Just because people in my past made me feel like a nuisance for similar concerns, doesn't mean everyone in my life will. It is something that has not only helped shift my perspective, but it has helped me heal from past trauma. It is a reminder that not everyone is the same. 3/3

No one made it an issue. It was resolved so easily and quickly. Something that literally made people start being disrespectful, mocking me, and turning against me in the past was just accepted and respected. I'm not inconvenient for wanting my needs and values respected. 2/3

This is beautiful and I can definitely relate. I am glad you have found people that are better for you. I think it's ok to have less friends if the ones you do have are better suited for you.

I don't have high hopes for this kind of elitism to change, but when I see people make efforts to create more inclusive, considerate, and respectful spaces within these larger communities, it warms my heart. Your efforts are commendable. Thank you. 4/4

All forms of disproportionate bias and favoritism like this have always been a turn-off for me. It makes it difficult to connect with those communities. Comparisons like this are toxic and alienating rather than unifying. 3/4

I noticed this in speedrunning and I don't miss it at all, but this happens in all competitive communities; sports, gaming, or performing arts. It is a bias that shows an extreme lack of empathy for the effort and discipline required to perform at a high-skill level. 2/4

I’ve seen this pattern repeat too often. My goal is to continue educating myself as I work with those who value accountability—combining relationship repair and conflict resolution with genuine compassion, because I want to see people be the best versions of themselves. 2/2

I've never experienced that level of kindness from in-person friends in my life. Lately, I have just been blown away by people's kindness towards us. It's the kind of experiences I never thought I'd have in this life. I felt guilty for it last night! Today, I'm just grateful. 2/2

I am still figuring out how my learning disabilities impact me everyday, but I want to be proud of my strengths and find a different approach for my weaknesses. I want to come at it from a new and more profound perspective. I am not going to give up. I'm going to keep trying. 5/5

Sometimes, I feel it is too late for me. I wish I got the support I needed much earlier, but instead of sulking I am trying to shift my focus to being grateful for meeting people who help me see that there are more options for me. I feel hopeful and excited to learn again. 4/5

Now, I am realizing that I simply needed more support for my weaknesses. I needed a different approach and mindset. I might not learn like other people without learning disabilities, but I can still learn. I can still pursue the skills and careers I always wanted to. 3/5