, in dungarees and tightly patterned shirt, wearing cap and blue sneakers, sits on stool, holding basket of fresh-baked bread, as she look off to the right